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572  Date: 2007-09-25 21:33:56
Lucien (Lonnie) ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello again, Caryl. I found your website looking through the links for an upcoming event. Great site! It has so much useful information. We had already e-mailed the listed contact for a "Munch" in North County near us but really didn't know what to expect of such an event. On your site there was a set of references to Munches and their history - stellar! Now we feel like we did indeed make the right contact and that it's an event suited to us. Thanks.

571  Date: 2007-09-13 23:54:06
Mitch Weiner ( / no homepage) wrote:

Love the site Caryl! Very interesting, and cant wait to see it again!

570  Date: 2007-09-08 22:45:40
Zaffe ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just read your about me page. Your tale of realization and pursuit is a refreshing testimony that I can relate with. Thank you.

569  Date: 2007-09-07 19:57:42
Mistress Spidr ( / wrote:

... and I can't seem to type today!

M Spidr

568  Date: 2007-09-07 19:56:03
Mistress Spidr ( / wrote:

This is a very nice site. I liek th epresentation.


567  Date: 2007-08-15 01:25:22
Karen Smith ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for your site it is very helpful for a newby like me.

566  Date: 2007-08-14 22:42:33
Marty Storer ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice site contents, and very nice pictures of you too!

565  Date: 2007-07-22 07:53:22
willie bolin jr ( / wrote:

hello, nice site

564  Date: 2007-06-27 02:23:06
Knotme ( / no homepage) wrote:

One of the 3 evil Phils from Spokane...miss you! Hope you are well.


563  Date: 2007-06-03 03:59:30
Master Chosen ( / no homepage) wrote:

Greetings from my family and the 720 Academy

562  Date: 2007-05-31 23:12:16
John ( / no homepage) wrote:

I thank-you for being a middle-woman a-posed to middleman for information and links as well as happenings for the lifestyle. your a beautiful soul.

561  Date: 2007-05-14 00:43:48
John ( / no homepage) wrote:

i enjoyed my visit

560  Date: 2007-03-17 03:45:58
ShySatyr ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just saying "Hello", we both know Alexndra/IceGoddess! Best, Shy-

559  Date: 2007-02-16 11:39:18
Brad ( / no homepage) wrote:

I must say Caryl, you are a very sexy woman and I'd love to chat with you sometime. I'm sure we could have some fun getting to know each other. Let me know if your interested hon...

558  Date: 2007-02-09 20:52:35
Bill Yanusaites ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just checking out the updates and saying hello

557  Date: 2007-01-31 12:15:51
matthew ( / no homepage) wrote:

hello caryl i think this is a cool page and your a very very gorgeous woman and i am looking for word to meeting you in the near future

556  Date: 2007-01-27 10:01:01
Andy ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great read been here for hours.Caryl

555  Date: 2007-01-02 09:45:09
Gato ( / wrote:

Hi Lex I am here to lend a prayer and tip my hat to
Tupac. May all your dreams come true in 2007. Lex
thanks for being a good friend.

I would also like to offer to anyone please look at my blog
It has information and entertaining witticisms. All written by me.

Plus if you click the ads at the top I will earn a little money
so take a shot or take a few.

Yours truly


A comment about the state of social relations ----
globalization has affected us all in our personal lives ---
the relations between men and women are all about
economics --- supply and demand

the only way to get any affection from a woman is to pay
for it. That is globalization ---- the global race to the bottom.

Read all about outsourcing --- in my blog and subjects like this.

554  Date: 2006-12-27 02:54:30
pissman11763 ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice site caryl (and you're cute too), see you back on alt.

553  Date: 2006-11-26 18:09:42
Pinky (aka slv2hhg) ( / wrote:

You have a VERY nice site. Thank you for it. : )

552  Date: 2006-11-20 06:22:55
FloridaJohn ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl, Great website. Thanks for turning me on to it.Maybe the next time in in LA we can chat. Thanks again. :)

551  Date: 2006-11-06 00:10:18
Jack ( / no homepage) wrote:

You know how I appreciate to chat with you, because my English is poor, because, i use to talk about sex alot, because i talk to you and disturbing you probably, and all time you are nice and pleaseant with me. Many thanks to be like this dear Caryl. Jacques

550  Date: 2006-10-23 15:42:02
shaun magee ( / no homepage) wrote:

i am interested in bdsm and am new to this can you tell me how i can get chat rooms to chat with others to get into this

549  Date: 2006-09-17 02:56:01
james ( / no homepage) wrote:

thank you for the wonderful talk last nite

548  Date: 2006-09-01 08:34:49
Mike ( / wrote:

Hi Caryl

I have just noticed that you have included us on your website and I wanted to say thank you!

Best regards

547  Date: 2006-07-26 17:47:52
freakyhippiemama ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hey Caryl...What a wonderful service to our community! Thank you. Beautiful job providing so much information.

546  Date: 2006-07-20 08:04:45
Lynda Lust ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi, I'm rather new and am part of DeltaBDSM. Exploring these sites is wonderfull.

545  Date: 2006-06-28 07:11:39
Aaron ( / wrote:

Great resource site!

544  Date: 2006-05-18 00:15:28
Pamela V ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just wanted to say hi and see you on sat nite!!

543  Date: 2006-05-16 06:03:17
chris russell ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl, Just wanted you to know it was nice meeting you, tonight at davids coffee house wil se you sat chris

542  Date: 2006-05-06 16:39:03
David ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am a s/w/m with interests in exploring my submissive desires.
As a novice in this area,I seek like minded individuals and Munch groups within my local area.
Which is the:(Far Western - Chicagoland region.)
Is there anyone out there ?

541  Date: 2006-05-05 18:55:44
Eriayasha ( / wrote:


Thanks so much for keeping up with all of the sites for FL. Makes my life easy to have somewhere to direct people for a comprehensive list!

I've noticed that the 'Brevard Munch' and the 'Miami Munch' sites aren't working.

Thanks again!

540  Date: 2006-05-02 15:14:54
Mike Burger ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi sweetie - long time since we were in touch. I'm still alive though and will be in touch.

539  Date: 2006-04-24 05:26:36
Darly ( / wrote:

Thank you, Caryl for providing the org list and for keeping it up to date! {Smiles}

538  Date: 2006-04-21 02:16:23
george ( / no homepage) wrote:

looking for Dom/sub sites.
i am some what vanilla but with lots of sprinkles

537  Date: 2006-04-12 05:22:27
tarun ( / no homepage) wrote:

birthday wishes...catch--> :)

536  Date: 2006-04-02 10:10:39
MasterABD ( / wrote:

You have an amazing resource here. Sadly it appears most of it hasn't been updated sense 2005. I hope all is well. Anyways I would really love a link trade with my bdsm personal ads website. Check it out

535  Date: 2006-03-08 18:44:12
tarun ( / no homepage) wrote:

best regards to a wonderful woman on womens' day...-->>@

534  Date: 2006-02-27 13:52:39
scotty ( / no homepage) wrote:

hey caryl,popped in to say hi,remember me??
great site darlin',keep it up(i will lol)

533  Date: 2006-02-26 11:21:44
Wulf ( / no homepage) wrote:

hi caryl,
nice little site. I like it, but I might be kinda biased.

532  Date: 2006-02-14 21:05:47
Deangel ( / no homepage) wrote:

Looking to communicate with like-minded people-friendship only. Thanks. Angel

531  Date: 2006-02-08 02:45:25
dave ( / no homepage) wrote:


530  Date: 2006-02-01 03:48:16
Carl Thoma ( / no homepage) wrote:

Was doing the Search thing Found this page.. Glad you made it... lol.. love the site.. keep it up..
Blessed Be From New Mexico

529  Date: 2006-01-28 11:06:14
chris ( / no homepage) wrote:

g'day, jsut an aussie sub looking for contacts chris

528  Date: 2006-01-11 23:16:47
Jeff Davis ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi I am a member of LADs but work schedule is a pain I would like to attend some of your event's so I can learn some of the techniques and ettiquette as I am a Novice who is eager to learn.

527  Date: 2006-01-03 19:33:56
tarun ( / no homepage) wrote:

i have good news to share-->ive got my own computer...i chose a desktop,not a laptop,for the sheer performance availabe..its a top end model.wanted to share my happiness.catch-->:)regards to all here.

526  Date: 2006-01-02 09:29:58
tarun ( / no homepage) wrote:

happy new year

525  Date: 2005-12-28 21:37:44
shani* ( / wrote:

I have always loved your website for the last few years. There is so much good information. Please keep up the great work! - shani*

524  Date: 2005-12-27 06:07:57
Peter ( / no homepage) wrote:

need mistress. any contacts in montana. Thanks.

523  Date: 2005-12-23 07:59:18
tarun ( / no homepage) wrote:

merry x-mas holiday cheer and tonnes of smiles for caryl and everyone here

522  Date: 2005-12-09 19:06:06
Steve ( / no homepage) wrote:

Glad I found your site. Very little info for a noob like me to the lifestyle. Looking forward to exploring your site. Thanks

521  Date: 2005-11-28 01:38:43
Satyr ( / no homepage) wrote:

Keep up the good work. Information is something that should be shared, and not hidden and placed behind closed doors.(though some closed doors are quite interesting as well...but that is for another post perhaps.)

520  Date: 2005-10-26 20:13:06
TBRAVO ( / no homepage) wrote:

It was great chating with you the other day on alt.

519  Date: 2005-10-22 04:48:02
lee_69_ ( / no homepage) wrote:

thanks caryl for the help, really appreciate it

518  Date: 2005-10-20 05:54:12
Angel ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site. Found you on a mutual yahoo group. Enjoyed reading information you had. Now I dont have to keep leafing through search engines to find places to go when I am free to go to a meet and greet!

517  Date: 2005-09-11 04:45:01
Jack ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great website, thanks. You're also very beautiful and sexy!!!

516  Date: 2005-09-08 09:30:06
beasty ( no email / wrote:

Just dropped in to be nosey. It was a pleasure watching you and a vision for the mental rolodex :)

515  Date: 2005-08-17 11:02:36
tricky20001 ( / wrote:

I just thought i'd introduce myself and say i love your site..!

514  Date: 2005-07-28 22:28:18
INDIANA ( / no homepage) wrote:

To a most vital person in the community who has offered enlightment to both new and not so new people interested in this lifestyle ...Thank you I am enlighted by your writings and I applaud you with a standing ovation repetively .....;--)


513  Date: 2005-07-28 19:45:03
kelly ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thunder was fantastic and you are an beautiful angel

512  Date: 2005-07-13 20:24:14
jim ( / no homepage) wrote:

caryl, hi...i just want to say think you for your site and all the information it holds. i am a submissive male (no switch) and have been all my life starting with playing tie up games as a small boy. Your information and understanding of what "we" feel is wonderfull..Thanks again, jim -- Oh yes as a professional photographer I would love to photograph are a lovely lady. j

511  Date: 2005-07-07 22:45:20
rue whiting ( / no homepage) wrote:

haven't looked yet. just got here

510  Date: 2005-07-05 02:39:23
JHMateo ( / no homepage) wrote:

July 4, 2005-Just came across Caryl's BDSM page. To me seems a wonderful resource!!!!!!! Jim

509  Date: 2005-06-30 23:08:55
dupagedoug ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi. This dswm living in the Chicago, Illinois area
who has been in other bdsm sites where women did post for a male play partner; however, after much 'realization' that these "women were just bogus ads generating 'men reply' income, the site was finally closed....and probably opened up again under a different "name"...This site was highly recommended, so let the new journey begin. Thks for allowing me to express 'a very frustrating experience.' doug

508  Date: 2005-06-26 08:58:05
Bathory ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just wanted to say WOW this is one of the most organized and well thought out link I have had the honor of accidently finding on this puter gadgit thingy and I am just really impressed so THANK you very much Caryl!! and THANKXXXX

507  Date: 2005-06-25 16:28:46
Scott ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great Site!!!!

506  Date: 2005-05-29 00:12:32
brett Needham ( / no homepage) wrote:

thanks for the web pages and the info. Youre a gem! Brett

505  Date: 2005-05-06 07:38:05
nagarajakapoor ( / no homepage) wrote:

You are so advanced

504  Date: 2005-04-21 10:41:40
mick ( / no homepage) wrote:

i would love to spank you

503  Date: 2005-04-04 16:50:31
thom ( / no homepage) wrote:

new DOM looking for another DOM to convers with to broadin my insights and skills

502  Date: 2005-03-19 04:42:49
Lars ( / wrote:

Your site is very lovely and informative.
Which is good for big strong guys like me.
We like content with pictures as well as text. *grins*
But seriously. You are very wonderful and beautiful. A real asset to any community or group and I'm very happy to have you in ours.

501  Date: 2005-03-18 22:27:08
Luke ( / no homepage) wrote:

hiya caryl long time no hear, I hope you are doing well. We are updating the SK website and want to have a link to your webpage on it if thats ok?

Mail me back would be good to hear from ya.


500  Date: 2005-02-24 00:28:35
Jim Carter ( / wrote:

Very interested in becoming a sub looking for teachers

499  Date: 2005-02-02 23:43:52
droopy Dick McGurk ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just checking out the new page

498  Date: 2005-01-31 03:54:13
LLazarus ( / wrote:

Very nicely done site. A great resource for those of us in the lifestyle. You've obviously put a lot of time, thought and effort into your work. And I, for one, thank you for it.

497  Date: 2005-01-25 11:12:53
William ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just stopped by to say 'hello' to other people in "the lifestyle". And if anybody is in tempe arizona or knows anybody in tempe who wants to talk. Please feel free to pass along my email address.

496  Date: 2005-01-10 18:57:43
Alex (lexxie) ( / no homepage) wrote:

Saw you in a chat room earlier and you gave your web page to someone. I came to check it out and I love it! Just wanted to say you did a great job with it and I love all the resources you have posted on here. Hope to chat sometime

495  Date: 2004-12-20 17:46:05
Bruce ( / no homepage) wrote:

we met the other night
Looking forward to hopefully chatting again

494  Date: 2004-12-10 04:12:47
frank ( / no homepage) wrote:

I love this cos its a mature site with interesting information.I wish to reach to somebody who cares.

