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Bakersfield:
Alternative Lifestyle Outreach Group - Second Saturday coffee meets for those curious about BDSM. So please come out come out from where ever you are and have some coffee and socialize with us. aloutreacher@yahoo.com [checked 8/27/08]Bakersfield BDSM Group - Group with monthly munches. For More information, Email suzie1@bak.rr.com [Email List] [checked 5/27/07]Bakersfield BDSM - On Tribe.net [checked 5/27/07]Kern County:
Ridgecrest Munch - Kinksters Of Ridgecrest CA - Group with monthly munches on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Email address is on website. [checked 4/14/08]L.A. County:
AVALifestyles is an adult-only Pansexual BDSM group for those in Lancaster, Palmdale and surrounding areas of the Antelope Valley, California. Email wildnwicked@hotmail.com [Email List] [Tribe] [checked 9/30/07]Avatar Club Los Angeles a private gay male social club established in 1983 for people with an interest in SM. avatar_club@hotmail.com [Email List]BDSM Mentors - Our mission is to provide high quality BDSM education with "hands on" training. Workshop Intensives held including Dom Boot Camp. Email BDSMmentors@aol.com [checked 2/6/08]Black BEAT LA Munch Group - We are an affiliate group to the Black BEAT Inc. organization. It is our goal to support local persons and organizations for people of color. We are an inclusive group, not exclusive, those of all ethnicities are welcome and encouraged to participate. Email munches@black-beat.orgLA Butch / Femme Socials - This is an event list for Butches and Femmes who want to meet in local cafes, bars/clubs, member's homes and natural spaces within the Los Angeles area, at least once a month. Singles and couples are welcome. [checked 2/7/05]L.A. Social - Van Nuys - Socials on the 1st Tuesday of every month. Email BekahLyne@aol.com [On Myspace] [checked 10/7/07]COPAD · The Church of Perversion and Debauchery - Studio City - an alternative non-traditional spiritual group that embraces all sexual orientations and sexual practices. We welcome all lifestyles and anyone who wish to explore their spiritual side of life. [checked 1/19/05]esp - endangered species productions Purveyors of Fetish Culture, hosts of the Fetish BallHollywood Social - Roving BDSM Leather Social at different Hollywood locations on the last Friday of each month. For information, Email no_excuses@sbcglobal.netHollywood Spanking Parties - For information, Email spnkgrl2@yahoo.comThe Los Angeles Bondage Club - Group for Men into B&D and S&M - (For MEN only) [checked 2/29/04]L.A. Boys of Leather - The LA Boys of Leather exists as a forum through which self-identified leatherboys may educate and learn, (about the brotherhood of boys and the leather community at large), provide fellowship and encouragement, socialize, have fun, and support each other and their community. We define the term 'leatherboy' as broadly as possible with the intent of being inclusive. The term 'leatherboy' is not limited to a particular sex, gender, appearance or sexual orientation, rather it represents a common dedication to service and devotion to the leather community. monthly meetings the last Tuesday of each month and monthly classes. For more information, Email SoCADrmrBoy2001@aol.com [Email List]L.A. Brothers in Dominance - This is a male-oriented support group catering to issues of concern and interest to Dominants in the greater Los Angeles area. The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein Dominants can discuss any range of topics. [checked 1/19/05]Los Angeles Females United in Kink (L.A. FUK) fosters friendship, sisterhood and communication by providing a place for women in the L.A. Area BDSM and Leather Communities to connect. All orientations are welcome. They have girl's night out and other social get-togethers. on myspace.com[checked 2/7/05]LA Leather Coalition - LALC - a pansexual ad hoc coalition of leather, motorcycle, fetish, sm educational and uniform clubs. [Email List] [checked 1/28/06]Los Angeles Leather Events - A yahoo group that lists events of interest to the Leather Community in Southern California. Includes bar events, fundraisers, contests, runs, conferences, weekend events, etc.LARaww - Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women - A pansexual women's group with monthly workshops, demonstrations and parties. email la_raww@hotmail.com [Announcement List] [Chat List] [On Myspace] for additional information. [checked 10/7/07]L.A. Sisters in Submission - Female submissives group - This is a female oriented support group catering to submissive/slaves and their concerns in the greater Los Angeles area. The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein sub/slaves can discuss any range of topics. [checked 1/19/05]Lifestyle_FrienD/s - Palmdale - We are a real-time group of like-minded individuals, 21 years of age and older, living in and around Southern California. Specifically in the Antelope Valley area. We meet on a regular basis, for the purpose of socializing, sharing information and having fun with others interested in and living the D/s lifestyle. Lifestyle_FrienDs@yahoo.comLos Angeles Dommes and Subs - This club was formed for lifestyle Dommes and subs to gather, network and plan munches, Tea Parties, etc, in Los Angeles, California [Email List] and [on myspace] [checked 6/20/08]L.A. Leather-BDSM-Fetish Links - A resource website that contains links to nearly every Leather, BDSM and
