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Northern California
Regularly Scheduled Events.. Same time every month:
| Sundays ~~~ | ||||
| Date | Time | Group | Location | About |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1st Sun | Noon | PROvert's Brunch Munch | Denny's 2077 North 1st St San Jose | Number one rule: This is a family restaurant so keep the fetish wear to a Very Subtle Minimum. E-Mail ms_tender@comcast.net [Email List] |
| 1st Sun | 11:00 am | FSMG - Ukiah | Ukiah | First Sunday Meeting Group - Private room at a restaurant. Please dress in appropriate attire for a vanilla venue. E-Mail mark695@gmail.com |
| 1st Sun | 11:00 | Fairfield Munch | Fairfield | E-Mail Dominic L_Goodbest@yahoo.com |
| 1st Sun | 5:00 | Visalia Kink Munch | Doogle McGuire's 5422 West Cypress Visalia | Ask for the Visalia Computer Group, and they will direct you to our table(s). E-Mail april visalia_kink@yahoo.com for more information |
| 1st Sun | unDom meeting | Sacramento | Female Submissive Support Group. | |
| 1st Sun | Noon | SAFEWORD, AA | San Francisco Alano Club 1748 Market Street 2nd Floor | A 12-Step meeting for those who are kinky, kink-friendly, involved in the BDSM and or Leather Lifestyle is fledging! This meeting will follow the Alcoholics Anonymous model. You are welcome to come share your Experience, Strength and Hope! Fellowship with Kink-identified folks in an environment where your Alternative / Leather Lifestyle as well as your Recovery are ALL OK! Email mojogoddess@gmail.com |
| 1st Sun | 10:00 a.m. | SVL Pancake breakfast | FACES 2000 K st Midtown Sacramento | Please come and join us for our Monthly Pancake Buffet Benefit. $5.00 Donations towards the local communities and charities. Make your Sunday morning with your local Sacramento Valley Leathermen" Phone: (916) 338-3760 or email svl_club@yahoo.com |
| 1st Sun | Noon | QSM Social | EROS 2051 Market St. San Francisco | A way for kinksters to get together to chat, flirt, gossip, and network. It's not a class. It's not a party. It's not a traditional munch because it's held in a private space, will include a buffet of home-made food, and will have a featured guest. Please RSVP to qsm@sonic.net by the Wednesday before the social so we can plan the food purchases. ** still active? |
| 2nd Sun | 12 pm | Leather n Lace Meeting | Sacramento | Meeting open to dominant & submissive (lesbian, bi & straight) women - email FleurDeLdy@aol.com |
| 2nd Sun | 11:30 am | Tri Valley Munch | Round Table Pizza Livermore | Come meet and greet fellow members of our lifestyle in a comfortable, friendly environment. Share a meal, an idea, an experience or just come to chat face to face with people you may only know from online. We would like to encourage new people who may have questions or would like to learn more about this lifestyle. Email for information and to RSVP to trivalleymunch@usa.com |
| 2nd Sun | 11:15 | The Second Sunday Munch Group | Santa Rosa | SSMG ("2nd Sunday Meeting Group"). For information, Email 4thtuesdaymunch@comcast.net |
| 2nd Sun | 8:00 | The Liquid Munch - LMNOP | Lucky 13 2140 Market St San Francisco | an informal (no formal introductions or announcements) gathering of kinky people in a pleasant neighborhood bar. We generally meet in the mezzanine that's on your left and up the stairs as you walk in. Email pinverarity@yahoo.com |