493  Date: 2004-11-27 23:57:15
Jobsdone ( / no homepage) wrote:

It's wonderful how you've maintained this stie over the years. You're a treasure.

492  Date: 2004-11-25 22:43:07
Beach Mystress (Orange County CA) ( no email / wrote:

Thank you so much for taking the time to put these pages together. You've let me help a lot of people find local munches. You're to credit for a lot of people being able to find the real time they crave. You're a true service to the national BDSM community. *big hug*

491  Date: 2004-11-22 09:53:24
alison ( / no homepage) wrote:

thanks for the info ive been looking for places to play for a long time thanks

490  Date: 2004-11-17 07:53:08
Raymond Gilbert ( / wrote:

Hi. Some one in a Shadow Lane chatroom recommended this site to me, and I've placed it in my faves. It's always good to see professionals representing the BDSM community on the web among all the crazies.

489  Date: 2004-11-07 18:41:35
Mike ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks for a great webpage. i hope to meet you ate one of the local (San Diego) meetings. Until then be well.

488  Date: 2004-11-06 20:12:17
Stephen ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just read "Safety and Me". Thank you for the perspective. I have been online for a little over a year now, and have meet many people there. It is a hard thing to describe the flood of emotions that have washed through me as I have begun to make friends. Caution is prudent, especially in such a sensory deprived environment that somehow has a way of setting my heart to pounding in my chest. I have been at the jumping off point, ready to dive headlong into a relationship that I had no idea would be doomed from the start. The wisdom gained from sharing honnestly and truthfully is something that can not be supplanted, no matter the angst going through the experience causes.
If there is one thing that I appreciate about people in this lifestyle is the openness of thought and lack of judgemental atitude, although that does not apply to everyone does it? I wanted to take this time to thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings, they shine brightly in the words you use to describe them, and strike straight to the truth of feeling.
Faith, Hope, and Love, Dragoneous

487  Date: 2004-11-03 18:47:09
Pendragon ( / no homepage) wrote:

My compliments to a well compiled site. Very informative, very pleasing. A girl of high quality is so hard to find. And sometimes, when found, too far. I wish you all the best life has to offer.

486  Date: 2004-11-03 01:28:51
Carol ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi caryl,
You have an informative and actually a quite caring site here, its refreshing to see in this day an age someone put one foot infront of the other and help others in the community for a purpose
(giving knowledge)and wanting nothing back.
I have as well referred your site to others and they have written back and said they'd found the info they sought anyway , stay as sweet as you are, it looks good on you ...
oh an Doll, em em em ...The Pics,were such a delight to view an see.
You Mi'Lady are quite sexy ahh an So intensely pretty.
Carol Aka *Dimples*

485  Date: 2004-10-20 11:43:18
Denise&houston Moss ( / no homepage) wrote:

great site here we are new to this lifestyle and we found the info here super great.

484  Date: 2004-10-09 04:43:43
Shelly Matthews ( / no homepage) wrote:

this is an awesome site.

483  Date: 2004-10-04 23:56:13
TieHerTightly - Eric ( / no homepage) wrote:


I would love to receive your pain...if you are ever looking for a cyber sub.


482  Date: 2004-09-29 18:41:50
Fred ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl, your website is a wonderful resource, but I 've already told you that. Do you do your own programming? ...Fred

481  Date: 2004-09-17 17:42:56
Dove ( / wrote:

Hey babe... you're still going strong aren't you. I got to hand it to you for keeping this site going for so long. I just refered another seeker to you world-wide munch & meetings section.

480  Date: 2004-09-16 15:13:43
qstoolsman ( / wrote:

Hello Caryl, I guess I agree with everything I've read below....a really nice and relaxed looking site. Am I allowed to tell people about my site on your pages? I design and make tasteful queening and bondage furniture. Regardz, Nicky.

479  Date: 2004-09-02 03:06:01
Sharilyn ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks for this resource and take care, :)

478  Date: 2004-09-01 00:41:04
Larry L Lynes ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl, I am holding back on that lunch. I have cataracks (SP) and they are sechuleing an operation. Maybe we can go before that if I every find out the schedul. Hugs Larry

477  Date: 2004-09-01 00:38:34
Larry L Lynes ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl, I am holding back on that lunch. I have cataracks (SP) and they are sechuleing an operation. Maybe we can go before that if I every find out the schedul. Hugs Larry

476  Date: 2004-08-31 00:16:44
Sax ( / wrote:

Excellent site. So nice to see the person behind the personna. Keep up the percussion ;-)

475  Date: 2004-08-23 23:32:11
Gretal ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

I just referred yet another person to your site :) Thanks for being here!


474  Date: 2004-08-04 12:26:46
mugu guy ( / no homepage) wrote:

This looks like exactly what i am looking for

473  Date: 2004-08-04 01:44:29
Grand Mistress Lioness ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello Ma'am. You have a wonderful site and I think it is very informative. I look forward to furture contact with you. Thank you Ma'am.

472  Date: 2004-08-03 13:51:11
Steele ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site!

471  Date: 2004-06-27 00:04:17
Tom ( / no homepage) wrote:

This is a good site! Greetings from germany!

470  Date: 2004-06-20 09:38:09
Tony Montoya ( / wrote:

Well hello Caryl. Would just like to thank you for offering such informative insight for all to read and utilize. Your really a sweet and wonderful gal not to mention a hottie...
Tony... M.

469  Date: 2004-06-18 18:59:16
Lori Gray ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl, good to finaly get your site back. It's been a long time olf friend.
from syren69 dalnet

468  Date: 2004-06-09 20:56:15
C. Cannon ( / no homepage) wrote:

This site was very insightfull, and well writen.
I will return.

467  Date: 2004-06-08 03:59:02
Matt Simpson ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl,
just paying a quick visit to your web site. Hope you think about me. You know how to reach me. Keep in touch, ok?!! We're not getting any younger, you know...

466  Date: 2004-06-03 18:03:58
RAY ( / no homepage) wrote:

Things have certainly changed. I've been in a monogamous vanilla relationship for more than thirty years. Prior to that I was involved in the lifestyle, although it wasn't called that in the circle I travelled in the "West Village". Too bad nothing like this around the NE Pa. area.

465  Date: 2004-05-23 21:57:54
Thomas ( / wrote:

Thank you for such a user friendly site!

464  Date: 2004-05-05 22:50:40
charles ( / no homepage) wrote:

hi caryl,i'm doing some browsing and i came upon your site and so i figured i'd sign your guestbook.thank you. charles

463  Date: 2004-04-18 11:37:08
Carl W Mills ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks again for all your help

462  Date: 2004-04-15 08:56:47
wildfire (mary) ( / no homepage) wrote:

this is a good site and has a great link to what that friend of mine was looking for. Thank you carl

461  Date: 2004-04-15 04:24:24
rascal heart ( / no homepage) wrote:

hi caryl, i saw your link on Nebraska Community Ties and surfed in. i am very impressed with your website. it has lots of interesting information and some nice photographs. keep up the good work!

460  Date: 2004-04-14 19:06:44
Carl W Mills ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am an uncollared male just recently released from a collar of consideration and am having a rough time finding that special one to serve so i am going to all notable sites to get more information and learning from everyones experiances never can learn to much about this life i was chosen to perform LOve ya all submissive Carl

459  Date: 2004-04-12 05:00:45
James Taliaferro ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello my girlfreind and I was directed to you from Alene . We are new to groups and are wanting to meet some people with our same tastes. Hope to meet you at some point

458  Date: 2004-04-02 18:09:39
tania ( / no homepage) wrote:

i haven't come to your site in a long time. Felt it was time to chcek it out again. i am glad to count you among those i know in this community. Have a great day

457  Date: 2004-03-26 07:27:43
Todd Rissinger ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site Caryl! Just wanted to say hello and wish you a great week.

456  Date: 2004-03-10 19:28:22
Merc & beth ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very nice site caryl. And thank you for acknowledging us at the yahoo group.

455  Date: 2004-03-06 17:32:38
kittin ( / wrote:

Great site!! thank you so much for sharing it*s* i am assuming the priviledge to add a link to my site and i will LOL

454  Date: 2004-03-03 10:41:03
Lloyd ( / no homepage) wrote:

love your site and would love to exchange pics at your leisure

453  Date: 2004-02-17 11:58:28
Cyn ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You do a WONDERFUL job with this site.

I have a link to it in the links section of my Yahoo! group and whenever someone talks about how hard it is to meet people in their town I walk them through this site. Now I even have boys in Europe finding groups they never knew existed.

Please let Me know if you have a link I can place on the front page of the Yahoo! group. I love this resource that much. I think you ROCK.

Blessings to you, caryl.

M. Alexi Cyn, a Yankee in Denmark.

452  Date: 2004-02-17 07:10:34
Susan ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great resource! My page will be finished soon! I'll let you know the url asap.
-Mistress Susan

451  Date: 2004-02-17 04:56:18
joey ( / wrote:

Thank you so much for this GREAT site. Whenever I want to try and make a contact throughout the USA and elswhere I think of your site first and foremost as a resource. I look forward to seeing you soon at a CLub X social.


450  Date: 2004-02-15 21:15:30
eric ( / no homepage) wrote:

spoke with you on the Lorelie's chat rooms...TieHerTightly is my nic...would love more pics of you and meet you and tie you.


449  Date: 2004-02-12 01:45:55
wade ( / no homepage) wrote:

having trouble finding people who are into bdsm, bondage in my area, Northern Idaho. Please help, suggestions. Thankyou.

448  Date: 2004-02-10 02:49:41
Michelle Peters ( / wrote:

I've been coming to your site for a little over two years and its got to be the best resourse site on the net. I dont live that far from you and look forward to day we can meet. Great Site! Mistress Michelle Peters

447  Date: 2004-02-03 04:37:29
naughty_girl ( / wrote:

Great site, compliments ! naughty_girl

446  Date: 2004-01-24 03:59:45
ChiliD ( / no homepage) wrote:

Remembering you and the wonderful time we shared for coffee. Hope you remember too.

445  Date: 2004-01-20 08:00:48
SHAKKA ( / no homepage) wrote:

It is good to see that your site is still very active, caryl. Hopefully, things have been well with you. I am still in the SF Bay area and we have talked before via the puter and also phone, but it's been awhile. We tried to have a bite or a drink, but was unable to do so, in the San Diego area, i believe. My name is Michael, if you have forgotten. Take care and I hope to hear from you.

444  Date: 2004-01-09 14:41:36
Jimmy ( / no homepage) wrote:

IM so new to this 1-9-04 its not funny lol. im 43 married male who wants to learn much Thanks

443  Date: 2003-12-10 23:11:56
Kathy ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very nice site, been looking for somthing like this. THANKS Kathy

442  Date: 2003-11-12 10:42:34
SteelWolf ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice site

441  Date: 2003-11-12 04:57:23
Wolf ( / wrote:

great site you have here caryl

440  Date: 2003-11-11 19:43:21
Diana ( / no homepage) wrote:

Would like to view and sign guest book.

439  Date: 2003-10-16 23:37:16
Tint ( / wrote:

I loved your site, please come and have a look at ours when you get a chance <a href="">Sex Toys, Bondage Gear, Body Jewelry, Leather Lingerie & BDSM Adult Toy Store by Kittens Toy Room</a>

438  Date: 2003-10-16 15:16:01
Clay ( / no homepage) wrote:

Also, any munches in the Fresno area? I know, not a real hot area for such goings on, huh?

437  Date: 2003-10-16 15:13:03
Clay ( / no homepage) wrote:

New to BDSM, have practiced on the fringes without really giving vent to my witheld energy . Would love to learn slowly to be a Dom. My guess is that there are MANY issues that will arise along the way. I just finished blowing a cyber-meeting badly- Would love some coaching- Clay

436  Date: 2003-10-15 22:24:43
Richard Gordon ( / wrote:

Hi Caryl it's Richard from Burbank. The guy that thinks your hot and has a little thing for you know. Can't explain just do. Hopefully I'll be able to make it down to San Diego for a gathering soon. Feel free to write, bye.

435  Date: 2003-10-05 23:15:48
WAYNE ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

Iam leaving your group and took you off of my messenger and put you on ignore.
you know with people like you suppose to listen and counsol others with these HANG-UPS and that what they are period... I THOUGHT you were are here for to listen and guide.
but guess I made an mistake and so sorry to bother you I didnt mean any malice with you but guess it my fault but I had felt the need to tell others who I thought dissect these thoughts and hang up and figure them out as well as to discuss.
Sorry see ya Later

434  Date: 2003-10-02 15:30:36
JackL ( / no homepage) wrote:

Cannot be conveyed into real words other than... thank you!

433  Date: 2003-09-25 21:39:47
Rattler ( / wrote:

What an incredible website and resource to the fetish communities across the country. You have been very busy helping others to help find themselves. Hats off to you.....Allan..."Rattler"

432  Date: 2003-09-19 00:09:07
Sunny ( / wrote:

My home page is a gaming league, nothing too kinky to look at there really. LOL So far Im having a blast browsin about your pages. Interesting... really interesting.

431  Date: 2003-09-12 19:47:36
Adam ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am looking for a domanitrix in the dubuque,IA area, can you help find one?

430  Date: 2003-09-06 16:23:49
Anne ( / no homepage) wrote:

What a great site! I loved everything.

429  Date: 2003-09-05 09:42:06
Natalie ( / wrote:

Just surfing around when I popped into your site...thanks for a great visit!

428  Date: 2003-08-29 19:24:24
Lana Zack ( / wrote:

Wunderschöne Seite, mehr gibt es dazu eigentlich nicht zu sagen.

Gruß Lana

427  Date: 2003-08-29 19:23:47
Sara Z ( / wrote:

Schöne Seite.........mach weiter so.