Fetish group, club, event, business and organization in the Greater Los
Angeles area and beyond. [checked 8/27/08]LycraMenLosAngeles - The meeting place for Southern California guys into tight gear huggin' their bods - lycra, spandex, workout gear, dance wear, tights, bodysuits, UnderArmour, biking and skating gear, speedos, thongs, costumes, super heroes and villains, Renaissance wear and more. Latex, rubber and leather too! BodyHeat_LA@yahoo.com or LycraMenLA@gmail.com [checked 6/4/08]MAsT:Greater Los Angeles Pansexual - MAsT (Masters And slaves Together) is an educational, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. We focus on discussion and presentation on issues in real life M/s, D/s relationships, not on techniques of play. Meeting in private homes but with meetings also at the Lair the same day as the first Insight of the month on odd numbered months. Email MAsT_slave@yahoo.com. [Email List]
MAsT: Los Angeles - a support and discussion group for gay men interested in the Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship. It serves the Los Angeles area of California. Email MasterOfTheHouse@att.net. [checked 8/27/08]
People of Leather Among You - In addition to offering support and opportunities for socializing, P.L.A.Y. serves as an educational forum for the spiritual aspects of bdsm and also provides spiritual outreach to the leather/fetish community and fosters leather/fetish understanding within the larger g/l/b/t spiritual community as well. P.L.A.Y. is open to everyone without regard to gender, age, race, religious/spiritual affiliation or sexual orientation. Meeting the 2nd Thursday of each month in West Hollywood. For information, contact MCCLAPLAY@hotmail.com [Email list] [checked 8/27/08]The Regiment of the Black and Tans - a Los Angeles based social and fraternal organization for men with an interest in uniforms. Founded in 1974, the Southland's most active uniform club sponsors 3-6 uniform events annually. [checked 8/27/08] TRG San Fernando Valley Munch - North Hollywood Munch for the ( BDSM ) Singles and couples of The San Fernando Valley. This munch has now been combined with the Threshold Munch on the 2nd Monday of each month. For more information, EMail sfvm@hotmail.com - [Email list]SCBC Southern CA Bondage Club - Gay Bondage Club in the Los Angeles Southern CA area. Promoting Safe Sane Consensual and fun play sessions by invitation. Both play sessions and bondage education, learning from each other. Email SoCABC@gmail.comSo Cal Rubber Corps - A men's fetish and social club dedicated (obsessed?) to all things rubbery. There are no dues, no officers, no mandate other than the enjoyment of rubber in all its facets and fetishes. We meet up once or twice a month, sometimes at a rubber-friendly bar, or for a dutch-treat geared-up dinner and a movie. We aren't even averse to a play party now and then if the chemistry is right and we can round up some fun toys. What are the odds? info@socalrubbercorps.com [Email List] Southern California Tickling - This group is for all tickle fans in Southern California. Our boundaries are from San Diego County up to and including Ventura County. We welcome tickle fans of all ages (21 or older), races, nationalities, shapes, and sizes. Munches in Sherman Oaks and other gatherings. ticklemesillyinsocal@gmail.com Threshold - North Hollywood - Pansexual BDSM Organization for education and socializing. Many events throughout the month. [Email List] [Tribe] [My Space] [checked 8/27/08]Valley Versatiles - Van Nuys - Valley Versatiles is a fledgeling munch group for Switches or the switch-friendly in the San Fernando Valley to make real time social contact. This group is open to those who are Bisexual, Switches, or are accepting of those of us who are bisexual and/or switch.. For more information, Email peredura@aol.com [checked 8/27/08] Westside Munch Group - Munches off and on. For more information, Email Westside_Munch_Group@yahoo.com [checked 8/27/08] L.A. County Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
East Kern North LA County BDSM * dormantLosAngelesBondage * mostly dormantLosAngelesBound Los Angeles Fetish Clubs - On myspace - for info and event announcementsLosAngelesSpanking LosAngelesSpank_Now - *mostly spamOrange County:
