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ALOG - Alternative Lifestyle Outreach Group - Second Saturday coffee meets for those curious about BDSM. So please come out come out from where ever you are and have some coffee and socialize with us. aloutreacher@yahoo.com [Myspace] [Fetlife] [checked 7/09]Bakersfield BDSM Group - Group with monthly munches. For More information, Email suzie1@bak.rr.com or find them [on Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]Bakersfield BDSM - On Tribe.net [checked 5/27/07]Kern County:
Ridgecrest Munch - Kinksters Of Ridgecrest CA - Group with monthly munches on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Email address is on website. [checked 4/14/08]L.A. County:
AVALifestyles is an adult-only Pansexual BDSM group for those in Lancaster, Palmdale and surrounding areas of the Antelope Valley, California. No events currently. Email wildnwicked@hotmail.com [checked 11/11/10]Avatar Club Los Angeles a private gay male social club established in 1983 for people with an interest in SM. avatar_club@hotmail.com [Email List]BDSM Mentors - Our mission is to provide high quality BDSM education with "hands on" training. Workshop Intensives held including Dom Boot Camp. Email BDSMmentors@aol.com [checked 2/6/08]Beach Cities Social - Venice - a pansexual gathering for those interested in B&D, S&M, Leather, D/s, and M/s. We invite anyone who wishes to meet other kinky people to join us on the 3rd Wednesday of each month. [Fetlife] [checked 2/6/08]Black BEAT LA Munch Group - We are an affiliate group to the Black BEAT Inc. organization. It is our goal to support local persons and organizations for people of color. We are an inclusive group, not exclusive, those of all ethnicities are welcome and encouraged to participate. Email munches@black-beat.orgL.A. Social - Van Nuys - Socials on the 1st Tuesday of every month. Email BekahLyne@aol.com [On Myspace] [checked 10/7/07]COPAD · The Church of Perversion and Debauchery - Studio City - an alternative non-traditional spiritual group that embraces all sexual orientations and sexual practices. We welcome all lifestyles and anyone who wish to explore their spiritual side of life. [checked 1/19/05]esp - endangered species productions Purveyors of Fetish Culture, hosts of the Fetish BallHollywood Social - Roving BDSM Leather Social at different Hollywood locations on the last Friday of each month. For information, Email no_excuses@sbcglobal.netHollywood Spanking Parties - For information, Email spnkgrl2@yahoo.comThe Los Angeles Bondage Club - Group for Men into B&D and S&M - (For MEN only) [checked 2/29/04]L.A. Boys of Leather - The LA Boys of Leather exists as a forum through which self-identified leatherboys may educate and learn, (about the brotherhood of boys and the leather community at large), provide fellowship and encouragement, socialize, have fun, and support each other and their community. We define the term 'leatherboy' as broadly as possible with the intent of being inclusive. The term 'leatherboy' is not limited to a particular sex, gender, appearance or sexual orientation, rather it represents a common dedication to service and devotion to the leather community. monthly meetings the last Tuesday of each month and monthly classes. For more information, Email SoCADrmrBoy2001@aol.com [Email List]L.A. Brothers in Dominance - This is a male-oriented support group catering to issues of concern and interest to Dominants in the greater Los Angeles area. The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein Dominants can discuss any range of topics. [checked 1/19/05]LA Leather Coalition - LALC - a pansexual ad hoc coalition of leather, motorcycle, fetish, sm educational and uniform clubs. [Email List] [checked 1/28/06]Los Angeles Ponies & Critters - We are a community of pony play and critter play enthusiasts. This Los Angeles based group is for all interested in the human pony scene and critter play. The mission of our group is to promote and maintain pony and critter play in Los Angeles that is recognized positively within like minded communities worldwide. [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]L.A. Sisters in Submission - Female submissives group - This is a female oriented support group catering to submissive/slaves and their concerns in the greater Los Angeles area. The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein sub/slaves can discuss any range of topics. [checked 1/19/05]Lifestyle_FrienD/s - Lancaster - We are a real-time group of like-minded individuals, 21 years of age and older, living in and around Southern California. Specifically in the Antelope Valley area. We meet on a regular basis, for the purpose of socializing, sharing information and having fun with others interested in and living the D/s lifestyle. Lifestyle_FrienDs@yahoo.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]Los Angeles Dommes and Subs - This club was formed for lifestyle Dommes and subs to gather, network and plan munches, Tea Parties, etc, in Los Angeles, California [Email List] and [on myspace] [checked 6/20/08]L.A. Leather-BDSM-Fetish Links - A resource website that contains links to nearly every Leather, BDSM and