Gruß Sara

426  Date: 2003-08-29 19:23:06
Angelina Latex ( / wrote:

Schön daß ich dich wieder gefunden habe!!!! Ich finde deine Seite Klasse. Besuch mich doch auch einmal auf meiner Latexseite.

425  Date: 2003-08-29 19:22:43
Sklavin Sabine ( / wrote:

Hallo Finde Deine Seite super, weiter so.

Grüsse Sklavin Sabine

424  Date: 2003-08-28 21:37:50
Allen Tuczemskyi ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello lady

423  Date: 2003-08-26 09:38:49
Taffy ( / no homepage) wrote:

This looks like exactly what i am looking for...I am new to the area...looking for female friendships, women with the same interest in submission as I

422  Date: 2003-08-11 05:23:31
DominatrixRose ( / wrote:

I really enjoyed your site ... At this time I am helping a new site get up and running called and thought I ould look around here to see if I could help promote that here but wanted to at least say hello and let you know I have marked this as a favorite and will be back again soon.

Cool place here ...


421  Date: 2003-08-06 22:23:40
Jack & Cindy ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just a nice couple entering the BDSM scene, and exploring our erotic side. Looking for info & making new friends

420  Date: 2003-08-02 01:58:36
Cindy ( / no homepage) wrote:

Looking for a local club here or persons into this BDSM world. I am in Phoenix, AZ.

419  Date: 2003-08-01 21:13:16
linda ( / no homepage) wrote:

i am new to submission and looking for ingormation

418  Date: 2003-08-01 03:29:02
uy ( / no homepage) wrote:


417  Date: 2003-07-29 20:43:07
danielle ( / no homepage) wrote:

i like corporal punishment...please include more of should show vacuum latex bags and violet wands and last but not least...i would appreciate it if you show more urethral cock stuffing!!!!!

416  Date: 2003-07-20 05:27:05
she` ( / wrote:

Hi there,
Could you change the link for Southern Kinx in Dunedin New Zealand to the URL i have given please? Thanks.
Other than that, great site, lots of useful information in one place!
cheers, she`

415  Date: 2003-07-09 21:05:48
Sal ( / no homepage) wrote:

Would luv to be across the lap of a stern woman,who enjoys spanking a cute little tushie.
5'11; sexy eyes br/gy hair-muscular built Italian single guy,who has a very cute bottom to spank.

414  Date: 2003-06-23 00:05:51
Lord Bear ( / wrote:

WMDS Conway, NH munch host

413  Date: 2003-06-22 18:26:10
Dee ( / no homepage) wrote:

I'm new to Nashville. Just stumbled accross your page. Nice pic!

412  Date: 2003-06-18 16:59:04
Brian Golmon ( / no homepage) wrote:

saw your site and pic you look very pretty. you have a very nice site and home page

411  Date: 2003-06-16 08:20:21
Susan ( / no homepage) wrote:

You are a very lovely lady Caryl and hope one day that you could punish me, with your canes.

410  Date: 2003-06-12 15:37:52
IrishFlogger ( / wrote:

Hi all. Great site Caryl. If you ever need hosting let us know we do adult and fetish no problem - Come see us in Kinky Key West sometime !!!

Kinky Key West Here we Come !

IrishFlogger and slave helen6 (Yes, the sixth helen in my life !)

409  Date: 2003-05-23 15:39:58
Pete Frost ( / no homepage) wrote:

just a little message inyour book for you take care Pete

408  Date: 2003-05-11 18:04:11
Quiver ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you so much for aplace where someone can go and learn.conect.A nice site

407  Date: 2003-04-25 13:34:43
Isaak ( / no homepage) wrote:

First of all wonderful site. I just moved to Willows/Chico California, and I'm looking for friends and a community of friends like minded in the D/s and BDSM walk of life. Any information help and resources would be greatly appreciated if e-mailed to me. Thanks again for your time. Bright Blessings with you and yours. ~Isaak~

406  Date: 2003-04-09 06:49:02
Steve ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi, Just checking in... interested in the lifestyle and looking for resources...

405  Date: 2003-04-06 14:18:20
Billy ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice site! Great database!!

404  Date: 2003-03-29 15:49:52
incubus ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very interesting. And the Web Page is well done - attractive.
I need more info as to what these groups actually do, and how I would go about joining, and what group would I join?
Will whoever reads this like to contact me?

403  Date: 2003-03-28 02:31:02
Scorpions_syn ( / no homepage) wrote:

hello caryl, this one loves your site here and wanted to say hi. please keep up the excellent work and it has been this ones true pleasure to make your acquaintance.

402  Date: 2003-03-27 03:08:04
Betty ( / wrote:

Excellent site. Thanks

401  Date: 2003-03-26 22:34:52
Master Barbarian ( / wrote:

A lovely site... and a lovely submissive who has a good grasp on the lifestyle.

400  Date: 2003-03-24 12:09:51
Franco ( / no homepage) wrote:

HELLO! I'M ITALIA, cna you give me your guestbook?
Bye Bye

399  Date: 2003-03-24 10:19:40
Lord Dark ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice site. Well done. Also want you to know jewel and I throughly enjoyed our trip there ... the party was very well done. Look foreward to doing it again sometime.

398  Date: 2003-03-20 20:28:14
srtlc ( / no homepage) wrote:

enjoyed your webste

397  Date: 2003-03-19 00:38:54
eric ( / no homepage) wrote:

You've got a terrific site!
I'd love to chat. I'm submissive and especially fond of pillories and punishment line writing. (Any chance you want to supervise a line writing regime??)

396  Date: 2003-03-14 15:41:45
Eddie Budnick ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am a young slaveboy who would love very much to really get involved in the BDSM lifestyle as soon as

395  Date: 2003-03-14 08:54:32
Shawn ( / wrote:

Your site is incredible. I don't know how u keep it up. Mine will be updated by the end of April, but sheesh you do a great job on yours!

394  Date: 2003-03-07 08:34:46
jay ( / no homepage) wrote:


393  Date: 2003-03-07 08:21:40
jay ( / no homepage) wrote:

love is gift from god to true lovers of humanity

392  Date: 2003-03-05 14:43:48
ryk mccurdy ( / no homepage) wrote:

dear caryl,
its very nice to be here again. the site just gets better and better with every passing month. you sure must spend a lot of time working on it. i am in hopes that you remember me from somewhere arond two years ago. i met you in Alt. gallery and you and i spent the petter part of two nights talking. i will never forget it myself. you invited me down to your place but i being a brand new newbe didnt want to get in you way and bother you anymore than i felt like i had before. i am typing this in hopes that maybe we could talk again. things are and have been going good with me and i am in need of nothing, but i would love to renue our friendship again, if possible. i dont want to get in the way of anything or cause any problems. gosh, if you remember me you know who i am and you know how i am. you heped me so much and i appreciate it more than you know. you even went into my guest signing and fixed a couple of mistakes(spelling) i pointed out to you. and if this doesnt work, i still love ya my friend and you stay happy.
peace love health happiness to you and yours,
ryk mccurdy

391  Date: 2003-02-27 18:54:05
Halli ( / wrote:

Enjoyed browsing your site.

390  Date: 2003-02-14 06:14:36
David Walker ( / wrote:

Greetings carly,

You have a wonderful web site and thank you for sharing our link with your readers. We appreciate it. We would be glad to reciprocate by placing you on the SAADE web site if you so wish. Let us know and thanks again.


389  Date: 2003-02-07 01:08:51
lvsub4u ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for the time and your efforts you put into your site, it has been most informative and I for one appreciate it, Kind Regards, Max

388  Date: 2003-02-05 03:54:04
Control and Dominate ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks for your effort.

387  Date: 2003-01-27 19:28:03
Terri ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very informative site. Thank you for providing valuable information on safety, meeting people, and groups. I found it to be very helpful.

386  Date: 2003-01-27 16:38:33
Master Erus ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very nice site indeed.
Navigation a little goofy for me before second cup of coffee, but I like it.
All that cute and she can write too.
Smart girls turn me on.

I like it caryl.. good job.


385  Date: 2003-01-20 00:35:43
Adult Lingerie UK ( / wrote:

Like your BDSM site Adult Lingerie UK

384  Date: 2003-01-17 01:22:38
stef walsh ( / no homepage) wrote:

just looking

383  Date: 2003-01-11 03:30:17
candace ( / no homepage) wrote:

great site

382  Date: 2003-01-10 10:47:48
Pammy ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just wanted to say that I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to chat with you at the Dragon's Gate gathering a month ago. It was so cool seeing you there. Thanks for giving us a nice page of resources...

381  Date: 2003-01-10 01:37:00
Tony ( / wrote:

Loved the site...

380  Date: 2003-01-08 23:38:42
edward ( / no homepage) wrote:

a very lovely lady you are.thank you sweet girl.

379  Date: 2003-01-06 06:08:46
leveledout ( / no homepage) wrote:

thank you for allowing me to become a member of your group. i am a novice in what seems to be what my wife and i need.

378  Date: 2002-12-29 03:30:56
Clayton Edge ( / no homepage) wrote:

I really like your homepage thanks for letting me visit.

377  Date: 2002-12-08 06:59:19
Marcus ( Sir Grizz of MFES) ( / wrote:

This site is extremly well designed and was a pleasure to surf around in, Thanx Caryl.
From the head of the Victoria's : Masocistic Fetish Event Staff, Sir Grizz.

376  Date: 2002-12-05 02:08:32
bGordski ( / no homepage) wrote:

Good Jump site! Be very good at being very bad.

375  Date: 2002-12-03 07:19:10
Karen P ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl, just wanted to say it was nice to meet you on 11/30, at the party in Orange. Hope to you see you again...karen

374  Date: 2002-12-02 20:58:02
Roland ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello. I am on the Central Coast and new to exploring submission. I'm afraid to really explore but your informative sight is helpful. Who knows where it will lead.


373  Date: 2002-12-02 04:58:14
jacintha ( / wrote:

caryl, you rock! your site is so well-maintained, so full of information and you obviously care about the quality of what you produce. i have been impressed for quite awhile now, so i figured it was high time i wrote you to say so! :)

jacintha (a kinky Canadian)

372  Date: 2002-11-26 12:07:32
Me ( / no homepage) wrote:

Brilliant job. Thank you very much for providing this site.
I would like a method of remembering sites such as yours for reference without bookmarking or writing them down on paper. I have r/l issues there. If you have a suggestion please email Me.

371  Date: 2002-11-24 20:35:31
slaveboy ( / no homepage) wrote:

THANK YOU for this website; finally a way a tall hard-bodied submissive male can find dominant women and strict couples in the midwest to submit to.

370  Date: 2002-11-11 05:43:44
Digerati ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for this most informative site. It's truely a great resouce. I'm in the SoCal area and I'll be using some of your advice on developing contacts in this industry as well as attending some of the Munch's. Thank you again for this wonderful and very useful site.
yahoo profile:

369  Date: 2002-11-09 21:44:06
tim ( / no homepage) wrote:

nice site. where can i find a good wooden pony dvd/video? thanks

368  Date: 2002-11-07 18:33:35
Adam ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very nice webpage..I've enjoyed browsing through it and I will return again!!

367  Date: 2002-11-05 10:48:23
Helen Normal ( / no homepage) wrote:


366  Date: 2002-11-02 04:50:06
Linda ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl, great site.Just wanted to thank you for adding are HighDesert Ds social to your list of socials/munches in southen cali.Keep up the Great work. Thanks *smiles*

365  Date: 2002-10-17 01:11:09
joseph ( / no homepage) wrote:

hi caryl , just saying hello.looking for people in my area for play,so o ill be off now to check out your site.bye

364  Date: 2002-10-05 23:22:50
joe ( / no homepage) wrote:

My wife and I are interested in "munching" in our area.

363  Date: 2002-09-28 18:39:15
LT.Hit-Man ( / no homepage) wrote:

My thanks to you for putting up this page I am finding it helpful as I am finding out more and more that this life is to My liking and best of all there's no XXX BS on this site.

362  Date: 2002-09-24 20:37:30
John Hillian ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for posting this site.
I am new to this and I have been bomb-barded with hard core pictures but no real content untill I found your page and it's links. I wish you Love, Joy, and Long Life.
From a new want-to-be Dom John

361  Date: 2002-09-24 19:37:32
Rod Hill ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site, and information, I am new to the life and I'm soaking it all in like a sponge. It is great to have found what I have been missing all My life. Just a note... you have a great pair of legs. winks, Be good. Rod

360  Date: 2002-09-17 21:48:20
ami ( no email / wrote:

A wonderful site and resource. Thank you.

359  Date: 2002-09-15 00:02:39
Jonathan ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for your courage, your sensuality, and the hope with which you provide so many of us.

358  Date: 2002-09-14 08:51:58
Troy ( / no homepage) wrote:

I also live in So Cal and wanted to say I like your page. Where would I be able to meet you at some sort of event?

357  Date: 2002-09-03 15:38:06
amans libertine ( / wrote:

i have enjoyed my visit to your site's been very interesting. Thank you for posting it.

356  Date: 2002-09-01 21:38:46
Michael ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just popped in after browsing for Big Beautiful ladies interested in Restraint and Pleasure. Saw your link and *tada*. Like the home page photo. What a cutie. Site has a nice friendly feel also. Y'all have fun.
Lord Michael

355  Date: 2002-09-01 00:48:39
shani*{K} ( / wrote:

You have a wonderful website filled with a wealth of knowledge that clearly benefits the BDSM Community. Please keep up the great work! *smile*



354  Date: 2002-08-30 06:24:29
Tim Green ( / no homepage) wrote:

Interested in receiving free pi

353  Date: 2002-08-25 19:05:11
Harold Coley ( / no homepage) wrote:

ISO of DOM Couple to be thee pleasure slut, an slave. Wished to re live a Bi-Experiance that my GF directed me to do as a Teen. I'll never forget it.

352  Date: 2002-08-24 12:58:23
Owen Eckert ( / no homepage) wrote:

Please update the web link for NLA Columbus (Ohio). New web link is:

Thank you.

