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ASKNENC - Adults Seeking Kink in North Eastern North Carolina - north eastern North Carolina and south eastern Virginia community - A pansexual educational, social (munch) and support group for adults who wish to learn, share and/or meet with other like-minded individuals who are interested in BDSM, exploring different fetish interests, and similar alternative lifestyles. [Email List] [checked 11/7/05]

Asheville Circle With 3 Parts - Asheville - a BDSM group for informational and educational service. [checked 10/3/07]

BDSM Safe Haven - a support place for kinksters who are survivors of abuse, their loved ones, and other interested folks to learn and understand issues surrounding BDSM and abuse. Subscribe: BDSMSafeHaven. We will have weekly online discussion groups, a mailing list, and even in-person meetings monthly in the central North Carolina area.

Black Garden - Charlotte - A Pansexual friendly group that works in co-ordination with several other Charlotte based BDSM groups. In our site you will find a variety of information about the local scene and related events and groups. Inside is a calendar of events, information on weekly gatherings, contacts for demonstrations and play parties, details on club fetish events/nights and much much more. [Email List] for correspondence with others in the area. [checked 11/7/05]

Black Munch Group - Greensboro - Formed in April 2001 to provide socialization for African Americans in the BDSM lifestyle. 10/07: Appears munches are discontinued.

Capital Leathermen - Raleigh - A social fraternal organization united in the fellowship and brotherhood of the leather/levi lifestyle. info@capitalleathermen.org [checked 11/7/05]

Capex - The Charlotte Area Power Exchange - An organization located in the Charlotte & Southern Piedmont areas of North Carolina. We are a group of like minded individuals interested in the continuing education and advancement of BDSM interests. board@capex.info [Email List] [Fetlife] [checked 11/24/10]

Carolina BDSM Network - Information on groups and resources in North and South Carolina and local personal ads

CGoL - Carolina Girls of Leather - This group is for all who identify as "leather girls in their own heartspace at any point and time and would like to learn from and with other girls in the area. Forming 5 chapters throughout North and South Carolina. [checked 8/31/08]

CORD - Carolina Order of Rope - Durham Area - 18+ group To build a community of creative and competent bondage enthusiasts in Central North Carolina through a variety of educational and social events (Cordials). [checked 2/31/08]

Carolina SM Spirituality - Raleigh - for anyone who wished to learn more about D/s Spirituality. All Faiths are welcomed and religious discrimination is strictly prohibited. 18+ [checked 2/31/08]

Carolina Whip Enthusiasts - Charlotte - We are currently meeting on the first Saturday of the month. As with all Whip Enthusiasts affiliates, we are open to anyone regardless of experience, age or any other consideration. (Not an adult only / BDSM specific group). Please join us for a good time and a great workout. Email tbass@adwarchitects.com

CLOAK - Charlotte Lovers of All Kink - Charlotte - "Covering the Black community and it's Admirers". A real-time group starting for all blacks in the lifestyle and their admirers of any race. Events are held in Charlotte and Greensboro. For more information, Visit their website. [Email List] [checked 4/7/09]

Charlotte Traveling Munch - For Lifestyle folk and friends in the Charlotte area to gather in a vanilla/social venue to talk about ... whatever we want to talk about! Newcomers are both welcomed & absolutely encouraged. There will be no play; attire should be normal street wear, as we will be meeting in public venues. The whole idea is to get together, meet people with similar interests and varied experiences and, above all, to have FUN! [checked 11/10]

ClubFem of North Carolina - For dominant women only. [checked 8/31/08]

Dark Sanctuary - Fayetteville - a munch social group for All (adults 21+) with an interest in dominance/submission who enjoys the company of other real time D/s life stylist in a friendly environment. iceneroticnkinky@yahoo.com [Email list] [checked 8/25/08]

DECK (Down East Carolina Kink) - Greenville - non-profit, pansexual support group that offers an educational and social forum for Safe, Sane, Consensual BD/SM, D/S. Monthly munches - For info, Email Yikes445@aol.com. To subscribe to their mailing list, send email to majordomo@psicorps.org and In the body of the message put ONLY: subscribe deck Leaving the subject line blank if possible.