| 2nd Sun | 1:00 pm | SF Men's Spanking Party | The Power Exchange San Francisco | are on the 2nd Sunday of every month (Except July - Due to CAMP RED TAILS) This is a Male only event, the lighter side of S&M. 18+ Gay, Bi or Straight, Beginners are always welcome. This is NOT a Leather S&M party. The entrance fee is $20.00 "1/2 price with Student or Military ID" * There are 3 EXTRA Saturday Spanking Party. In June - The day before the S.F. Gay Pride Parade. In July - The day before the Up Your Alley Fair. In Sept. - The day before the Folsom Street Fair. For more Info. Call #(415) 864-2766 or Email SanFranParty@Yahoo.com. Info on CAMP RED TAILS - go to www.manshandsfilms.com [Email List] |
| 2nd Sun | 11:00 am | Slap & Tickle Brunch | Park Chow 1238 9th Ave San Francisco | Slap & Tickle B.D.S.M. – Brunch and Drinks. Join our kinky crew for good food and great conversation in a relaxed Sunday Morning environment. For information and to RSVP, to the listing [On Tribe] |
| 3rd Sun | 11:30 | North Bay Munch | The Apple Box Petaluma | For newcomers, welcome! This meeting is a casual get-together of like-minded folks who are brave enough to venture north of the Golden Gate! We're easy-going, friendly and non-judgemental. Please come and get to know others in the local scene! - email anna@northbaymunch.com |
| 3rd Sun | Noon | SAFEWORD, AA | San Francisco Alano Club 1748 Market Street 2nd Floor | A 12-Step meeting for those who are kinky, kink-friendly, involved in the BDSM and or Leather Lifestyle is fledging! This meeting will follow the Alcoholics Anonymous model. You are welcome to come share your Experience, Strength and Hope! Fellowship with Kink-identified folks in an environment where your Alternative / Leather Lifestyle as well as your Recovery are ALL OK! Email mojogoddess@gmail.com |
| 3rd Sun | 2:00 | FantasyMakers Academy Class | Fantasy Makers Berkeley | Email DominaDeia@aol.com for info |
| Last Sun | 11:00 | Lake County Munch | Lakeport Round Table Lakeport | This is NOT a play party but a merely a safe way to meet like-minded friends. It is held at a vanilla venue so please remember to dress accordingly. Please stop by and say hello to your local kinksters. Email missconduct53@yahoo.com |
| Mondays ~~~ | ||||
| 1st Mon | 7:00 | Stampede! Munch | Oregano's Wood-Fired Pizza Los Altos | Adult Pet (Pony, Puppy, Kitty, etc) Munch - Email info@the-stampede.com |
| 1st Mon | 6:30 | Eureka Munch | Old Town Eureka | Please come join us in a celebration of our kinky community. If you are thinking about attending please RSVP to kxcook@suddenlink.net |
| 1st Mon | 6:00 | Reflections | SF Citadel 245 8th street San Francisco | New all female discussion group for submissive/ slaves to learn from others just like you, about issue's regarding the D/s lifestyle in a private setting. No RSVP required |
| 1st Mon | 7:30 | The San Jose Munch | Denny's 2077 N. First St San Jose | Email Munches@smOdyssey.com |
| 1st Mon | 7:00 | Kinky Wimmin! | Oakland | Discussions / social get-togethers for all people who id as women and their ftm friends. Email Briana dryadgrl@netscape.net |
| 2nd Mon | 7:30 | Masters and Slaves Together Meeting | EROS San Francisco | MAsT-SF - a support group for men, gay, straight or bisexual, involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. Daddy Ken at MrKofSF@aol.com |
| 2nd Mon | 7:00 | Berkeley munch | Celia's Mexican Restaurant 2040 4th St Berkeley | Email rberend@igc.apc.org or Zzzswitch@aol.com - No RSVP needed. [article] * Feb 12, 2007 will be final munch |
| 2nd Mon | 7:30 | BDSM/Poly Discussion Group | The Citadel San Francisco | Discussion meeting for non-monogamy topics. RSVP appreciated but not required to jaywiseman@yahoo.com |
| 3rd Mon | 7:30 | The San Jose Munch | Denny's 2077 N. First St San Jose | Email Munches@smOdyssey.com |
| 3rd Mon | 7:00 | San Pablo/ El Cerrito Munch | Carrows El Cerrito | RSVPs not required but appreciated. Email Cooliewiggles@aol.com. |