351  Date: 2002-08-20 22:33:40
slave victoria ( / no homepage) wrote:

i'm a transgender slave to a lesbain couple mistress mandie and master heather, it's part of my job to contact others for my owners to get in contact with and arrange meeting for fun and whatever.

350  Date: 2002-08-20 05:44:01
Lady Chanda ( / no homepage) wrote:

Started as submissive, acted as Domme to My best friend- a male submissive- at his request and through advice by my Mentor. Am finding this role as his Dominant/Mistress to be more comfortable,and am doing more research to be a better One to him. He is MY submissive in mind and soul, and a deep abiding love filled with trust, respect, and a great flow of communication has been a wonderful surprise.Would greatly appreciate recommended readings or advice, and I will sort through what is needed for him, for U/us to be better. Being a submissive first, for Me anyway,has helped to relate to him better. Thank you, Caryl.

349  Date: 2002-08-17 06:09:27
MistressKatherine ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just viewing this site is all.

348  Date: 2002-08-08 03:07:16
Linda ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi...I enjoyed your site very much. Very nice web site.

347  Date: 2002-08-05 15:04:11
dan ( / no homepage) wrote:

i am very interested, do you correspond to those who would like to ask questions, i would like to connect up with a couple individuals and maybe explores this side of my feeling. what do i need to do? love ya, dan

346  Date: 2002-08-01 21:40:49
leesa ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am very new to exploring and testing my submissive side with my hubby as my dom. I am from the Denver Colorado area and would love to chat with another sub in the lifestyle. Thanks for the great site Caryl.

345  Date: 2002-07-17 11:55:29
robiahu ( / no homepage) wrote:

grate page thanks for the effort looking forword to finig out about my newly remembered family and friends. please say high. from sleepy cambria,

344  Date: 2002-07-02 04:02:05
Samantha ( / no homepage) wrote:

I was an alpha female looking for someone even tougher than me before all this computer/cyber/sh#& what do we do fellers? Nobody is gonna tell me that the cybersex is ALL THAT. I just can't see it, nope.

343  Date: 2002-06-29 08:16:28
Douglas ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi iam glad soemone lead me here , nice to meet yall, and i hope u can help me meet agroup in my area, beaumont texas that will except a new first time sub and thank again Love douglas

342  Date: 2002-06-27 16:38:23
Eric Rogers ( / no homepage) wrote:

I'm a member of and I think your site is extremely helpful to new and experienced people in the scene. Thanks for all you hard work, time and expenditures.. Eric

341  Date: 2002-06-25 08:32:58
Henry^^ ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

caryl -- As I mentioned to you in #submission earlier today, this website is *most* informative. Well done.

340  Date: 2002-06-12 23:15:00
Peter ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello Caryl,

this is Peter from Germany again. I was just looking for some information about safety (and found more then I hoped to. Great!!!Thank you very much.

See you
PS: I think that most thinks said here are true in and outside the bdsm comunity

339  Date: 2002-06-09 00:46:00
Peter ( / no homepage) wrote:

Dear Caryl,
I'm German and came here accidentally. You gave me some very interesting information I was looking for til a friend of mine told me she was doing bdsm.
Thank you very!!much.


338  Date: 2002-06-06 19:48:00
cheyenne{MM} ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very nice site! I really enjoyed that it was right to the point. I am a 27 year old owned slave to MstrMike from VA. Good luck with your site and keep up the good work :)

337  Date: 2002-06-06 02:40:00
Mike ( / no homepage) wrote:

Be gentle...and discreet...I'm new to this

336  Date: 2002-05-29 07:29:00
bob ( / no homepage) wrote:

excellant presentation --- appreciate the effort you have put into this ---- i am new to this and a bit apprehensive



335  Date: 2002-05-26 05:55:00
lisa ( / no homepage) wrote:

this girl very much enjoyed your site Sir. The reading was easy to understand, as being new some sites are difficult to read...smiles Sir and best of luck in all...smiles*

334  Date: 2002-05-25 13:28:00
Steven Oesterreicher ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am a 49 year old Master who found you webpage out in ALT. This is very nice and when I have looked at it in more detail, I will return.

333  Date: 2002-05-18 08:21:00
Sir-Frank ( / no homepage) wrote:

A 30 year master from Detroit, stoping by to say Hi.

332  Date: 2002-05-14 04:04:00
ian ( / no homepage) wrote:

Goddess bless you!

331  Date: 2002-05-12 19:47:00
ToX ( no email / wrote:

hi caryl, just greetings from a fellow community worker from germany/europe :-)

ToX - Administrator BDSM Koblenz / Germany / EU

330  Date: 2002-05-10 05:10:00
Ed Tracey ( / wrote:

Caryl, thanks so much for your help. When we started our group in northern New Hampshire, we asked to be listed on a few sites like this one. Most were very friendly - none were as prompt as you were. And I have received inquiries as a result.

All the best!

329  Date: 2002-04-25 02:37:00
MistressMagdalena ( / no homepage) wrote:

I loved your site, it was real and not at all vulgar. Classy and to the point. I wish more bdsm sites out there were half as good as yours. Kudos!

328  Date: 2002-04-24 21:21:00
Don ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello Caryl, I enjoyed talking to you. Would love to continue being your friend. Keep in touch, Don. Cool Website!!

327  Date: 2002-04-09 10:39:00
Carol Learoyd ( Earthly_Del / no homepage) wrote:

I am very new to this lifestyle community. Your website has lots of links and has been very informative. Thanks for the hard work.
Thinking back now, I have had submissive feelings and tendencies since I was 15. I am now 34. No matter how I tried, I could not supress these fantasies. They were a part of me. They were beautiful. And I cried because I could not share them with anyone. So I disguised myself, locking them away. With my passion locked away, I was often accused of being overly stoic and emotionless. Then occationally I would errupt into fits of brief rage to release the frustration of it all, then immediately withdraw into myself again. Many times Ive felt like Ive been on the outside of my life looking in. Not knowing who I was and why didnt I know. Now, after a lifetime of inner struggle I think I have finally found my missing link, completely by accident. A while ago, I began reading erotic stories for my own entertainment and stumbled across some BDSM stories. Curious, I read a few. As I read the Dom/Sub stories I felt like the writer had tapped into my own brain and stolen the thoughts from my head. Those thoughts, that until now I thought were dirty little secrets. My breathing suddenly became shallow and I felt my heart soar. I wondered, "could this be finally it?" I needed to find out more. That was about a week ago. Since then I have scoured this website for info, ordered a book on the subject and plan on attending an orientation/info meeting next week. I have an intense sense of hopefullness mixed with a wrenching sense of fear at what I will find. I want so much for this to be it.

326  Date: 2002-03-31 13:17:00
Mistress Susan ( / wrote:

This is a very good site which I have returned too a number of times
love from Ms. Susan

325  Date: 2002-03-31 05:28:00
Ben aka Graywolf53 ( / no homepage) wrote:

enjoyed your site just as much as first time i see you added some stuff.looks great

324  Date: 2002-03-28 04:03:00
sub-dude ( / no homepage) wrote:

Dear Mistress Caryl,
You have a very nice web page, and i think You are very beautiful and enticing. i really like it. sub-dude

323  Date: 2002-03-25 09:13:00
Baron Greywolf ( / no homepage) wrote:

caryl- nice job on this- still one of the best referral sites around, and I've sent a number of new subs your way in the past couple of years for that very reason.
Regarding your "rant", I've tried to tell people Myself to be careful what they say, and what they do at Scene events because you never know who's listening or watching. I can't empathsize enough that safety, respect, and honor are all important in the real Scene.

322  Date: 2002-03-25 00:00:00
rickey six ( / no homepage) wrote:

i love your site. i have been out od the d/b s/m sceane for a while , but i am getting back in thank you for helping

321  Date: 2002-03-23 09:03:00
stupid ( / wrote:

I like your site a lot, and have been visiting many times. Good work!!!

320  Date: 2002-03-22 05:24:00
ANDREW ( no email / wrote:


319  Date: 2002-03-15 04:04:00
Mr. Clyde ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just read your text from your internet site. 'Hoping you'll understand me as a french canadian; You look to me as a wonderfull and very intelligent and attractive woman. 'It was a pleasure to read ans see you. As a Master I sure would appreciate to deal with you. Your Master's lucky.:-)

318  Date: 2002-03-12 12:55:00
K!Mberly ( / no homepage) wrote:

Dear caryl,
thanks so much for taking the time to walk me thru my little "problem" (and now I'll never know how little! teehee)
You are truly a wonderful person to spend time to help a stranger and I'll always be grateful!

317  Date: 2002-03-10 00:19:00
mick ( / no homepage) wrote:

just thought I'd intoduce myself

316  Date: 2002-03-09 23:41:00
ryk mccurdy ( / no homepage) wrote:

wow, i am totally impressed with this site, there has been an unbelieveable amount of work put into the making of this 'information rich' site. i have met the owner and i easly see how this site was able to manifest into the incredible array of information that it is. both the site and the woman(caryl)behind the making of this site, are a class act extraordinar.
that's my story and i am sticking to it.
peace love health happiness to yous and yours,
ryk mccurdy

315  Date: 2002-03-07 18:19:00
Dave ( / no homepage) wrote:

Dear Caryl,
I attended a dinner at Ben Wick's pub last year for Whacking TO, but have lost touch with the group.
Please forward how I might get in touch again.

314  Date: 2002-03-05 21:43:00
Sherry ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl,
Thank you so much for this site. I have always had dark desires, but have just recently started to explore. A little nervous of the unknown, but your site is so helpful! Thank you again. S

313  Date: 2002-03-05 03:28:00
paul ( / www.sbc) wrote:

i like the site

312  Date: 2002-02-28 15:30:00
Sal ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for the info & th work u put in-ISO females who like to spank or be spanked.

311  Date: 2002-02-25 20:53:00
Marcus Domine ( / no homepage) wrote:

You have a really nice site...Colors are tastefully done, Pages are uncluttered...All in all a really professional job. The content is also great. Good links for folks looking for pointers about our lifestyle.


310  Date: 2002-02-25 05:20:00
Patti ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just starting out Very helpful in my walk

309  Date: 2002-02-21 03:53:00
Jack ( / wrote:

Just to let everyone know that BDSM is alive and well in Shreveport La.

308  Date: 2002-02-20 21:55:00
kristydoll ( no email / wrote:

Nice to see other well done bdsm sites

307  Date: 2002-02-14 19:33:00
Steven Keys ( / no homepage) wrote:

A very exellant web site. I'm thinking of attending one of the munchies.listed in it.
Keep up the good work and thanks.

306  Date: 2002-01-18 19:04:00
AllEars ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am an old acquaintance from almost two years ago back for a visit.

Nice to see that quality lasts.

305  Date: 2002-01-04 07:24:00
Tammy ( / wrote:

I'm bdsm curious, and I find myself fortunate to come across a site that is so well thought out and has so much heart in it that goes towards those new to these bdsm feelings. I am in a "vanilla" relationship with my boyfriend of nearly a year, and although there is so much temptation out there I am insistantly faithful. Even by putting bdsm curious in my yahoo profile, I have become susceptable to a lot of those dom instant messages of my stats and those wanting me to meet them despite my relationship and my feelings toward my boyfriend, and I want to tell you, Caryl, that I appreciate your insight and your obvious care towards us "newbies" to bdsm, and thank you.

304  Date: 2002-01-03 02:28:00
Lord Ambrose ( / wrote:

Very well done.

303  Date: 2001-12-06 10:20:00
tonya ( / wrote:

Thank you for all your hard work and dedication to this site. i had no idea there was so much out there.

302  Date: 2001-12-06 10:19:00
tonya ( swtnlovelytonya / wrote:

Thank you for all your hard work and dedication to this site. i had no idea there was so much out there.

301  Date: 2001-12-01 00:23:00
Milo ( / no homepage) wrote:

thank you for providing information for my search and not just the smut and porn, I find it anoying that many people mistakably only associate this with sex and porn and compleatly forget the control and power aspect.

300  Date: 2001-11-22 08:27:00
Jim Eckman ( / no homepage) wrote:

Have found site again after a long time. Hi Caryl keep up the good may remember me as lostmechanic@aol or jimeck34......LOng time no see, by the way I found the mistress I have been searching for.

299  Date: 2001-11-21 13:04:00
grace ( / wrote:


Just wanted to say I love the site! Thank you.


298  Date: 2001-10-26 08:42:00
Cinde M. ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you Caryl for such a complete, well put together web site - filled with information for subs and doms. I am a sub for some time now - from So. Calif., and came across your site while surfing the Internet. It's a rare site indeed - thanks for all the information - I know it's a lot of work to put this all together - thanks again :)

297  Date: 2001-10-26 04:55:00
Doyle H. Lawrence ( / no homepage) wrote:

I'm very happy to find your site. My wife and I are anxious to hook up with others.

296  Date: 2001-10-25 17:00:00
mark ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl, thanks for letting me browse your site, You are an extremely sexy LadyI was really hoping to see more of you in here but even Doms dont always get what they want. My nic is Lord Yogo. My sexy subbie & I are going to try to get something set up here in the Billings mt. area for us in the lifestyle to be able to get together & meet others who want to chat about or maybe even people to play with. My sexy slave is a computer whiz and she is going to try to start a bdsm here locally, the closest one is in missoula. we would love any input or ideas that you might have to hare with us or we would love to just chat with you sometime. Yhanks for your time, Masterfully Yours Lord Yogo

295  Date: 2001-10-20 09:05:00
suzie ( / no homepage) wrote:

i am very new to this lifestyle. .i am looking for information on meeting people and being safe

294  Date: 2001-10-11 16:41:00
Lady S ( / wrote:

You have a great site. Very helpful and easy to navigate :)

293  Date: 2001-10-05 13:47:00
anonymous coward ( doctordays2000 / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl When are you going to be in photos or are you? Interesting page even though it isn't as complicated as it seems.
Usually a sensuous spoken sentence can warm up a sub right away I always loved working the room. I usually go by the ten day day rule. Takes ten days to feel comfortable w/ me changing clothes around me because I don't push and let the sub come to me like animals and children and they are telling me personal stuff that I don't need to know. I believe if that doesn't neccesarily constitute a "sub" but you'd be surprised of the ones that come up to me to give up (sutrrender) their will.