Domme Beach - Wilmington - A camaraderie, friendship and fun for femdoms and their admirers (male or female submissives or switches in sub mode) with femdom-themed munches and parties. Courtesy (not cruising) is expected from all to all. [checked 5/29/07]

ECPE - Eastern Carolina Power Exchange - Greenville - We are a friendly, open group of people interested in the BDSM lifestyle. We provide opportunities to meet others and exchange information on Safe, Sane, and Consensual Adult BDSM practices in a non-threatening environment. [Email List] [checked 11/7/05]

FAPEX - Fayetteville Area Power Exchange - Fayetteville - a real time, private, pansexual group catering to those that live the BDSM & D/S lifestyle. Our group was founded in June of 1999. We offer a monthly Munch, education & demonstrations

FAD - Female Artists of Domination - Raleigh - Organization created by and for Female Dominants. The members consist of Female Dominants (Dommes, Tops, Mistresses, Dominatrixes, etc.) and their admirers (female and male submissives, slaves and bottoms). We welcome het, bi and lesbian individuals whether you are male or female identified, but DO limit our Female Dominants to being genetically female. mistressangelique001@yahoo.com [Email List] [checked 1/29/07]

funfreakypeople - Charlotte - a social night on Mondays where fun, freaky, interesting people get together and network in a social atmosphere.

Gnosis - a not for profit group based in the Triad area of North Carolina dedicated to providing a pansexual, supportive, educational, and exploratory environment for persons genuinely interested in SM/Leather/Fetish relationships and/or activities. We continue to have a monthly social the second Saturday of the month. Xchrispi@aol.com [checked 1/24/07]

Greensboro Floating Munch - For Lifestyle folk and friends in the Triad (Greensboro, Winston-Salem, Kernersville, Burlington, High Point) to gather in a vanilla/social venue to talk about ... whatever we want to talk about! Newcomers are both welcomed & absolutely encouraged. There will be no play; attire should be normal street wear, as we will be meeting in public venues. The whole idea is to get together, meet people with similar interests and varied experiences and, above all, to have FUN! [checked 8/31/08]

Hickory Playground - Hickory - A B.D.S.M Group with a demo/social once a month and one Sunday munch per month. Our group is growing in size and we have a lot of fun. 18+ Email hickoryplayground@yahoo.com [On Fetlife] [checked 7/14/09]

HIGHLAND LLC - seeks to provide information to others on the varied safe, sane, consensual and fun practices of the levi/leather lifestyle. To provide information reguarding our lifestyle to the general community, in order to encourage a more possitive attitude of acceptance and increased awareness of our position, contributions and potential within the community. [checked 11/10]

KNC BDSM Group - Kinston's Alternative Lifestyle Group

KTs Guesthouse - Greensboro - We are an informal S&M...Sleep and Munch. kinkytraveler00@yahoo.com [checked 8/25/08]

LASH - Lifestyle Alternatives - Shelby - a safe, sane and consentual BDSM group with munches. For more information, Email cdragon@wncnet.com or mitsimouse@hotmail.com

LINX - Charlotte - Linx is a pansexual social and support group that welcomes everyone to learn and explore different facets of safe, sane, and consensual BDSM - Eat, Meet and Greets (EM&Gs) on the second Friday of the month. Weirdwulf for information. [checked 6/4/08]

MAsT NE North Carolina - Fayetteville - MAsT exists to provide, support groups, services, educational and social opportunities for persons living or desiring to live the Dominant/submissive, Master/slave lifestyle. MAsT offers the opportunity for a group of people with like minds and orientations to explore options, problems, and ideas associated with starting and maintaining a Power Exchange relationship. The group meets monthly. [checked 6/4/08]

MAsT: Triad - pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in the Master-Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship. Persons of all genders and sexual orientations are welcome. mistressfirebdsm@yahoo.com or tasalley@bellsouth.net [Email List] [checked 11/7/05]

Menamore Levi / Leather Club - Wilmington - Gay/Lesbian Leather/Levi organization. For more information, E-Mail Menamore@aol.com [checked 11/7/05]

MSC_NC - Spencer - This is a group that focus's on the area of North Carolina that is in the Mid South Central part of the State. Mainly From Mocksville to Concord and from Statesville to Ashboro (with Salisbury being the Center Point of the Area). motmt_maotn_angeleyez_nc@yahoo.com [Email List] (Alt. Site) [checked 11/7/05]

NCtng ∑ Triangle Next Generation - Triangle - A pansexual (all sexual and gender orientations welcome!), real-time group based in the Triangle area of North Carolina for adults of all experience levels from the ages 18-35, who are interested in exploring the kinky and leather lifestyles. [checked 3/3/08]

NC-Together is a group of SM-Leather-Fetish/BDSM activists in North Carolina who work to improve communication, collaboration, and tolerance among the diverse groups that make up our community. We span gender-identities, sexual orientations, races, ages, abilities, and beliefs mistress@pobox.com