| 3rd Mon | 7:00 | SFDSDG Discussion | SF Citadel San Francisco | San Francisco Dominance & Submission Discussion Group. Interested in dominance and submission? Like to talk? Then join us for a wide-ranging discussion of topics related to power and control. For more information, Join the email list and ask |
| 3rd Mon | 7:00 | Sacramento Dommes | Sacramento | The munch host will be there early to be available to newcomers for questions and information sharing. [Email List] |
| 4th Mon | SD Rope Practice | SF Citadel San Francisco | Rope Bondage workshop / practice. [Email List] | |
| Last Mon | 7:00 | Pleasure Bound Munch | Hof Brau 2500 Watt Ave Sacramento | Meeting in the back area - ask for the "PB group". Email from website |
| Every Mon | 7:30 | Santa Cruz Munch | Denny's Ocean St Santa Cruz | Anyone (age 18+), who cares to come 'Hang out' with us is welcome. Ask the hostess for the "adult" group... or Look for either a Bat or Godzilla on our table. Email: BatMunch@castlewalker.com or rstats@pacbell.net for info |
| Tuesdays ~~~ | ||||
| 1st Tue | 7:00 | SMACK Social | 16-Mile House 448 Broadway Millbrae | Formerly the SMACK Munch, after 10 years has changed dates and location! RSVP to SMACK.SOCIAL@GMail.com [Email List] |
| 1st Tue | 7:00 | The Dining Around Monterey Munch | Monterey | Roving Munches - The concept is to try out different eateries each month, since we have so many great places to eat in the area. Email msmontaine@aol.com or master_darkness@hotmail.com for information [Email List] or other [a href="http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Montereymunch/" target="top">Email List] |
| 2nd Wed | 8:00 | The X Group Discussion | Denny's 1185 Norman Ave Santa Clara 95054 | The X Group of San Jose's smOdyssey, offers young adults, ages 19 to 35, an opportunity to join an open topic moderated discussion forum, allowing people to explore issues relating to young people, SM/Leather/Fetish, and the community. This group aims to support people with the perils, pitfalls, and rewards of being involved in the SM/Leather/Fetish community. This is a pansexual group, open to everyone, regardless of role, gender or sexual preference. 2nd Wednesday of every month. 1185 Norman Ave, Santa Clara, CA 95054. No RSVP needed, just show up. [Email List] |
| 2nd Tue | 7:00 | D/scovery "Back to Basics" Munch | Coco's Watsonville | Join us for some dinner and/or coffee - maybe some great pie, comfortable prices and easy company, conversation and comaraderie. Email lord_thunder_mbay@yahoo.com |
| 2nd Tues | 7:00 | Vallejo Crossroads Munch | Dennys 250 Fairgrounds Dr Vallejo | Ask For the Munch Group. Because it is a public restaurant I am recommending street legal Dress, Apologies to all the exhibitionists. Email painslave2@aol.com |
| 3rd Tue | 7:00 | MBayKinksters 3rd Tuesday Munch | The Whole Enchilada Moss Landing | Monterey Bay Power Exchange munch. All are invited. Thinking about attending? RSVPs, although not required, are helpful so the friendly staff can set the tables accordingly. Email master_darkness@hotmail.com [Email List] |
| 3rd Tue | 7:00 | SMACK Social | 16-Mile House 448 Broadway Millbrae | Formerly the SMACK Munch, after 10 years has changed dates and location! RSVP to SMACK.SOCIAL@GMail.com [Email List] |
| 3rd Tue | 7:00 | BRiDgE Munch | Luigi's Pizza Campbell | BRiDgE - the Bay aRea Diaper Enthusiasts, Diaper/Age-play munch. This is a public place, so "normal" clothes and a quiet talking voice please. Look for logo on table |