292  Date: 2001-10-05 13:45:00
anonymous coward ( doctordays2000 / no homepage) wrote:

Interesting page even though it isn't as complicated as it seems.
Usually a sensuous spoken sentence can warm up a sub right away I always loved working the room. I usually go by the ten day day rule. Takes ten days to feel comfortable w/ me changing clothes around me because I don't push and let the sub come to me like animals and children and they are telling me personal stuff that I don't need to know. I believe if that doesn't neccesarily constitute a "sub" but you'd be surprised of the ones that come up to me to give up (sutrrender) their will.

291  Date: 2001-10-04 16:02:00
micheal keohane ( / no homepage) wrote:

very informative and well presented site caryl
i hope you remember me from down under

290  Date: 2001-10-04 01:13:00
niel smith ( / wrote:

As to your pictures: watta fox
As to your website: The most informative, and one of the best layouts (no pun intended) I have ever come across. All the best always.

289  Date: 2001-10-01 23:06:00
Kimberly ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your site was recommended to me. I'm a possible new sub needing to learn more. It's been very helpful so far.

288  Date: 2001-09-12 07:19:00
Master Malice ( / wrote:

I'm glad to see the links are fixed. As a r/t Master I have to agree with you on most of what you wrote about(Not all, but some) online Masters. I have seen so much abuse from players online that it sickens me to death. For someone to toy with anothers emotions brings my blood to a boil that I feel like making these so-called Masters my sissy for a day or two. Everything I have read on your webpage was right to the point and no holding back. I enjoy to read from the heart of someone honest. If you have time I would like you to visit my webpage. I would like to place a link on my page aswell.. Think about it and let me know.
Master Malice

287  Date: 2001-08-26 19:26:00
Chris ( / no homepage) wrote:

What a very attractive woman you are. Not harsh but beautiful. Ah to dream perchance to dream of a meeting
love chris (christina1tv)

286  Date: 2001-08-21 22:23:00
John ( JRTAZDEV1@AOl.COMq / no homepage) wrote:

Just wanted to say i think your site is GREAT ! you look good in leather and heels Caryl :) John

285  Date: 2001-07-29 20:25:00
Richard ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for your site. I am always searching to learn more. To be the best Dom I can be.

284  Date: 2001-07-14 08:57:00
katy ( / no homepage) wrote:

i enjoyed your site. thanks. subkaty

283  Date: 2001-07-11 12:05:00
MarcusRegistrada ( / no homepage) wrote:

Fascinating. Wonderfully done. The effort put into this page is noteworthy. :)

282  Date: 2001-07-04 10:58:00
David ( / no homepage) wrote:

YOU have a fantastic website! Please keep up the good work. submissivly, david

281  Date: 2001-06-25 03:02:00
ric chavez ( / wrote:

just surfing thru
my homepage is a nfl football site....sports nut that i am

280  Date: 2001-06-08 00:23:00
Dave ( / wrote:

I am very impressed with your site as a resource. Thank you. I will be adding a link to your site as soon as I finish up the polish on my site. I am also looking for a 7/24 slave and maybe from your resources I can find the perfect one. :)> ...for me that is. I live and work in my photo studio/dungeon and what a treat it is to fall asleep and wake up in a dungeon. Life is good. Dave

279  Date: 2001-05-29 08:44:00
Dan Burr ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very nice site...

helpful info, and yet infused with the personality of caryl...who savors the thrills as welll as the common-sense nostrums

and caryl, you are pretty!

278  Date: 2001-05-11 14:48:00
Bryan ( / wrote:

Thank you so much for putting a link to my web site in yours. I love your site and drop by every now and then. I am impressed by how it has grown over the past year. Keep up the excellent work.

277  Date: 2001-04-29 00:04:00
eric ( / no homepage) wrote:

I appreciated the comprehensiveness of your "page." I am new to both the scene and to the internet and I have trouble getting the links to work and calling up some of the things I try to click on. I signed up to be on your mailing list but I'm not sure if that went through. Eric

276  Date: 2001-04-21 12:15:00
Shae` ( / wrote:

I have always enjoyed visiting your site... and finally took a bit of time to visit again... thanks so much for all the hard work you put into this spectacular resource for all of us... :)

275  Date: 2001-04-17 02:52:00
Heather ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello, A friend of yours on paltalk sent me the link here. He thought maybe i could find some answers here. I will check out the site and hopefully speak to you soon.

274  Date: 2001-04-08 07:39:00
Meticulous Tear ( / wrote:

Excellent work on the resources! We'll be adding your link to our own site.

273  Date: 2001-04-07 07:37:00
merlin ( / no homepage) wrote:

thanks for not sending a million links to porn sites. I just started looking for a sub to share a long term relationship and trying to find places to meet interested people. I might even be interested in joining some groups. I hope your site helps. Thanks

272  Date: 2001-03-24 00:39:00
Girasol ( / no homepage) wrote:

great woman !!!

271  Date: 2001-03-23 02:05:00
marilyn ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am new to BDSM and so far enjoy it very much I am a natural sub. This site hasbeen helpful

270  Date: 2001-03-19 07:40:00
Raquel ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just wanted to say thank you! I am new to the scene and was recommended to your sight by a friend. I was worried about who I could talk to and where I could begin. Your page offered some wonderful choices! Thanks!

269  Date: 2001-03-02 20:37:00
George Hawkins ( / wrote:

Many thanks for the time and energy you put into this site.

268  Date: 2001-02-14 07:05:00
Joseph ( / wrote:

Excellent and Beautiful site.

267  Date: 2001-02-11 08:02:00
Pitboss ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

Just stopped by to see your latest pics. I can see the sexy dancer in you. Thanks sweet one. Dale.

266  Date: 2001-02-10 20:02:00
Master_Storm1 ( / no homepage) wrote:

I was surprise to find a site where W/we could find D/s people and a way to contact T/them ......
keep on the good work your site is well worth it.... be safe ...well and have a productive day..

265  Date: 2001-01-26 04:26:00
Gracie ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just looking to learn more for me and my mate

264  Date: 2001-01-19 23:34:00
INDY ( / wrote:

Caryl is a sign post in the community who .....points the way for many and offers ways of guidence to those that need to know where to go ...She is a woman of high esteem and is most gracious we in the community are very fortunate to have such a person ......Thank you Caryl ....hugs always to you ....

263  Date: 2001-01-09 16:12:00
george ( / no homepage) wrote:

just looking to get started in the community looking for all the information i can get.

262  Date: 2001-01-08 00:44:00
Eugene ( / wrote:

Nice straight foward, user friendly and informative site. Hope you stay on the web a long time. Hard to find this in the US as compaired to northern Euroupe. Very grateful. Thanks

261  Date: 2000-12-30 09:00:00
Wendy ( / no homepage) wrote:

I really enjoyed this informative site. Learned more, too.

260  Date: 2000-12-28 08:10:00
Lee7 ( / wrote:

I found your site while surfing, very interesting and you are a very sexy woman, take care and play safe :-)

259  Date: 2000-12-24 12:28:00
storm lady ( / no homepage) wrote:

looking to learn more. keep me on your mailing list

258  Date: 2000-12-18 06:57:00
Rustang ( / wrote:

Thanks for the ICQ BDSM ist. that' a help.

257  Date: 2000-12-10 16:43:00
Jasta ( private / no homepage) wrote:

I am overwhelmed by the vast quantity and the high quality of your site content. Obviously this is a labor of love. And, a free site? I will definitely make a contribution to your donut fund!! Thank you pretty lady!!

256  Date: 2000-11-28 03:39:00
dombob ( dombob48 / no homepage) wrote:

I must give you o lot of cred for this page.
This could be very vital for some people to read prior to take the step in meeting irl, since people here on IRC sometimes isn't what they appear to be.Also if they have families that love them.

255  Date: 2000-11-21 02:11:00
DUNBARIC ( / no homepage) wrote:

Was a pleasre to meet you the other day . Thank you for the info. Have been needing to have a Local contact.

254  Date: 2000-11-15 03:40:00
Brezz ( / no homepage) wrote:

I have always returned to your page your a comfort to all

253  Date: 2000-10-28 07:59:00
gene ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl, thank you for providing such an informative page. As someone who wants to learn more about the scene, I appreciate your efforts.

252  Date: 2000-10-23 18:48:00
Daniel ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hello Old Friend,
I was online and thought I'd look you up. After stopping thru channel #submission, I knew I had to contact you again. Miss you much and would like to hear from you.


251  Date: 2000-10-16 07:19:00
blujem ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

ICQ# 82572643
still think your so find,hope to meet you someday
thank you for such a great page.
Blessed Be

250  Date: 2000-10-15 23:40:00
MsNita ( / wrote:

Very nice writings.....*SMILES*

249  Date: 2000-10-12 19:05:00
Mark B ( / no homepage) wrote:


Fantastic job! Thank you for taking the time to put together such a tasteful and informative web page.

248  Date: 2000-10-12 09:56:00
misty ( / no homepage) wrote:

caryl, its been awhile since i've been here and true to form your site is as always one of the best, only you could show such class and style ,keep up the wonderfull work,the love you have for sharing just keeps on shinning. Thank you for all the help you've giving me, warmest of huggers. misty...

247  Date: 2000-10-07 20:53:00
robert c ( / no homepage) wrote:

I would like to thank you for your support. It is good to know that we can come here and find what we need know as submissives.

246  Date: 2000-10-06 23:44:00
Jade ( / wrote:

I am continually astounded at how efficient and well designed you informational site is. As a novice webmaven myself, I appreciate the continuity, clarity and thoroughness your site embodies.
When asked about local events, I have really only one answer: Caryl's Page.

Till Soon,
your obvious fan,

at LARaww, Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women

245  Date: 2000-10-05 16:53:00
Rick ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just wanted to say thank you for the page.
It is a great resource

244  Date: 2000-10-05 00:39:00
Roy and Glenda Carlisle ( / no homepage) wrote:

Found your sight by accident while looking for links in the Taos, New Mexico area. We are longtime memebers of EROS, in Houston and will be retiring to Taos in 3 yrs and are hoping to make contacts in that area. Very nice sight.

243  Date: 2000-10-03 02:11:00
Shae` ( / wrote:

Your site is wonderful!!!... It seems each time I return here I find new things to browse through and to read... Thank you for sharing with all of us :)

242  Date: 2000-10-02 11:49:00
Nova Saigo ( / wrote:

I like what you have written about your experiences pertaining relationships. A new submissive can gain much insight through your written thoughts. Your writing and basic attitude is of a spiritual nature. I would like to offer you the NovaLand BDSM Spirituality Award.
Thank you for taking the time to create this site.


241  Date: 2000-09-28 03:17:00
Scot and Judy ( / wrote:

Great site, enjoyed our visit and your list of special events was wonderful also, but you missed one...The Folsom Street Fair (put on by SMMILE) each september in San Francisco.
Keep up the good work.

240  Date: 2000-09-23 23:17:00
Kelly ( / wrote:

New at this and still exploring. Would love to meet new friends and have new experiences.


239  Date: 2000-09-20 05:55:00
pisces ( / no homepage) wrote:

great site very informative, answered all my questions, thanks caryl

238  Date: 2000-09-10 08:20:00
Friedhelm Hülsebus ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks for ur helping hands


237  Date: 2000-09-09 19:22:00
irishdave1 ( / no homepage) wrote:

i'llhave to come back to really go over it

236  Date: 2000-09-09 07:38:00
Tara Nicole ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl, Thank you for such a great and informative website. I'm learning a lot.


235  Date: 2000-09-08 18:08:00
Bill ( / no homepage) wrote:

You look great and so does the site. Hope to explore it more and get to know more. Thanks.

234  Date: 2000-09-04 09:36:00
nudom2000 ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for the resources

233  Date: 2000-08-27 19:38:00
Mark the Shark ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your site was very helpful to me. Nicely done. I am looking for contacts in SD as my sub has recently moved from the area. Do you have any recommendations? With repect, M

232  Date: 2000-08-21 06:11:00
Philip the Foole ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just had the great pleasure of meeting Caryl this weekend. She is a twisted, drooling, cackling, sicko pervert. My kind of woman!

Your Humble Jester,

Philip the Foole

It has been my experience that if you hang out with the right bunch of twisted, drooling, cackling, sicko perverts and tell them your erotic fantasies, they are not likely to *remain* fantasies.
- Ancient Kung Foole Proverb

231  Date: 2000-08-20 16:37:00
Wumpus ( / wrote:

Found this site through Stephen's BDSM site when I was checking his link to us ... great site caryl!


230  Date: 2000-08-14 18:22:00
andy ( / no homepage) wrote:

nice one, great site

229  Date: 2000-08-12 17:10:00
Whip Wilson ( / wrote:

Very nice page.

228  Date: 2000-08-08 08:54:00
Moonson ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site, great chat!

227  Date: 2000-08-03 21:46:00
Sir,Dr.D. ( / wrote:

Very Informative site with great info.
Enjoyed surfing it!
Best of Luck,

226  Date: 2000-07-08 10:23:00
Steve ( / no homepage) wrote:

wonderful site/ Idaho

225  Date: 2000-07-04 11:33:00
SMart Café ( / wrote:

Great site - good information
Greetings from Vienna

224  Date: 2000-06-18 02:00:00
jean ( / no homepage) wrote:

great site

223  Date: 2000-06-10 09:09:00
Richard ( / wrote:

Your friend and admirer

222  Date: 2000-06-04 07:35:00
Malcolm (Bigmal) ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl I like your site, as you say its about Safe,Sane & Consensual.Love Mal.

221  Date: 2000-05-31 19:36:00
Sir ( / no homepage) wrote:

caryl, your site is excellent both in content and form. you have gained My respect as both an intelligent and creative soul, and as an obviously very, very "sweet surrender".