Fetish group, club, event, business and organization in the Greater Los
Angeles area and beyond. [checked 8/27/08]Leather Spirit (formerly P.L.A.Y.) is a social and educational group for Southern California leatherfolk interested in the integration of radical sexuality and spirituality meeting the 2nd Thursday of each month in Los Angeles. To join the email list, contact theleatherspirit@yahoo.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]LycraMenLosAngeles - The meeting place for Southern California guys into tight gear huggin' their bods - lycra, spandex, workout gear, dance wear, tights, bodysuits, UnderArmour, biking and skating gear, speedos, thongs, costumes, super heroes and villains, Renaissance wear and more. Latex, rubber and leather too! BodyHeat_LA@yahoo.com or LycraMenLA@gmail.com [checked 6/4/08]MAsT:Greater Los Angeles Pansexual - MAsT (Masters And slaves Together) is an educational, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. We focus on discussion and presentation on issues in real life M/s, D/s relationships, not on techniques of play. Meeting in private homes but with meetings also at the Lair the same day as the first Insight of the month on odd numbered months. Email MAsT_slave@yahoo.com. [Email List]
Raww (formerly LARAWW) - A pansexual women's group with monthly workshops, demonstrations and parties. email KeepingItRAWW@gmail.com [Email List] or [Announcement List] [on myspace] [checked 5/24/09]The Regiment of the Black and Tans - a Los Angeles based social and fraternal organization for men with an interest in uniforms. Founded in 1974, the Southland's most active uniform club sponsors 3-6 uniform events annually. [checked 8/27/08]SoCal Shibari - Los Angeles - Group dedicated to Shibari Rope Bondage. Meetings starting soon. Email: sol4ds@yahoo.com [Fetlife][checked 11/11/10] TRG San Fernando Valley Munch - North Hollywood Munch for the ( BDSM ) Singles and couples of The San Fernando Valley. This munch has now been combined with the Threshold Munch on the 2nd Monday of each month. For more information, EMail sfvm@hotmail.com - [Email list]SCBC Southern CA Bondage Club - Gay Bondage Club in the Los Angeles Southern CA area. Promoting Safe Sane Consensual and fun play sessions by invitation. Both play sessions and bondage education, learning from each other. Email SoCABC@gmail.com [Email list]So Cal Rubber Corps - A men's fetish and social club dedicated (obsessed?) to all things rubbery. There are no dues, no officers, no mandate other than the enjoyment of rubber in all its facets and fetishes. We meet up once or twice a month, sometimes at a rubber-friendly bar, or for a dutch-treat geared-up dinner and a movie. We aren't even averse to a play party now and then if the chemistry is right and we can round up some fun toys. What are the odds? info@socalrubbercorps.com [Email List] Southern California Tickling - This group is for all tickle fans in Southern California. Our boundaries are from San Diego County up to and including Ventura County. We welcome tickle fans of all ages (21 or older), races, nationalities, shapes, and sizes. Munches in Sherman Oaks and other gatherings. ticklemesillyinsocal@gmail.com Threshold - North Hollywood - Pansexual BDSM Organization for education and socializing. Many events throughout the month. [Email List] [Tribe] [My Space] [checked 8/27/08]L.A. County Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
East Kern North LA County BDSM * dormantLosAngelesBondage * mostly dormantLosAngelesBound Los Angeles Fetish Clubs - On myspace - for info and event announcementsLosAngelesSpanking LosAngelesSpank_Now - *mostly spamOrange County:
5th Wednesday Social - Buena Park - BDSM Munch Hosted by dianne, in memory of, and with respect to Lord Dan the 5th Wednesday of any month at Fuddruckers. [Fetlife] [checked 11/16/10] Genesis Munch - Genesis is a gateway TNG (The Next Generation) pansexual group, restricted to those 18-38, that promotes education, information and socialization amongst age-similar peers of all experience levels meeting in Long Beach. RSVP to TNGBDSM@yahoo.com - [Email List] Also holds regular workshops and annual play parties. [checked 4/14/08] LB Gay Dungeon & BDSM - Long Beach - A gathering for Long Beach area Gay, Lesbian & Het BDSM & Dungeon players.... This is going to be MOSTLY gay related - so if you can't hang with us Fags, this aint the group for you. This link is on myspace.com, make sure you're logged on to your account there to accessLong Beach Kinksters Munch - a group for adults in the S. California area interested in the D/s, S&M, and BD lifestyle. We are a social group and have a monthly munch at a restaurant in Long Beach. All types of BDSM discussions are welcomed. Meetings on the 2nd Wednesday of the month. Come join us at Cafe Bixby 3900 Atlantic Ave, Long Beach 7pm
Family Restaurant dress accordingly [On Fetlife] [checked 4/8/10] Long Beach Leather
Orange Coast Leather Assembly - OCLA Garden Grove - pansexual BDSM group that meets the 3rd Tuesday of each month for social and educational presentation/demonstration type meetings
[Email List]Orange County Social - Huntington Beach - This Group has 4th Wednesday munches. Gourmet Desserts, Drawings, Raffles, Prizes, New Faces, Old Faces, good conversation a place where information on most all local Lifestyle events can be attained in the OC,LA Area. This is held at a vanilla venue and casual dress...No fetish wear please. [On Myspace] [on talkingsexradio] [On Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10] Santa Ana OTK Spanking Parties - Santa Ana - Katie & Sue's Fun & Fabulous Spank Parties! Come join us for our monthly spank parties on the 3rd Saturday of each month, held at a private home in Orange County. Good food, great conversation & no cover charge! No pressure to play, but ample opportunity to do so, if you desire. We sometimes change the day of the party, so please email Sue directly for the address and exact date of this month's party: sueotk@aol.com .TripleSGroup Submissive Social Support Munch Group - Long Beach - Group for Female and Male Submissives with monthly munches in Long Beach. Orange County Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
OC Ds Mailing list for Male Dominants and Female Submissives in the Orange County area/ * dormantOC Subs - A group for the younger bi/gay/lesbian/str8/tv/cd/tg subs and Dom/Dommes between the ages of 21 and 30 in Orange County California
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Palm Desert Munch - Palm Desert - Monthly munch group open to anyone who shares an interest in the BDSM/Leather community. A great way for those who are new to ask questions and meet like-minded people. Reminder: Meetings are held in a public vanilla setting so please dress appropriately. For more info Email palmdesertmunch@yahoo.com [checked 11/11/10]PSC/Paddlers of Southern California - Riverside - This discussion social is open to adults interested in the D/s, S&M, and BD lifestyle. All types of BDSM discussions are welcomed but no playing is allowed at this event. [checked 12/6/10]Palm Springs boys of Leather - Providing leatherboys of any gender or orientation a forum to have fun, learn, educate, socialize, contribute, and support each other and their community. Email info@psbol.comPS/LOD - Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert - a gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender leather organization for communication, education and support - 4741C East Palm Canyon Drive, #133, Palm Springs, CA 92264 Southern California Munch - Indio - The SoCalMunch is open to anyone active or interested in alternative lifestyles who would like to attend. This group has been created especially for those living in (or near)Cabazon, Banning, Cherry Valley, Palm Springs, Bermuda Dunes, Indian Wells, Palm Desert, Rancho Mirage, La Quinta, Indio, Coachella, Thermal,Desert Shores, Salton City, Borrego Springs, Westmoreland, Imperial, & El Centro. [checked 11/11/10] Riverside County Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
Coachella_Valley_CA_Fetish - those in the Coachella Valley, California area (the area around Palm Springs, which is 113 miles east of Los Angeles) who are interested in Dominance/submission, and or various fetishes connected with D/s.InlandEmpireSpankers - Email listRiverside_CA_Fetish - Email listRiverside/San ber Spankers and spankees - Email listSan Bernardino County:
Bedandbondage - the Lake Gregory area, just a 30 minute drive from San Bernardino. For more info & to RSVP, send an email to: Bedandbondage@msn.com HighDesertBDSM - Monthly Socials and other get togethers in Apple Valley High Desert FemDomme - email listPAC - Phoenix Alternative Community - San Bernardino - Quarterly Socials, workshops and parties. email Sahara5150@hotmail.com for more information. [Email List]SoCal BBw submission - San Bernardino - A place for BBW submissives and to learn, enjoy. No Meetings currently. * mostly dormantSoCal_Formal_Ds_Society - Apple Valley - A group of lifestylers who hold a strong belief in the power of Dominance and submission. We believe that protocols, etiquette, and rituals are an important part of everyday D/s life. We have R/T activities that include, but are not limited to, socials (open to interested lifestylers) and parties(by invitation only). Also online meetings at: #SoCal_Discussion on irc.bondage.com San Diego County:
Bears SD - A gay men's social club and charitable organization for hirsute men and their admirers. [Email List]Club X - San Diego - a pansexual (all inclusive: male, female, straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transexual, etc) fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community - Lots of local events - Hotline 619-685-5149 Email info@clubxsd.org Deaf Leather San Diego - San Diego - Promoting awareness of leather and SM lifestyle among the deaf community. For more information, Email Juan IMDL2003@aol.com or Jeff ITALGERSTUD@AOL.COMD/s Formalized Dinner Group - San Diego - We are a group of people living in the San Diego area wanting to learn more about formal BDSM dinners and the techniques appreciated within. FetishMenSanDiego (FMSD) - A non-commercial, new-style affinity-group with no dues, by-laws, elections or planning committees. The PURPOSE of the group is to promote brotherhood, friendship and Tribe, rather than isolation and social deprivation caused by being stuck in front of our computers every day. It's a way to bring back what our community used to have, before so much fell apart when so many of us died. TNGSD-owner@yahoogroups.com [Email List] [Recon] [Facebook] [Blogspot] [checked 11/11/10]Ice Cream, Coffee&Kink: North East San Diego Monthly Social - Poway - the North East San Diego (inland) monthly Ice Cream, Coffee & Kink social is held less than a mile from the Scripps Poway Parkway exit off the 15 and is held usually the 4th Thursday of each month, but 3rd Thursday in November and December. Email libertywire2004@yahoo.com [checked 11/16/10]Leather/BDSM Motorcycle Run - Leather/BDSM/Kink/Fetish men and women who like to ride, we will meet the 2nd Sunday of each month, with Runs which will vary in time and location, focusing on the San Diego/Orange/Riverside/Los Angeles/Imperial County areas. Most will be short runs around San Diego County, with occasional runs to meet with other groups in the Southern California region or to attend special events that coincide with our scheduled rides. All bike styles and sizes are welcome, as long as they are highway legal and capable of going the posted maximum speed limit. Email tigerboisd@yahoo.com [checked 11/11/10]Mr San Diego Leather contest and Leather PrideThe Next Generation - TNGSD · Meetings are held throughout the month at various locations. This group is devoted to young and youngminded kinksters. Email TNGSD-owner@yahoogroups.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]RHSD - Red Hankies of San Diego an international club to locate others into fisting and get them in touch with each other on a social basis - for information email rhsd@cox.net , write RHSD - P.O. BOX 3988, SAN DIEGO, CA 92163 or leave message at (619) 688-8668 San Diego Consentual Adult Activities Lending Library - CAALL - This mobile library serves the San Diego Leather, SM/BD and other Fetish communities. This list gives information about library activities and user book reviews and discussions. For more information on the Library, Email Drew at Master_of_the_Deep@yahoo.com [Email List]San Diego North Lifestyle Workshop - Vista - 1st Thursday Workshops take place upstairs on the Balcony at The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista. The Stairs open at 6:30. There will be a small $3.00 donation. Snacks, soda and water available. 18+. For more information, Email MasterofOMGs@aol.com [checked 11/11/10]San Diego Puppy Patrol - Monthly (human) puppy nights at the Eagle San Diego SM Socials 3rd Wednesday pansexual meet & mingle socials - 94th Aero Squadron. masterofomgx@yahoo.com SDLOG - San Diego League of Gentlemen - Leathermen's Club. All leathermen in the San Diego County area are encouraged to join. We have already attracted a wide variety of new members, and we invite more men of all age-groups, races, body-types and experience levels to check us out. SD Calendar - While this calendar is on yahoo groups, it's NOT an email list. This is a calendar for San Diego county events hosted by Leather, BDSM, Bears, Sisters, Imperial Court, Fetish and other groups and individuals of interest. Calendar and event list are printableSan Diego Spanking - San Diego - Spanking group. [Email