5th Wednesday Social - Buena Park - BDSM Munch Hosted by Lord Daniel the 5th Wednesday of any month at Fuddruckers. For information, E-Mail LordDanSir@aol.com Genesis Munch - Genesis is a gateway TNG (The Next Generation) pansexual group, restricted to those 18-38, that promotes education, information and socialization amongst age-similar peers of all experience levels meeting in Long Beach. RSVP to TNGBDSM@yahoo.com - [Email List] Also holds regular workshops and annual play parties. [checked 4/14/08] LB Gay Dungeon & BDSM - Long Beach - A gathering for Long Beach area Gay, Lesbian & Het BDSM & Dungeon players.... This is going to be MOSTLY gay related - so if you can't hang with us Fags, this aint the group for you. This link is on myspace.com, make sure you're logged on to your account there to accessLong Beach Leather
Orange Coast Leather Assembly - OCLA Garden Grove - pansexual BDSM group that meets the 3rd Tuesday of each month for social and educational presentation/demonstration type meetings
[Email List]Orange County Social This Group has 4th Wednesday munches in Stanton. [Email List] [On Myspace] [on talkingsexradio] Santa Ana OTK Spanking Parties - Santa Ana - Katie & Sue's Fun & Fabulous Spank Parties! Come join us for our monthly spank parties on the 3rd Saturday of each month, held at a private home in Orange County. Good food, great conversation & no cover charge! No pressure to play, but ample opportunity to do so, if you desire. We sometimes change the day of the party, so please email Sue directly for the address and exact date of this month's party: sueotk@aol.com .THOR: Trust, Honor, Order, Respect - Huntington Beach - The purpose of this organization is to focus on men's needs, providing dependable, ethical, moral, and sustainable relationships consistent with integrity and mutual benefit to all members. We work together as a brotherhood in cooperation and collaboration with each other to promote understanding, friendship and integrity. Meetings on the 2nd and 4th Monday of each month. For more information, Email thorleathermen@sbcglobal.net PO Box 511, Buena Park, CA 90621 *8/08: Website gone. group defunct? Orange County Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
OC Ds Mailing list for Male Dominants and Female Submissives in the Orange County area/ * dormantOC Subs - A group for the younger bi/gay/lesbian/str8/tv/cd/tg subs and Dom/Dommes between the ages of 21 and 30 in Orange County California
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Alternative Lifestyle Coven - Riverside - a circle group for pagans/wiccan who practise bdsm, and other fetish lifestyles. It's open to all folks 18 years and over.PSC munch group - Riverside - Munches on the 2nd Saturday of each month. [Yahoo email list] - [Topica email list]Palm Springs boys of Leather - Providing leatherboys of any gender or orientation a forum to have fun, learn, educate, socialize, contribute, and support each other and their community. Email info@psbol.comPS/LOD - Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert - a gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender leather organization for communication, education and support - 4741C East Palm Canyon Drive, #133, Palm Springs, CA 92264 Southern California Munch - Indio - The SoCalMunch is open to anyone active or interested in alternative lifestyles who would like to attend. This group has been created especially for those living in (or near)Cabazon, Banning, Cherry Valley, Palm Springs, Bermuda Dunes, Indian Wells, Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal,Desert Shores, Salton City, Borrego Springs, Westmoreland, Imperial, & El Centro. [checked 10/7/07] *8/08 no recent munches: defunct? Riverside County Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
Coachella_Valley_CA_Fetish - those in the Coachella Valley, California area (the area around Palm Springs, which is 113 miles east of Los Angeles) who are interested in Dominance/submission, and or various fetishes connected with D/s.InlandEmpireSpankers - Email listRiverside_CA_Fetish - Email listSan Bernardino County:
Bedandbondage - the Lake Gregory area, just a 30 minute drive from San Bernardino. For more info & to RSVP, send an email to: Bedandbondage@msn.com HighDesertBDSM - Monthly Socials and other get togethers in Apple Valley High Desert FemDomme - email listPAC - Phoenix Alternative Community - San Bernardino - Quarterly Socials, workshops and parties. email Sahara5150@hotmail.com for more information. [Email List]SoCal BBw submission - San Bernardino - A place for BBW submissives and to learn, enjoy. No Meetings currently. * mostly spamSoCal_Formal_Ds_Society - Apple Valley - A group of lifestylers who hold a strong belief in the power of Dominance and submission. We believe that protocols, etiquette, and rituals are an important part of everyday D/s life. We have R/T activities that include, but are not limited to, socials (open to interested lifestylers) and parties(by invitation only). Also online meetings at: #SoCal_Discussion on irc.bondage.com San Diego County:
A SD FemDom Club - Dominant Females and submissive males in San DiegoAFC Bears - San Diego's newest Bear-related social group.Bears SD - A gay men's social club and charitable organization for hirsute men and their admirers. [Email List]Club X - San Diego - a pansexual (all inclusive: male, female, straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transexual, etc) fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community - Lots of local events - Hotline 619-685-5149 Email info@clubxsd.org Cover 2 Cover - San Diego - San Diego’s book club for the alternative lifestyler for All adults (18 yrs or older) interested in a closer look at themselves with the support of lifestyle books and literature. Meeting the 2nd & 4th Tuesday of each month in El Cajon. Hosted by julia and crystalbleu admin@c2cbookclub.com. [checked 9/1/08] Deaf Leather San Diego - San Diego - Promoting awareness of leather and SM lifestyle among the deaf community. For more information, Email Juan IMDL2003@aol.com or Jeff ITALGERSTUD@AOL.COMD/s Formalized Dinner Group - San Diego - We are a group of people living in the San Diego area wanting to learn more about formal BDSM dinners and the techniques appreciated within. For more information email gaidif@yahoo.com or crystalbleu2u@yahoo.com Mr San Diego LeatherNext Generation Meeting - TNGSD · Next Generation-San Diego - A group for those who are into the lifestyle or wish to know more and are between 18-35. Email ellie@mib.org RHSD - Red Hankies of San Diego an international club to locate others into fisting and get them in touch with each other on a social basis - for information email rhsd@cox.net , write RHSD - P.O. BOX 3988, SAN DIEGO, CA 92163 or leave message at (619) 688-8668 Rubber Knights San Diego - a local group of men who enjoy the second skin and sensuality of latex and rubber-wear. San Diego Consentual Adult Activities Lending Library - CAALL - This mobile library serves the San Diego Leather, SM/BD and other Fetish communities. This list gives information about library activities and user book reviews and discussions. For more information on the Library, Email Drew at Master_of_the_Deep@yahoo.com [Email List]San Diego SM Socials 3rd Wednesday pansexual meet & mingle socials - 94th Aero Squadron. [Email list] - (Mirror Site)SDLOG - San Diego League of Gentlemen - Leathermen's Club. All leathermen in the San Diego County area are encouraged to join. We have already attracted a wide variety of new members, and we invite more men of all age-groups, races, body-types and experience levels to check us out. [Email List] San Diego Leather Boys - San Diego - a club of self-identified leather boys. "Leatherboys" being defined as anyone regardless of gender or appearance. Membership is open to all leatherboys over the age of 21. Our purpose is to provide a fellowship of boys to have fun, learn, educate , socialize and contribute support to our members and to our community at large. [Email List] and on [myspace]SD Calendar - While this calendar is on yahoo groups, it's NOT an email list. This is a calendar for San Diego county events hosted by Leather, BDSM, Bears, Sisters, Imperial Court, Fetish and other groups and individuals of interest. Calendar and event list are printableSan Diego Spanking - San Diego - Spanking group for singles [Email List] San Diego Adult Girls and Daddies - San Diego - Discussion group on the 3rd Tuesday of each month for those wanting to discuss Daddy/girl relationships. Also related Sisters of the pink rose Little Girl Group meeting the 4th Tuesday of each month in a private home. For more information, Email Nursekat27@aol.com Sober Minded Leatherfolk
- San Diego - a local Leather AA chapter holding open meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous on
Fridays, 8:00-9:15pm at The Live and Let Live Alano Club, 1730 Monroe Ave. For information, Email markbokeefe@hotmail.comSoCal Shibari - San Diego - Group dedicated to Shibari Rope Bondage. [checked 1/26/06]The Submissive Voice - San Diego - group where submissives can come and be heard. Local monthly meetings in San Diego - open to any gender. [Email List] [checked 9/29/07]The Asylum of the Tortured Heart - San Diego - an Official Mission of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. It is a 21st Century Order of queer nuns. Since the San Francisco Order's first appearance on Easter Sunday, 1979 in San Francisco, Sisters worldwide have been accused of "Ruining It For Everyone" with their habitual injection of gaiety into serious affairs including human rights, political activism and religious intolerance. The Sisters consider it their mission to "ruin" all detrimental conditions including complacency, guilt and the inability to laugh at one's self. [checked 