220  Date: 2000-05-12 03:49:00
George W ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl's site is great and I'm sure Caryl is a great little sub herself

219  Date: 2000-05-10 00:28:00
TAIC69>mo ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your site has brought me hour's of pleasurable browsing.
Thank You,

218  Date: 2000-05-03 09:18:00
Hotch ( / http://to_be announced) wrote:

No message, just a hello from a net friend from the past.

217  Date: 2000-05-01 21:20:00
diane ( / wrote:

Nice plkace to visit

216  Date: 2000-04-30 22:17:00
Thomas e Tate ( / no homepage) wrote:

good site caryl

215  Date: 2000-04-30 10:36:00
David ( / no homepage) wrote:

Im very impressed.
Looks like you realy care about this bdsm and about others who have the same intrests, and their safity.
If every one took the same view as you ,it would be a safer comunity.

214  Date: 2000-04-22 04:47:00
David ( / no homepage) wrote:

A wonderful resource Caryl! You have done a real service with this effort. I am delighted to find a source that deals with our lifestyle in a serious and informative manner. Congratulations and very best wishes.

213  Date: 2000-04-19 21:25:00
Eric Y. ( / no homepage) wrote:

Still looking for bdsm in Ireland. Good to seesomeone taking the lifestyle seriously. Keep
it up. Regards, Eric.

212  Date: 2000-04-15 01:24:00
Keith Nesson ( / no homepage) wrote:


Just change e-mail address (old was:, and wantedto update the mailing list.

211  Date: 2000-04-09 14:10:00
C. ( / no homepage) wrote:

I like the way you put your page together.
Enjoyed the reading and your a pretty lady , very easy on the eyes.
Thank You for sharing.

210  Date: 2000-03-23 00:58:00
tex_male_sub ( / no homepage) wrote:

this one is still reading the site,but from what he has seen it is very well written "smiles"

209  Date: 2000-03-21 08:59:00
SwtChks ( / no homepage) wrote:

You have done a Magnificent job!
Your Site is Eye pleasing,Easy to Navigate,
Highly Informative, and you have provided
Excellent Links to Information, Products
and Services. Thanks for Your Outstanding Contribution to the Web. Well Done!!!

208  Date: 2000-03-18 16:23:00
David / KnightMan ( / wrote:

good morning caryl,
*s* been a long time since we've chatted... I trust you are doing well.... I still refer lots of folks to your site, and have only now learned you have your own domain name... congrats! I'll correct my referal info to update such now *s*

Been doing a bit of writing of my own... just a few musings, but you might take a look:

Be well, and lovely to visit your site again *s*

207  Date: 2000-03-17 16:08:00
Ricky Barlow ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site! You almost make me want to change to a sub... but not quite.
Anyone in Essex, UK interested?
For your info Moonkiss URL has changed to:

206  Date: 2000-03-05 19:58:00
juniper ( / no homepage) wrote:

i am searching for contact with other slaves within the bdsm community. Master supports this and encourages it... perhaps i have found the place for this to become a reality... thank you. slave juniper {} property of Master D

205  Date: 2000-02-27 02:05:00
jenni ( / wrote:

a great collection of info -- thank you :-)

204  Date: 2000-02-22 11:40:00
c sadowski ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hard to find a good pagwe these days

203  Date: 2000-02-19 07:14:00
Cathy ( / wrote:

I just want to say thank you for all the information that I have been able to find regarding the new path my life is taking.
Thank you,

202  Date: 2000-02-14 23:24:00
Serafina und Sir Steel ( / wrote:

hi .. greeetings from switzerland .. nice page ..

best wishes

S+SS ;-)

201  Date: 2000-02-08 19:38:00
kimberly ( / no homepage) wrote:

hi caryl
love ya honey

200  Date: 2000-02-08 12:27:00
vito palmisano ( / no homepage) wrote:

I'm new here but would like to find out more. Thank you.

199  Date: 2000-02-07 02:03:00
Neal ( / no homepage) wrote:

Duh, I got it finally,

198  Date: 2000-01-29 12:24:00
Islander1^ ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great page caryl!!!!!Love those legs hon.:)

197  Date: 2000-01-27 23:38:00
M Tower ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice site caryl. Thank you for all your obvious hard work. I am a member of CHASM which does not have a website as yet. Hopefully it will someday look as nice as this does.

196  Date: 2000-01-19 10:52:00
Ron ( / wrote:

caryl you have done a fantastic job on these pages
I am pleased to recommend them everyone I know in the fetish lifestyle
thank you for all your hard work making the community a little smaller so we may contact each other

195  Date: 2000-01-11 01:04:00
desire ( / no homepage) wrote:

love your page.....thank you very much

194  Date: 2000-01-09 22:28:00
sherri ( / no homepage) wrote:

I thank you for letting me search through your web page. I found everything very interesting and very helpful to me. I am new to the bdsm idea, and didn't know where else to go to find others in my area like me. Thank you for helping me.

193  Date: 2000-01-03 01:31:00
John L. wright ( jwr1059037@aol / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl thank you for your great site keep the great work going .

192  Date: 2000-01-02 01:31:00
rodney ( / no homepage) wrote:

i love your page oooxxx

191  Date: 1999-12-20 17:52:00
gene stephan fudge ( /, wrote:

i want to join (carols page), for newsletter, books,catalogs,resoures,searches,personals,ways to meet a friend (1st),(2nd) a ms to be (personal property),etc.

190  Date: 1999-12-15 05:07:00
Dee ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very nice page !!!! Do you allow M2F cross dressers ?
Thank you, Dee

189  Date: 1999-12-08 15:22:00
MasterB ( / wrote:

I only discover your site now. Great work, very well done, excellent presentation, a real pleasure !
And, what a incredible source of informations !!
Maybe we can create a link in my new website !
(Belgium / Canada)

188  Date: 1999-11-29 18:43:00
chainedove ( / wrote:

You have a really nice site. I am not in southern CA, But the rest of it is great.

187  Date: 1999-11-18 02:00:00
glen ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks for the info. at the risk of being considered forward or sexist, I must add, you are very beautiful ---------- glen

186  Date: 1999-11-17 06:05:00
Masterden ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site..plan on retruning as often as I can

185  Date: 1999-11-11 06:23:00
Dave ( / no homepage) wrote:

VERY nicely done. I'm in the So. Cal area too. Best wishes.

184  Date: 1999-11-07 16:14:00
Kitten Tonie ( / no homepage) wrote:

my first visit!
A great gathering of resources and information.

Thank You!
submissively yours

183  Date: 1999-11-05 11:32:00
Peter ( / wrote:

Very interesting sites from caryl.
I like it very much!!!

182  Date: 1999-11-01 01:23:00
Sue ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks for the wonderful site......Sue

181  Date: 1999-10-30 20:40:00
M-RE ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

Hello Carly,(blue)
Luv the things you have offered to all of us. Keep
up the good work.

180  Date: 1999-10-27 21:24:00
sweete ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice page, wish i would have found this before.

179  Date: 1999-09-26 23:51:00
Terry ( / wrote:

wonderful site

178  Date: 1999-09-26 03:20:00
Matt ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi sis-
Just passing through checking out your site. You're quite a gal! Keep in touch, k?

177  Date: 1999-09-05 09:05:00
Miki ( / wrote:

Love your site. I have it bookmarked.

176  Date: 1999-08-20 07:24:00
Miss Nadia ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great web site, a lot of great information with a lot of great links.

175  Date: 1999-08-14 16:22:00
Hot_lace ( / no homepage) wrote:

wonderful site here!
I'm into pretty much EVERYTHING!!
feel free to respond to my email...

174  Date: 1999-08-13 01:59:00
Rob ( / no homepage) wrote:

I like lifestyle

173  Date: 1999-08-01 20:59:00
Mark Milici ( / no homepage) wrote:

I loved your site. Nice to finally get to "see" you hehe. It's been a long time but hey I'm back! :)

172  Date: 1999-07-30 03:47:00
nicole ( / no homepage) wrote:

was i halucinating or did i find a humor section here yesterday (7/28) that is gone today? the page had "A Master's Perfect Day," "A Mistress' Perfect Day," and a big list of BD alot of other stuff that i didn't get to. help me! i thought it was the funniest thing and i wanted one of my girfriends to see the "Mistress' Perfect Day"

if it was here, please tell me how to get back to it
if it wasn't here, please help me find it

Thank You

171  Date: 1999-07-25 02:00:00
Tim Looper ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl you look great.. I have a question, what do submissive women really want when the enter into a S&M relationship?

170  Date: 1999-07-18 13:29:00
Dukar ( / wrote:

caryl, dear

It has been a long time since we have talked. I some times miss those early morning chats in #submission

you have put together a wonderful page!

169  Date: 1999-07-18 06:13:00
Karie ( / no homepage) wrote:

I just wanted to say how overjoyed I was when this site was shown to Me by a friend I met online. I have found the ICQ, links, and information to be enlightening. Thank you for taking the time to set this up for A/all of U/us!

168  Date: 1999-07-17 23:39:00
phoenix ( / wrote:

This is an incredible site. Full of information on this lifestyle. With your permission I would love to link your page to mine. Please review my site and let me know your thoughts on a link. Your pages are so beautifully done. Wishing you well, phoenix

167  Date: 1999-07-15 12:57:00
gentle_rain ( / no homepage) wrote:

There is so much information packed in such a tiny space....Thank you for sharing it with U/us all.


166  Date: 1999-07-11 00:32:00
ALAN PUMP ( ASP_HOTMAIL.COM / no homepage) wrote:


165  Date: 1999-07-06 12:04:00
NiteFrost ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice looking site, and nice looking girl. Is this site dedicated to southern california only?

164  Date: 1999-06-29 05:15:00
Novi ( / no homepage) wrote:

You have a nice icq site here i bookmarked it and will b back when i have some time also that is a very nice picture of you you are very pretty take care novi

163  Date: 1999-06-23 12:35:00
Jo Wolf ( / wrote:

Very nice....

162  Date: 1999-06-21 01:09:00
Kevin ( / no homepage) wrote:

HEy All Caryl dear girl and dedicated sub.
Lady of many faces(all beautiful)

161  Date: 1999-06-08 23:25:00
kelley ( / no homepage) wrote:

i am pleased that there are nice sites like yours to provide info to like minded people. Thanks

160  Date: 1999-06-03 14:46:00
Kevin Williams ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your page is wonderfull! As a closet sub who is married to and deeply loves his vanilla wife this site is very educational and such a comfort. Thank you!!

159  Date: 1999-05-30 04:45:00
Stephen ( / no homepage) wrote:

I haven't looked everywhere on your page caryl, but so far it looks very good. Well done, tasteful, and

informative. Thank you for all your work.

158  Date: 1999-05-29 06:51:00
lucy4ever ( / wrote:

I'm enjoying your page nice to read and see :)
I wrote above the url form my boyfriend's page you could visit it'd be cool :)))))))

157  Date: 1999-05-21 06:46:00
Thenightangel ( / n/a_so far) wrote:

great page, marvelous links, excellent resources, this page I think I'll return to.

156  Date: 1999-05-14 16:42:00
Billy ( / wrote:

Well......I'm Billy and and I'm kinda into the BDSM thing and WOW! She's really cute and neat and and she's got a great BDSM web site..and...and...thank you for being you caryl....Hugs and Kisses....Billy

155  Date: 1999-05-13 21:46:00
Charles ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very Lovely picture. Amazing the things you can find on the net, I always thought I was in the minority in this lifestyle.

154  Date: 1999-05-13 05:00:00
Wind_Lord ( / no homepage) wrote:

A very fine site
thank you

153  Date: 1999-05-06 18:27:00
HOOTANY ( no email / no homepage) wrote:


152  Date: 1999-05-06 18:24:00
JES ( HOOTANY / no homepage) wrote:


151  Date: 1999-05-06 17:58:00
Becky ( / no homepage) wrote:

I've spent a lot of time browsing this site...lots of good links and lots of good information. I recommend it to others.

150  Date: 1999-05-02 04:13:00
markho ( / no homepage) wrote:

Lovely page. So good to find others like me.
Thank you.

149  Date: 1999-04-15 23:02:00
Deviagurl ( / wrote:

loved your page. if you'd like we exhange banners with others, my Daddys and me's pages are pretty HOT. ~grins~

148  Date: 1999-04-09 08:02:00
Lord Kerric's lilwench ( / wrote:

hi caryl,
just surfing tonight. trying not to mess with our website *grin*, stopped by to get lost in your website. i always enjoy my stay. thanks

147  Date: 1999-04-08 07:41:00
Chris ( / wrote:

I have been looking a long time for a site with people with intrest just like mine. Plus I like you ICQ list of others liking the same life style. Thanks so mcuh for your page. Chris

146  Date: 1999-04-08 01:21:00
Derek ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you very much. I have been looking for a place to meet people with my interest. I'm very new at this. I hope to meet you someday!!!

145  Date: 1999-04-04 23:40:00
LrdWillow ( / no homepage) wrote:

nice home pages, and cute smile!

144  Date: 1999-03-29 08:28:00
BillyB ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl has been a big assistance in getting us started with the making connection routine.

Great help and very pleasant.. I am all smiles and willing to suppor ttheneeds or others..

143  Date: 1999-03-28 08:54:00
Sir Jay ( / no homepage) wrote:

I've thoroughly enjoyed our exchanges and look forward to continuing them. Your site and dedication are phenomenal.

142  Date: 1999-03-26 01:27:00
GENTLEMASTER ( / no homepage) wrote:

This is the most comprehensive and through job I've ever seen!My compliments to your Master,I wish I could find a sub like you!