| 3rd Tue | 7:00 | Sindulgences Munch | Kim Son Mongolian BBQ 3021 Sunrise Blvd Rancho Cordova | This is a chance to keep in contact with some of the people you've met at our parties and other events. Newbies are also welcome -- newbies are the life's blood of any group. We'll be passing a hat for discussion topics/questions. Newbies, if you're shy about bringing up a topic, write it down and drop it in the hat -- we'll read it out loud and discuss it. Old-timers, you're also welcome to drop discussion topics into the hat. It's always interesting to hear new opinions and insights. Please RSVP to Cat@sindulgences.com so I'll have an idea of how many are coming. |
| 4th Tue | 7:00 | SMACK Munch | Peter's Cafe Millbrae | SMACK_Dinner@Hotmail.com or GARi7@ix.netcom.com [Email List] |
| 4th Tue | 6:30 | The Fourth Tuesday Munch Group | Sam's For Play Santa Rosa | Meeting in the banquet room. Email 4thtuesdaymunch@comcast.net |
| Last Tue | 7:00 | Concord Munch | Fuddruckers Willows Shopping Ctr Concord | Formerly the Walnut Creek Munch. RSVP to WCMunch@yahoo.com |
| Last Tue | 7:00 | AWOL - All Women Of Leather Meeting | Rainbow Community Center Concord | Email XANTASIA@aol.com |
| Every Tue | 6:00 | Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/ Fairfield Munch | Green Bean Coffee House 401 E Monte Vista Ave Vacaville | You're welcome to stop by and join us. Munches are a great way to meet other people involved in alternative BDSM lifestyles, ask questions, and share experiences. We offer a friendly, non-threatening social environment. Email Dungeon_Dreams@msn.com |
| Wednesdays ~~~ | ||||
| 1st Wed | 7:30 | Leatherman's Discussion Group | EROS San Francisco | (415) 551-0871 or email SFLeathermen@Yahoo.com |
| 1st Wed | 7:00 | "T" (Transitions) | Denny's 925 Third St Sacramento | Focusing on local area newcomers to the D/s & BDSM Lifestyle but open to all flavors. No RSVP is required to attend the munch. Meeting in the Conference room. Email dragun_hart@yahoo.com [Email List] *New Location |
| 2nd Wed | 12:00 | Lunch Munch | Morgan's Coffee and tea 498 Washington St Monterey | Lunch Munch in Monterey. Email msmontaine@aol.com [Email List] |
| 2nd Wed | 7:00 | South Bay Girl Talk | Santa Clara | A safe, confidential, place to talk about scene and relationship related topics that we really have no place else to talk about such things with people who understand and can offer different perspectives. bradaigh.holt@earthlink.net |
| 3rd Wed | 7:30 | Leatherman's Discussion Group | EROS San Francisco | (415) 551-0871 or email SFLeathermen@Yahoo.com |
| 3rd Wed | 7:00 | "T" (Transitions) | Denny's 925 Third St Sacramento | Focusing on local area newcomers to the D/s & BDSM Lifestyle but open to all flavors. No RSVP is required to attend the munch. Meeting in the Conference room. Email dragun_hart@yahoo.com [Email List] *New Location |
| 3rd Wed | 7:30 | Ponyplay Munch | Sparky's Diner 242 Church St San Francisco | San Francisco BDSM Animal roleplay munch. As you walk into the restaurant there is a room to the left, that's where we will be. Remember although we are meeting in San Francisco, full tack might draw too much attention. Be comfortable. No RSVP necessary. Email info@the-stampede.com |
| Last Wed | 8:00 | SF TNG Munch | Brickhouse Cafe San Francisco | A place for the younger generation of BDSM kinksters to get-together and meet over dinner and drinks. Hosted by The TNG Tribe and SF Gen-X. Email Jason squee@sfgoth.com |
| Every Wed | 8:00 | Wednesday Munch | Dennys 311 S. Mathilda Sunnyvale | Formerly Mountain View Munch - email vicki@rjhg.com * New Location |
| Every Wed | 9:00 | Bondage-A-Go-Go | Bondage-A-Go-Go San Francisco | The party features go go dancers, industrial-goth dance music, contests, fetish fashion-art exhibitions and a fully interactive Bondage play area. |
| Thursdays ~~~ | ||||