11/29/06]Whispering Sands Desert Spa Resort - Borrego Springs - We are open to people in the lifestyle and have a beautiful desert setting. We have a Clothing optional pool and are planning some weekend pool parties this summer, or come out on your own with your friends. This perfect little hide-away spot is a one and a half hour drive from San Diego in the middle of the biggest state park in the country. Eight comfortable rooms with king beds. Call me (Sheri 760 767-3322) or e-mail srhvf@borrego.org for more infoYHSD - Yellow Hankies San Diego - San Diego - New group for Water Sports enthusiasts. Holding a Beverage bust the first Thursday of every month at the San Diego Eagle. SDn2.WS - San Diego in 2 Water Sports. For more info, email SDn2WS@ohpapi.comSan Diego Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
Get a Rope San Diego - forum for gay men in San Diego who love to be tied up, and the men with the rope (or handcuffs, restraints, etc.).LAMBDA GROUP-San Diego GLBT Email list for news and eventsLeather-Chat unmoderated "chit-chat" mailing list - primarily San DiegoSan Diego Alternative Lifestyles "SanDAL" has been created to be a means by which news and information may be distributed throughout the San Diego area for all alternative lifestyle groups. This is a pansexual Yahoo Group San_Diego_BDSM - list started to allow the exchange of personals and personal thoughts for people in or interested in the BDSM lifestyle in San DiegoSan Diego BDSM - MSN Community For people living in and around San Diego who are interested in meeting and talking with others who are interested in bdsm, D/s, bondage and similiar activities * mostly dormantSan Diego Fetish and BDSM Community Community on LiveJournalSan Diego Gorean Philosophy Meetup Group - Meet other local people who follow the Gorean Philosophy. Discuss the Gorean lifestyle based on the fundamental tenet of self-honesty. [checked 1/19/05]SDBound - Pan sexual, pan gender discussion list
SD-Sizzle announcement mailing list for the San Diego area. To subscribe, email majordomo@gorean.org with subscribe sandiego in the BODY or subscribe from the website. YoungLeather - San Diego California based group for those between the ages of 21 and 35 who are interested in leather, BD/SM and fetish. Chat is currently Monday nights at 9pm. Gay, Straight, bi, Trans, Dom, Sub, Switch,novice and the just curious. All are welcome #BDSM-SanDiego on irc.bondage.com
General So. Cal:
Maximus Cigar Men - Organizes quarterly socials and periodic smokers for Real Men and butch boys — not the nelly or faint of heart — who know, crave and indulge in the macho appeal and libido-stoking lure of cigar-smoking, pipe-smoking, and the he-man camaraderie and male bonding they stir up. ROPE-LA - This group is dedicated to the love of rope for consensual "fun." It is open to those who love to be tied, to those who love to do the tieing, and anybody else who love both. It is intended to be a safe place to discuss local issues and to coordinate get-togethers (such as a monthly Rope Social/munch) in the greater Los Angeles area. (L.A/O.C.) Southern California (General) Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
ACGX, Alternative Community of Generation X A group for the younger ones of the lifestyle. We are a group for the ages of 18 to 30. We are into the education of the safe, sane, and consenual lifestyles. ACGX is also a place just for us young ones to get together and share our ideas, feelings and thoughts with on another. If anyone is interested in joining or wants more info on us you can email me at irishdrgn@yahoo.com BDSM_DomainSoCal_ALT * mostly spamRPpetsSoCal
list is for people who want to engage in the the roleplay of being a pet that is owned by a Master or Mistress there is no beastilty involved * dormantSoCalPolyPE - Come and join us in discussions about Polyamorous Power Exchange (D/s) relationships. You must be 21 years of age in order to join the list SoCalSMEvents The Events resource for Southern California. Join it's Email List to get the local events announcements in your email Southern California Spanking Parties - OC and San Diego Counties - specifically to promote non-commercial spank parties in people's homes in SoCal. We will have monthly spank parties in Orange County and will post the monthly spank parties which are already happening in connection with the San
Diego Spanking ListSoCa-Commons
for people interested in the BDSM scene in Southern California * events announcements onlySoCal_BDSM_Lifestyle
Mailing list for SoCal.BDSM_West
This list has emphasis on sharing the mindset and feelings of the BDSM/DS relationships in a environment of honor and integrity. *very high traffic SoCalif Underground BDSM - MSN community - * 12/03 spam only#BDSM-SoCal on irc.bondage.com #d/s-california on irc.bondage.com California Events Calendar
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