List] San Diego Adult Girls and Daddies - San Diego - Discussion group with occasional meetings for those wanting to discuss Daddy/girl relationships. Also related Sisters of the pink rose Little Girl Group meeting occasionally in a private home. For more information, Email Nursekat27@aol.com San Diego Whip Practice - San Diego - Usually on the 1st Saturday of the month, Some of us here in San Diego have a whip practice from 12 noon to 2pm at a small public park and open to anyone. Learn whip control, tricks, card cutting... I strongly advise wearing eye protection at all times when using a whip, but my responsibility ends here with the announcement of the event. Everyone is hereby put on notice to take responsibilities for their own safety at this event. . Email: Master_of_the_Deep@yahoo.com [checked 11/11/10]Sober Minded Leatherfolk - San Diego - a local Leather AA chapter holding open meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous on Fridays, 8:00-9:15pm at The Live and Let Live Alano Club, 1730 Monroe Ave. [checked 12/20/09]SoCalPEX (Southern California Power Exchange) - San Diego - Group to support people of all genders and orientations interested in engaging in power exchange relationships by supplying them with tools and resources that will assist them in developing relationships which are healthy, functional, and real. This group is dedicated to providing speakers who will increase the knowledge of power exchange
relationships in this area, and bring about increased discussion as well. Email: bellabrat4u@gmail.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]SoCal Shibari - Vista - Group dedicated to Shibari Rope Bondage. Meeting the 2nd Tuesday of each month. Both beginning and intermediate to advanced ties are shown at every meeting. We also focus on Peer rope practice and mentoring. Email: sol4ds@yahoo.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]The Submissive Voice - San Diego - group where submissives can come and be heard. Local monthly meetings in San Diego - open to any gender. [Email List] [Fetlife] [checked 12/6/10]The Asylum of the Tortured Heart - San Diego - an Official Mission of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. It is a 21st Century Order of queer nuns. Since the San Francisco Order's first appearance on Easter Sunday, 1979 in San Francisco, Sisters worldwide have been accused of "Ruining It For Everyone" with their habitual injection of gaiety into serious affairs including human rights, political activism and religious intolerance. The Sisters consider it their mission to "ruin" all detrimental conditions including complacency, guilt and the inability to laugh at one's self. [checked 11/29/06]YHSD - Yellow Hankies San Diego - San Diego - New group for Water Sports enthusiasts. Holding a Beverage bust the first Thursday of every month at the San Diego Eagle. SDn2.WS - San Diego in 2 Water Sports. For more info, email SDn2WS@ohpapi.com San Diego Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
San Diego Alternative Lifestyles "SanDAL" has been created to be a means by which news and information may be distributed throughout the San Diego area for ALL alternative lifestyle groups. San_Diego_BDSM - list started to allow the exchange of personals and personal thoughts for people in or interested in the BDSM lifestyle in San DiegoSDBound - Pan sexual, pan gender discussion list
San Diego Fem Domme Socials - Socials and dinners for dominant Females and those who love themYoungLeather - San Diego California based group for those between the ages of 21 and 35 who are interested in leather, BD/SM and fetish. Chat is currently Monday nights at 9pm. Gay, Straight, bi, Trans, Dom, Sub, Switch,novice and the just curious. All are welcome #BDSM-SanDiego on irc.bondage.com
General So. Cal:
Maximus Cigar Men - Organizes quarterly socials and periodic smokers for Real Men and butch boys — not the nelly or faint of heart — who know, crave and indulge in the macho appeal and libido-stoking lure of cigar-smoking, pipe-smoking, and the he-man camaraderie and male bonding they stir up. Southern California (General) Local Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards:
SoCalSMEvents The Events resource for Southern California. Join it's Email List to get the local events announcements in your email SoCa-Commons for people interested in the BDSM scene in Southern California * events announcements only *5/09 mostly dormantSoCal_BDSM_Lifestyle
Mailing list for SoCal.BDSM_West - This list has emphasis on sharing the mindset and feelings of the BDSM/DS relationships in a environment of honor and integrity. Monthly discussion group meetings. #BDSM-SoCal on irc.bondage.com Continue U.S. Listings