141  Date: 1999-03-21 01:18:00
Mistress Carrie ( no email / wrote:

your site looks great been wondering if there are otheres in the inland area thanks again
Mistress Carrie

140  Date: 1999-03-12 07:48:00
OGRE ( HALFTRACK_73@WEBTV.NET / no homepage) wrote:

I LIKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

139  Date: 1999-03-01 22:13:00
Mike ( / no homepage) wrote:

Smooth and clear web page, nice work. I'm a beginner. Actually brand new. Maybe you could stear me to someone in New England (New Hampshire to be exact)to work with. Regards Mike

138  Date: 1999-02-28 11:18:00
Pete Beattie ( / no homepage) wrote:

Definitely one of my fav' pages. Good resources and links, I return frequently. As for the check, no need. Good luck in your new job.
Pete Beattie

137  Date: 1999-02-24 13:07:00
Master Revelation - (Peter) ( / no homepage) wrote:

You have constructed a well designed site - full of valuable information and assistance
Keep up the great work!

136  Date: 1999-02-21 16:49:00
Mistress Raven ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your site is very helpful to a newcomer. Thanks!

135  Date: 1999-02-20 18:50:00
Jimmy Roy ( / no homepage) wrote:

Very good site, and what a good idea to put a lot of S&M sites together for retreiving fans. Continue in that way! Master Steven

134  Date: 1999-02-15 13:20:00
CalikoJack ( / no homepage) wrote:

Dear caryl,

We met at #submission and spoke briefly. From what I have seen of your web site, it's really beautiful. Unfortunately, my computer is a turd (486 - 66mhz). Were I to explore the entire site, I'd miss the munch (which I am planning to attend). I hope to get access to a MUCH faster machine during the week so I can see the entire site. I look forward to meeting you and the rest of the munch group this coming Sat. If I don't catch you at #submission this week, I'll see you this weekend.

Again, beautiful site. I can see the love you've put into it. Take good care.

CalikoJack aka "Buck Kinneer"
r/l Tom

133  Date: 1999-02-14 09:59:00
Flagg ( / http://www.the-estate.com_ wrote:

A lovely and well put together site. A pleasure to meet you, caryl.

132  Date: 1999-02-09 00:14:00
slave Sheila ( / http://_none yet) wrote:

We are Master Jeff and slave Sheila, Master is quite Dominant and I am a submissive slave. We are a married couple of many years and are still very active in BDSM. We have many wonderful adventures together and sometimes with others with Master photographing most of it over the years.

131  Date: 1999-01-25 11:43:00
linnea ( / wrote:

it was nice to chat on icq. hope we get to have lunch or dinner soon. i have found your web site to be very informational!


130  Date: 1999-01-24 10:14:00
kiki ( / no homepage) wrote:

I dont waiste time to write on gust book but your site worth it ! so much info and so generous . I am a sub searching for a Mistress but if I was a Master I would want to be yours bye bye

129  Date: 1999-01-19 17:59:00
12.31/34 ( / no homepage) wrote:

nice going ,too bad im not sub LOL

128  Date: 1999-01-19 13:36:00
MASTER T. ( THETONY@BIGFOOT.COM / no homepage) wrote:


127  Date: 1999-01-19 02:20:00
Barry Rick ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am just getting familiar with the scene here. I'm from Washington, DC, was a member of the Black Rose for a number of years, and need all the help I can get.

126  Date: 1999-01-16 14:39:00
Master Paul ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site Caryl

Good liks to personals etc

I am in Adelaide, South Australia and if there are any female subbies who want to say g'day and maybe more, mail me at

Master Paul

125  Date: 1999-01-11 18:44:00
Kilroy ( / wrote:

Great site, lots of good info.

124  Date: 1999-01-09 02:28:00
John ( / no homepage) wrote:

How nice to find a kink-friendly site without you-know-what... thanks a million!

123  Date: 1999-01-08 11:51:00
Dr. Richard Richman ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi, I am a Dominance Master of A bunch of Submissive women who work for me for free at my Holistic Institute here in Alameda Ca. You are doing a Great thing at your site.
More power to you. Maybe we can exchange photos. I have thousands and thousands of photos and videos. Please contact me. DR. R

122  Date: 1999-01-08 03:42:00
ManOnTop ( / wrote:

Looks quite complete!!!!! I like it!!!

121  Date: 1999-01-07 19:25:00
Tasio ( / no homepage) wrote:

I LOVE THIS GAME !!!!!!!!!!!

120  Date: 1999-01-07 18:02:00
MrL ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hats Off!
For a fine site.

119  Date: 1999-01-06 16:05:00
Ed ( / no homepage) wrote:

am new to this life style very docile and willing to learn to be submissive

118  Date: 1999-01-04 02:37:00
Thomas Bower ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for your information for our use.

117  Date: 1999-01-03 20:56:00
LC ( / wrote:

Happy New Year!

I had a visit on your site, again.


116  Date: 1999-01-03 03:21:00
George Schroeder ( / no homepage) wrote:

Happy New Year Caryl;
Your web-site is definitely a welcome sight for sore eyes (among several other body parts!) I can't wait to attend my first munch!

115  Date: 1999-01-02 22:47:00
george capri ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your caring and honest approach is seen
on your site. I give it 4**** and have
finally found the ultimate scene site
I have been looking for.

Best wishes for a great new year !

114  Date: 1998-12-31 05:50:00
dirt ( / wrote:

hi,just thought I'd say hi THE DIRT

113  Date: 1998-12-22 05:39:00
Lance ( / no homepage) wrote:

caryl I really enjoyed your home page. it is put together very well and gives much needed info on our lifestyle. I intend to pass the URL on to others

112  Date: 1998-12-21 15:56:00
Barbra_CD ( / no homepage) wrote:

Mistress, I hope to chat with you very soon... You are my BDSM dream and I need to serve you like a real slave... My best wishes and Season's Greetings Barbra, cross dresser from Milan, Italy

111  Date: 1998-12-18 01:26:00
steven rabin ( / no homepage) wrote:

hi caryl , wonderful info , well laid out , super site, please keep it up , it is a pleasure always to visit your pages .
stevn in london

110  Date: 1998-12-12 03:21:00
Chuck ( / no homepage) wrote:

I really like your page and views I live in the Spokane area, be nice to meet you some time.


109  Date: 1998-12-07 09:07:00
david morton ( / no homepage) wrote:

thank you for the information. i think i'll try icq first......

108  Date: 1998-11-29 11:42:00
Denton and jen ( / wrote:

Great site. thanks for the ICQ list... keep it up...

We are a R/T MDom couiple in central CA... glad to have friends in our life that understand us...

107  Date: 1998-11-28 16:03:00
Valentin ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl,

A site of class and style.

Looking for a nice approach to introduce my interest for different loving into my relationship - thanks!


106  Date: 1998-11-28 04:50:00
Larry ( / no homepage) wrote:

Saw your site on a post - thought I would check it out! :)

105  Date: 1998-11-24 11:19:00
Sir Nobleheart ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

hi caryl

I just visited your web site and it deserves all the awards it can get. I notced that you still have my poem in the Gallery. Thanks.

104  Date: 1998-11-19 20:57:00
sonorra ( / no homepage) wrote:


I just want to let you know that I have deleted irc from my computer and give you my email address. I'm looking for a r/l relationship and long distance isn't my style. I felt like that was all I was going to find in channel. I became truly disillusioned and lost and decided to leave. I guess I have to hear my own voice in this lifestyle and this is the best way to do it. When you get moved down here (san diego) maybe we can get together and talk. I hope that things are going well for you....thanks for your hard work in this site...its great.


103  Date: 1998-11-18 00:08:00
Diane ( / no homepage) wrote:


Really enjoyed your site! The "Safety & Me" section is excellent!


102  Date: 1998-10-17 00:55:00
Bassman ( / wrote:

No way is that guy right for you! Quick, come to me my little love muffin!

No? Oh, well, it was worth a try!

101  Date: 1998-10-05 14:58:00
Lidia ( / no homepage) wrote:

Excelente Home Page

100  Date: 1998-10-04 20:29:00
James McGraw ( / no homepage) wrote:


I have been into this interest we share for sometime now but how can a guy that is aware,
safe and concerned about the pleasure and well-being
of his playmates find a nice person withwhich to play? I'm in Los Angeles and you need a contact to
join or whatever in any organization or club. I enjoy the Masquarade and Bondage Go-Go in S.F. but
this is too far for a frequent thing. Yahoo is where
I meet people but they are relentless in censoring
the BDSM. :( Is there a way to show I'm and others
such as me are worthy of meeting other worthy people?

My first experiences were as a submissive to a girl
in college and it ended badly, therefore, it's real
that there are people you just don't want anything
withwhich to do. Anything I do, try on myself. Weeell, almost everything *blush*.

Are there any mentors that can lead me and others
safely into the world of powerexchanging.

Perhaps, the girl of my dreams will like this intriguing interests we all share.

Thank You for your space.

Play safe.




I saw Strangeland with friends (they don't show interest in BDSM) and it "freaked me out". Internet
and sadist wierdness that gives clubs and BDSM....
a bad reputation.

Ohmygod, play safe.... be very-very safe!!!!!

99  Date: 1998-10-02 22:08:00
Robert ( / no homepage) wrote:

Kind of got here by accident but glad I found you because we D/s's need a real place to air and discover...Thanks!!

98  Date: 1998-09-27 19:56:00
Brian ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site, finding it very hard to locate people in this area, ( Near Ottawa and NorthBay Ontario )
Sure to return

97  Date: 1998-09-25 06:04:00
Sandi ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for the opportunity to learn.....

96  Date: 1998-09-22 22:19:00
MASTER EZ ( / no homepage) wrote:

Excellent hompage and a good contact point for US in the Lifestyle

95  Date: 1998-09-20 03:31:00
Greg ( / wrote:

I like the feel of this web site - not sure how it works just yet but seems I'm among decent folk with a common interest just like me.
More later after I explore futher.


94  Date: 1998-09-16 10:24:00
joshua ( / no homepage) wrote:

thank you SOOO much for the information listed in your site! you have helped me find a good starting place to search for other individuals in my area that share my interests. (p.s. you look hot!)

93  Date: 1998-09-14 20:27:00
Carrie ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great sight thank you

92  Date: 1998-09-13 21:34:00
John ( / no homepage) wrote:

This is a very informative site. You and your master do a wounderful job..

91  Date: 1998-09-12 20:49:00
cindy ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi just snooping around. I got your web site of a pdx-asb posting

90  Date: 1998-09-10 06:27:00
patricia ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi, my name is patricia i am a 24/7,and i tripped onto this site seems like a good site...thnaks us RT subs need web pages like these...

89  Date: 1998-09-09 21:06:00
Steve ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great page, I understand that I will have the chance to meet you tonight. Looking forward to it.

88  Date: 1998-09-08 05:30:00
Chili ( / no homepage) wrote:

Newly submissive male looking for teacher.

87  Date: 1998-09-02 23:39:00
Connie ( / no homepage) wrote:

I am looking for a man in his 30's or40's in GA to give me my first ever spanking. Please email me so we can talk and gain truth. I need an experienced my for my first!!

86  Date: 1998-08-27 05:42:00
Jmichael ( / no homepage) wrote:

Though a long time participant in the D/s lifestyle, it is only recently that I have been on the www. caryl, congratulations on a great site, it's certain to be one that I come back to again.... and again.

Thank you; I am...................Jmichael; (

85  Date: 1998-08-26 22:57:00
Sherilyne ( / wrote:

I have been here a few times, so now I wanted to finally get around to telling you once again this is one of the best sites on-line, information is packed nicely, easy to use, good and informative links. Sis you should be very proud :)

84  Date: 1998-08-20 17:29:00
George Levecque ( levecque.jantel@#sympatico.caLovely_picture of hos / no homepage) wrote:

Lovely picture of Host, well done layout, very informative

83  Date: 1998-08-17 17:21:00
April & Ron ( / wrote:

I was very impressed with your excellent web site. I have recently built one to demonstrate and explain our concept of what I call "Erotic Bondage." It seems to support the same philosophy as your site, consentual, bondage, play, and not harm done to anyone by anyone.
Please take a lookand let me know what you think and how I may improve my page.
BTY, we live in rural Oregon and have very few friends into this type activity.


82  Date: 1998-08-16 01:44:00
Gino ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site !!! The Calendar is the most thorough I've seen. I travel between (sub in) So CAl and (work and live in) No Cal and it's interesting to see a more complete California calendar. Everything else is fine too, Keep up the good work, caryl!!!

81  Date: 1998-08-11 17:17:00
Cradle & Debase ( / wrote:

As difficult a lifestyle we are part of,it is always nice to find others who share same.

80  Date: 1998-08-08 04:31:00
Gwenda and rain ( WHAPPED@HOTMAIL.COM / no homepage) wrote:

Great site.Thank you Caryl.We are a couple that live near Seattle, Wa. and are seeking couples to share ideas concerning Domestic Discipline. Gwenda is the disciplinarian in our household, and rain is the "housekeeper" among other things. Hope to hear from like minded Couples soon.

79  Date: 1998-08-06 02:47:00
Edmund F Ball ( / no homepage) wrote:

Just a note I was here !!!
Will talk to you later.
I like what you have done.
Again Thanks

78  Date: 1998-08-01 06:57:00
jim ( / no homepage) wrote:

I want to post a public THANK YOU to Caryl. I'm new
and was made to feel very welcome on my first contact with anyone on these topics.Kudos on all your awards Caryl. You're the Greatest!


77  Date: 1998-08-01 05:38:00
jim ( / no homepage) wrote:

I want to post a public THANK YOU to Caryl. I'm new
and was made to feel very welcome on my first contact with anyone on these topics.Kudos on all your awards Caryl. You're the Greatest!


76  Date: 1998-07-31 15:17:00
Paul ( / no homepage) wrote:

Greeting's from the Boston Area!
I was referred to your page by a recent e-mail friend. She said, "Click onto Caryl's page and you can find great information"
She was right! You have done a great job providing all these great resorces. I have a burning desire to learn, your page will provide me with that.
I thought I would also pass this along, my friend also said, "You can trust Caryl's, she's a good person"

75  Date: 1998-07-31 10:29:00
Nark Jones ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl! Well I THINK I got on the ONElist, thank You, but looking for contacts.. yes, I am searching...well you warned me to be patient :) ) I DO hesitate to do any unknown contacts, but I thought, well, I'll at least check them out.