| 1st Thrs | 7:00 | SCCLA Leather Schmooze | Billy De Frank community center San Jose | Email info@sccleather.org?subject=Leather Schmooze |
| 1st Thrs | 7:30 | SVL Leather Ed Class | Geery Theater Sacramento | Check Sacramento Valley Leathercorps' site for more info |
| 1st Thrs | 7:00 | FemDoms of Sacramento Munch | COCO's 1830 Arden Way Sacramento | For those that are considered to be FemDoms of the Sacramento area, no matter what gender and those who adore and love to serve them. Email up4airagain2006@yahoo.com |
| 2nd Thrs | 6:30 | CVBDSM Modesto Munch | Hero's Sports Bar Modesto | Email slavepandora@aol.com *Jan 07: Discontinued |
| 2nd Thrs | 7:00 | Monterey Munch | Crazy Horse Bay Park Hotel Monterey | 18+ Munch in Monterey. Ask for Jack or susan, or look for Beastie Dragon (a teal, orange/red critter). This in an informal munch, no RSVP needed. Please dress in a manner appropriate for a family restaurant. Email msmontaine@aol.com [Email List] * New Location |
| 2nd Thrs | 7:00 | NCBDSM Munch | Roundtable Pizza Folsom | Formerly Chains of Passion munch. Email ncbdsm@hotmail.com or amberpagan@hotmail.com [Email List] |
| 2nd Thrs | 7:00 | Sacramento Alt Group Munch | Referees Sports Bar Citrus Heights | a Meet and Greet for folks from the Alt NorCal room, but it's open to anyone who wishes to come. This meeting is being held at a Bar, which means that the age restriction is 21 AND OVER. Email chained_caress1@yahoo.com |
| 2nd Thrs | 7:30 | Southbay BDSM Men's Discussion Group | San Jose | Email king_wyatt@hotmail.com |
| 3rd Thrs | Eat-n-Beat | Power Exchange San Francisco | We first meet for dinner at Shanghai China restaurant (1559 Mission St at South Van Ness, SF) at 7:30 pm, and then we walk on down at 9 pm for an Evening of Free Play at the Power Exchange. We take advantage of the Power Exchanges generous policy of allowing couples in for free on Thursdays and we've made arrangements for even the single males to get in with our group. For information, Email SMACK_Dinner@Hotmail.com or GARi7@ix.netcom.com. RSVP to edukink@yahoo.com with RSVP in the subject line | |
| 4th Thrs | 7:30 | NCBDSM Coffee Social | Starbucks Folsom | Formerly Chains of Passion. Email ncbdsm@hotmail.com [Email List] |
| Last Thrs | 7:00 | TGIF - Fresno Munch | Fresno | Email Mistress_Tawnie@tgifresno.org for more information. [Email List] |
| Last Thrs | 7:00 | Redding Area Munch group | Redding | Our munches are held in a private home. Email MDW@charter.net [Email List] |
| Fridays ~~~ | ||||
| 1st Fri | 7:00 | DeltaBDSM Munch | Restaurant in Stockton | Email stocktonmunch@yahoo.com for info and directions. (formerly SanJoaKinKsters) |
| 1st Fri | 7:00 | Sacramento Women in Leather Munch | Hamburger Mary's Sacramento | A woman-to-woman S/M support group. get together dinner. Email WILS@wil-s.org for more information |
| 2nd Fri | Leather Shabbat | various SF Bay Area locations | This is a group of kinky Jews who host dinners" on usually the second Friday of each month. Any kinky Jewish folks who would like to get on the mailing list, or find out more- or RSVP- Email info@LeatherShabbat.com [Email List] | |
| 3rd Fri | 8:00 | The Exiles | Women's Building San Francisco | a woman-to-woman S/M group. Call (415) 487-5170 for recorded info. |
| 3rd Fri | 7:00 | Women's Leather/BDSM Forum | Hero's Sports Bar Modesto | Join us for an evening of provocative discussion with other like-minded kinky women! Socialize, hang out and have fun! This group is open to all self-identified women, 18 years of age and older! Please RSVP to sarges_shy@yahoo.com |
| 3rd Fri | 7:00 | HBDSMC Fortuna Munch | Pepper's Restaurant Fortuna | Email humboldtbdsm@hotmail.com [Email List] ** Jan/06: Munches on hold |