Meantime, I tried to see how to put a personals on at the Spokane site, but though it said they WOULD be posting them (as did you state such) there was no where to write then down. Am I just suppose to mail in something to Val or someone to be posted later?

I REALLY appreciate your assistance here, Thank You so much, Mark

74  Date: 1998-07-29 03:55:00
Jessica ( / no homepage) wrote:

wow!!!! loved your site...found soooooo much useful information...and links to many things i have sought but had truble finding....THANK YOU!

73  Date: 1998-07-27 21:03:00
jim ( / no homepage) wrote:

First visit to this site....I like what I see so far
I am a sub iso A mistress to train me.

72  Date: 1998-07-27 14:46:00
Harry ( / no homepage) wrote:

Iam DrDuke in sub on dalnet nice page lot to talk more to you but your always so buisy on the channel.... see yaaa Harry

71  Date: 1998-07-24 23:59:00
Charles Muldoon ( / wrote:

I am a Master. I am looking for a Slave or Sub. And I think it great that you have your Home Page setup the way you do. I hope to see you tomorrow nite.

Master Chuck

70  Date: 1998-07-24 08:46:00
Cradle & Debase ( / wrote:

Fine page loaded with significant information. I shall visit again to look for changes.

69  Date: 1998-07-21 23:33:00
DONNA ( / http://have_no homepage) wrote:

I think this site is verry interesting, go on

68  Date: 1998-07-21 23:33:00
DONNA ( / http://have_no homepage) wrote:

I think this site is verry interesting, go on

67  Date: 1998-07-21 07:14:00
SANE ( SANE1234@HOTMAIL.COM / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you, caryl! I have written you directly to express my appreciation, but I wanted to make it public:

Finally, an Oasis of Sanity!

Any friend of caryl's may feel free to write me.
Orange County, California

66  Date: 1998-07-19 23:39:00
Tusk` ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl - great web site!! i'm sure you've heard that before - i enjoyed meeting you the other day.. you are sweet kind and (thankfully) kinky.
a kiss and a long distance spanking for you.

65  Date: 1998-07-19 05:03:00
Michael ( / no homepage) wrote:

You have a very nice site thank you for sharing it with me and all the others.

64  Date: 1998-07-14 06:52:00
terra{RA} ( / no homepage) wrote:

You have an excellent web page...One I'll visit often.

63  Date: 1998-07-12 23:18:00
Dan ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hi Caryl,
Your page gets better every time I see it. Great job. Thanks for being such a "Missionary" for the lifestyle. You're truely a bright spot with your "darkDesyres."
And thanks for hosting the munches. See ya at the next one.


62  Date: 1998-07-05 21:24:00
Rick ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thanks for your interest in our Co-Ed BDSM Rap Group and your offer to list it on our site. I hope that you can personally stop by sometime so I can meet you and thank you personally. Rick

61  Date: 1998-07-01 20:57:00
BOB thomasson ( / no homepage) wrote:

Dear Caryl, I just found your site and got on the Socal munchies E-mail list.How wonderful to finally see some S&mers in orange co.Hope to hear frm you soon,BOB

60  Date: 1998-06-30 21:45:00
Greywolf von Horst, OBF ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice site- shows a lot of hard work. Much appreciated.

59  Date: 1998-06-26 00:56:00
Mr. Jerry ( / wrote:

Beautiful site, just like it's creator. Thank you againg for everything and looking forward to talking with you again and possibly meeting if you ever decide to travel to Alaska.
Take care stay sweet be a good girl God Bless.

Mr. Jerry

58  Date: 1998-06-24 03:27:00
jharvey ( / no homepage) wrote:

your sure cute caryl!! Ever come to Fresno?
nice page! jharvey

57  Date: 1998-06-18 09:46:00
Grazia ( / wrote:

Great pages. I love your site. keep on going!

56  Date: 1998-06-16 13:51:00
Toll ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

your still the nicest person on the net,
thank you for your kindness.

55  Date: 1998-06-16 12:40:00
Dave (Assassin) ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice pages caryl, lots of good contacts as well. I'm glad I came. See you around & about


54  Date: 1998-06-14 07:30:00
Dirk Rose ( / no homepage) wrote:

I cannot tell you how much I appreciate the listings of bdsm personals sites. Thank you, you've got a great site.

53  Date: 1998-06-13 21:10:00
Steve C. ( / no homepage) wrote:

Thank you for providing this resource. It is invaluable to me. I feel great that I was able to find through your IRC listings the #D/s_a_safe_haven room. I have been wondering if such a site existed. Now I know. Thanks

52  Date: 1998-06-13 03:44:00
Slavey ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great home page! i hope to learn more about you. i'm a latches member. Keep up the excellent work.

51  Date: 1998-06-07 11:08:00
T.J. ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your homepage is great!!!

50  Date: 1998-05-27 18:13:00
gina ( / no homepage) wrote:

Master complimented your site and sent me here....he was usual...

49  Date: 1998-05-27 05:53:00
Ron aka Master Thorn ( / wrote:

very nice HP... nice to have met you at the Munch in Long Beach, CA on May 23rd *S*

48  Date: 1998-05-24 20:46:00
Dzur ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nicely done. 8-)

47  Date: 1998-05-16 20:00:00
Peter kemeny ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice pages Caryl; I've bookmarked for a read on
a cold night some time; if there ever is time
I've just waded through a hugh backlog of mail and
realised I'm not even sure which list you are from.
But anyway, its a good read and a valuable resource,
particularly the safety page ......



46  Date: 1998-05-16 15:33:00
BigBear50NJ ( / wrote:

Hiya *waves his paw* what a great page! Useful,helpful and informative! You've been so helpful and pleasant, many thanx also nice lady*S*
Be well and enjoy the journey!

45  Date: 1998-05-13 07:04:00
LadyC ( / no homepage) wrote:

Your site is wonderful!

44  Date: 1998-05-10 10:44:00
MasterOReality ( / no homepage) wrote:

I simply love your site. There is so much great information here. Thanks for sharing it. Keep up the great work. you op a fabulous chat room too. Best one I have been in a very long time. Keep up the great work there too.

43  Date: 1998-05-06 07:44:00
kaicie{SK} ( / wrote:

I love your site! Its very informative and enjoyable to browse through. I plan to place a link on my own homepage, this is a super site I want to share :)

42  Date: 1998-05-04 19:11:00
Jake Of Avalon & Jake's_smil ( / http:// wrote:

Thank you for sharing all of this with us.

41  Date: 1998-05-01 03:19:00
Shai Lasher ( / no homepage) wrote:

I have no words to express my gratitude for this
marvelous site.
Your Master and you, have done a G R E A T service
to the BDSM community.
Thank you both ... to no level of expression available to me through this media... so just...

40  Date: 1998-04-23 16:57:00
Kevin ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl, what a great site. I've visited many times but finally had to write it down and tell you that I recommend your site to everyone I know that is interested in the BDSM lifestyle. Keep up the good work!!!!

39  Date: 1998-04-23 16:46:00
Kevin ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl, what a great site. I've visited many times but finally had to write it down and tell you that I recommend your site to everyone I know that is interested in the BDSM lifestyle. Keep up the good work!!!!

38  Date: 1998-04-22 22:33:00
Bill Duncan ( / no homepage) wrote:

If you are as skillful, artistic and meticulous in your practice of bdsm as you are with the design and content of your web page, would I like to meet you!!! Please keep it up. I have learned a whole lot from it, and, as a novice to this scene, have found ways I can inch into it without unbalancing the rest of my life (and psyche). Thanks!

37  Date: 1998-04-22 05:43:00
Dennis Chadwick ( / wrote:

Great page, I can tell alot of hard work went into it along with alot of heart and soul. Keep up the great work, caryl.

36  Date: 1998-04-17 07:04:00
Touchstone ( / no homepage) wrote:

I Loved the place and will be here more than I probably should :::grin:::

35  Date: 1998-03-31 11:03:00
software_lucky16 ( / no homepage) wrote:

caryl, I am so happy that I finally got to your site! It is heavenly, but what else would I expect from the angel of IRC? Great job honey, I can only hope that mine is a tenth as good. See you in chat...

34  Date: 1998-03-29 15:09:00
kamila ( / wrote:

Great page...

33  Date: 1998-03-21 01:48:00
Tom ( / no homepage) wrote:

We recently met at a munch in Long Beach.You and everyone else were absolutely wonderful lunch company.And I might add,your web page is absolutely striking.

32  Date: 1998-03-10 15:40:00
pride[D] ( / wrote:

Great site, caryl! And congrats on the award, hon, you deserve it... Dukar and i miss you! *smoooch*

31  Date: 1998-03-07 01:40:00
Todd Hawley ( / wrote:

What a fantastic site!! Caryl, you have outdone
yourself with all the wonderful links here!!

30  Date: 1998-03-06 11:53:00
Sir Nobleheart ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great web site, Caryl...thanks for your efforts...I hope to meet you soon. I'd like to submit a poem to you for your page if I may.

Sir Nobleheart

29  Date: 1998-03-06 06:13:00
rai ( / no homepage) wrote:

killer!!! yer soooo gooooooood!!!!!

28  Date: 1998-03-05 15:41:00
debie(^L} ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great website!! Thanks for sharing it with me. I haven't looked at everything yet, seems it might take a while. But i look forward to seeing and reading it all.

Thanks and all the best to you sis!


27  Date: 1998-02-17 13:58:00
sweetbeeuty ( / no homepage) wrote:

I really liked your page caryl it was very imformative......your a wonderful person hun and a wonderful sis

26  Date: 1998-02-17 11:52:00
`Dark`Prince` ( whisperandishallhereit / no homepage) wrote:

Good work pretty one ....and have a wonderful life wishes ....i saw...i came...i..smoked :)

25  Date: 1998-02-09 13:24:00
Moriarti ( / no homepage) wrote:

Oooohhh, Ahhhhh....

24  Date: 1998-02-07 02:51:00
Chronic^ ( / no homepage) wrote:

Nice meeting you again last night! Thanks for the warm welcome. GREAT web site and pretty picture. Chat SOON!

23  Date: 1998-02-05 07:14:00
Falch--- ( / no homepage) wrote:

Hey cutie :)
Stll as lovely as ever and so talented!
Great are coming along swimmingly.
Cannot wait to hear back! see you around

22  Date: 1998-01-28 20:25:00
Toll ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

Really enjoy listening to you on the channel.
keep up the humor.
be well and happy.

21  Date: 1998-01-27 20:52:00
Jeff E ( / no homepage) wrote:

Caryl dear,
Your site is a fantastic wealth of valuable information. It's great. Best of all is the irresistable picture of you. You're beautiful. I hope to meet you some day.

20  Date: 1998-01-27 12:06:00
Murat YANIK ( / no homepage) wrote:


19  Date: 1998-01-27 12:06:00
Murat YANIK ( / no homepage) wrote:


18  Date: 1998-01-20 11:36:00
Larry ( lpa@uknowrest / no homepage) wrote:

Really great hon.... Its getting closer to you in perfection. luv ya

17  Date: 1998-01-20 03:51:00
LordEagel & Lady_kes ( / wrote:

*smile* havent seen all of it, but what i saw was great

see you soon


16  Date: 1998-01-12 01:48:00
Jeff DrDom ( / no homepage) wrote:

Excellent information resource, you have done a excellent job.

15  Date: 1998-01-11 04:50:00
psandiford ( / wrote:

HI home girl (Spokane here). Thanks for taking the time to create the site...someday I may return the kindness and do something about mine. Maybe when I grow-up...LIKE THAT'LL HAPPEN!

See ya on-line luv!

14  Date: 1998-01-11 04:48:00
psandiford ( / wrote:

HI home girl (Spokane here). Thanks for taking the time to create the site...someday I may return the kindness and do something about mine. Maybe when I grow-up...LIKE THAT'LL HAPPEN!

See ya on-line luv!

13  Date: 1997-12-16 07:56:00
Kelly O'Connell ( / no homepage) wrote:

This is great... never thought I would be able to find such a great variety of information in one place. I don't know here to start!!

Thank you for doing this for the community of BDSM

12  Date: 1997-11-23 14:53:00
Islander1^ ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great page caryl!Could use a few more pics of the lovely caryl.:)

11  Date: 1997-11-22 22:51:00
mistie- ( / wrote:


your pages are wonderful! congrats on a job
well done! i was lucky enought to meet you on Dalnet
just today. you are a beautiful gem - on there and in
real life. i hope we get to be soul sisters.

new to the scene and about to bust with excitement!

*big mofo hugs*

Great job on the pages dolL!

10  Date: 1997-11-18 21:53:00
Peter H ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site.. good links..
See you on IRC again I hope

9  Date: 1997-11-15 05:32:00
Kahlil aka Lazarus^Long ( / no homepage) wrote:

Finally came by to see! Looks great! See you in chat.

8  Date: 1997-11-13 21:10:00
RedBeard ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

helo, tiny dancer... good to see you..;)

7  Date: 1997-11-11 22:44:00
karen` ( / no homepage) wrote:

Great site caryl :) I will keep checking back here every so often :)

6  Date: 1997-11-11 12:27:00
DevilMaster ( / wrote:

You have been visited by the Devil

and is impressed.

5  Date: 1997-11-11 01:45:00
SirOak ( no email / no homepage) wrote:

your web site in great.....and I must admit I was much taken with your are beautiful ;-) Thomas (SirOak)

4  Date: 1997-11-07 20:00:00
Bill ( / no homepage) wrote:



3  Date: 1997-11-07 04:13:00
Gee ( / no homepage) wrote:

love it hunny

2  Date: 1997-11-05 20:34:00
mstigger ( / no homepage) wrote:

ohhhh sis... it's SOOOOO good to SEE you. :)
Sure do miss you


1  Date: 1997-11-04 21:25:00
JenLuv ( / no homepage) wrote:

Heya caryl.... Just thought I would check out the site. It looks fabulous... Keep up the good work. Im really impressed...