| Every Fri | 6:00 | Southern Cross Munch | COCO's Restaurant 1206 Oakmead Pkwy Sunnyvale | "Usual Suspects" - Gear down after a long week, meet up with friends for Friday night entertainment. [Email List] *New Location |
| Saturdays ~~~ | ||||
| 2nd Sat | noon | San Francisco munch/brunch | Thirsty Bear 661 Howard st SF | E-Mail ladysunnyb@yahoo.com |
| 2nd Sat | 5:00 | ChicoBD_SMunch | Chico | E-Mail andei_ca@yahoo.com |
| 2nd Sat | 3:00 pm | SFboL Monthly Meeting | Marlena's Bar 488 Hayes St San Francisco | The San Francisco boys of Leather provides a safe arena to empower self-identified boys of leather in serving the greater leather community, increasing the visibility of leather boys, and educating others in what it means to be a boy of leather. Through service and fun, we will support each other and our community. we define the term leather boy as broadly as possible, without regard to gender, appearance or sexual orientation. we come together in our common devotion to service and dedication to the leather community. [Email List] |
| 4th Sat | 5:00 | Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness Munch | La Estrellita Oakland | For *people of color* in Northern California. Email mrworf_ncalif@yahoo.com or HelloMahogany@gmail.com. [ Email list] (4th Sat except December) |
| 4th Sat | 11:00 am | MY Munch | Marysville | Marysville Yuba City's Munch! NO obvious fetish wear please, and NO toys. sierraflowr@gmail.com |
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Academy of SM Arts (Calendar) SF Bay Area classes
Good Vibrations San Francisco & Berkeley Classes and Workshops
Fakir - Offering classes in Body Piercing, Branding, and Ecstatic Shamanism
Knotty Boys San Francisco-based, hands-on bondage workshops by Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) (Calendar)
A Little Class by the Bay - Offering a wide variety of classes samantha@alittleclassbythebay.com * Closed June 2004
Stormy Leather San Francisco classes and events
Teramis - San Francisco workshops focussing mostly on power exchange and relationship dynamics in its many forms. [Email List]
Frugal Domme's Events Page North & Central Calif. events
Leather Events Calendar - San Francisco Leather events
NCBDSM-Events Events announcment email list brought to you by the folks at Chains of Passion - Now also found on tribe.net
SM Odyssey Northern and central Calif munches, parties and workshops
Society of Janus - San Francisco
Probably the best in email events mailing lists for Northern and Central California can be received by sending a note to listserv@rjhg.com with NO subject and in the body of the message say:
subscribe munch yourname@yourmailbox The San Francisco Leather Calendar
San Francisco Leather Forum Calendar
Spectator.net a sex-positive calendar
Twisted Image Community Calendar - community events in and around San Jose and the southern SF Bay Area
Castro Street Fair - San Francisco - annually in October
Dark Knights Parties Hosted by Laurie O at the SF Citadel in San Francisco. RSVP (required) to DarkKnight@ChaosMedia.com * on hiatus
The Dore Alley Fair - Dore Alley in San Francisco - annually in July
Exotic Erotic Ball San Francisco - annually in October
Fandango Parties - April, August & December following Lady Thorn's Kinky Flea in San Francisco
Folsom Street Fair - San Francisco - Last Sunday in September - artisans, vendors, entertainment ..and more! The same weekend, take advantage of SM Odyssey's Folsom Fringe weekend in San Jose
Pacific West Mr. Bootblack - Guerneville - The only weekend dedicated solely to Bootblacks S&M educational Tracks and "The Pacific West Mr. Bootblack" contest, itself. Each year in March