NC WALL - NC Women's Alternative Leather Lifestyle (The WALL) is a social group for women living a BDSM lifestyle in the Triangle NC area. We have regular meetings in the area. The group is opened to anyone who is 21 years of age or older and is female identified. nc_wall@hotmail.com

RTSubWomen Piedmont - Group for female submissives, bottoms and slaves [checked 11/7/05]

Sandhills Social Club - Fayetteville - we have a fairly active core of members who meet regularly for dinner and other such events. Feel free to join us for discussion on the Email list or at our real-time events. [checked 10/15/07]

Serendipity - Unexpected Pleasure - Greensboro - A private gathering of kink-friendly friends... Invited are gay people, straight people, lesbian, and the transgendered along with everyone in between. All members of the BDSM community are welcome. Hosting an events calendar including all local groups at The Meeting Guide. For more information, Email Eugene at EvilOne@Triad.RR.Com [checked 10/15/07]

SKIP - Shelby Kinky People - Shelby - A respectful group of like minded kinky people with munches. For information, Email msbs@carolina.rr.com or raksasha_de_lune@yahoo.com [checked 11/7/05]

SECC - Southeast Conference of Clubs open but not limited to established Leather/SM/Fetish clubs/ organizations/ associations/ businesses and non-profit organizations located in the following states: Alabama, Georgia, Florida, Kentucky, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, South Carolina, Tennessee, and Virginia. For more information, write P.O. Box 7364, Wilmington, NC 28406 or email secclubs@aol.com

Smithfield/Johnson County Munch Group munches and mixers - For more information, Email jade@ipass.net

SPANK (Southern Pansexual Advocates of Negotiated Kink) - Fayetteville - A pansexual and private D/s and bdsm support group which sponsors a monthly public munch and maintains a public mailing list (formerly the Fayetteville Munch Group) for Central North Carolina. For information, E-Mail TamingMistress@hotmail.com [checked 11/7/05]

Tarheel Leather Club - Greensboro & Raleigh - a politically active, non-gender specific, social, and educational community service organization for persons over twenty-one years of age who are interested in, or are actively pursuing the leather, S/M fetish lifestyle- email nclthrcub@aol.com, nclthrstud@aol.com or sirdontre@mail.com for more info [checked 12/12/05]

The Society - Jacksonville - An alternative lifestyle group for Eastern North Carolina. Email mistressdi@mistressdiabolical.com [checked 6/4/08]

The Tradesmen - Charlotte - Gay Male Leather/Levi organization - a fellowship of individuals having a common character and interest in the leather/bdsm/fetish lifestyle. The Tradesmen are dedicated to the development and improvement of brotherhood, both in the individual and the community. Email Info@TheTradesmen.org [checked 11/7/05]

The East Coast Kink Contingent (TECKC) - Raleigh - pansexual (inclusive of all sexual orientations) group based in central North Carolina for individuals 21 years of age and older interested in bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadomasochism, BDSM, variations and combinations of these activities. Events are scheduled each month to offer opportunities for social contact within the BDSM community as well as chances to learn fresh new ideas and techniques. [checked 10/1/07]

Triad Next Generation (TNG) - TNG is a pansexual organization, inclusive of all sexual orientations, genders, and/or gender identifications. Triad Next Generation's goal is to create a safe environment for kinky individuals 18-35, where people of any kink or fetish can interact, learn, and get to know one another. We rotate our munches between Greensboro, High Point, and Winston-Salem. [checked 11/25/10]

TMG - Triangle Area NC Munch Group - We are a Pansexual group of people in the Triangle, NC area who share an interest in Bondage, Discipline/Dominance & Submission/Sado-Masochism (BDSM ). [checked 9/17/08]

Triangle Next Generation (TNG) - a BDSM, fetish & kink group for those 18-35 and their partner(s), in the Triangle area of North Carolina (Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill metro area). We do not exclude participants on basis of race/ethnic origin, religion, family status, size/shape or disability -- everyone 18-35 is welcome. Additionally, TNG is a pansexual group, which means we are inclusive of all sexual orientations, genders, and/or gender identifications. [checked 11/25/10]

WHIPS - Wilmington - A private play party group for experienced players, over 21. For information, Email Big Daddy Pain at BigDaddyPain@aol.com

W.I.C.K.E.D. (Women's Info Channel for Kink-Friendly Education & Discussion) Discussion (mailing list and activities) For women, about women, and by women only! Coffee clutch: 3rd Sunday every month (Triangle Area, North Carolina). For more information, contact Farah at SimplyFarah@netscape.net or WICKED-owner@yahoogroups.com

Wilmington Kink - WINK - Wilmington - a private alternative alternative lifestyle group in southeastern North Carolina for adults who practice SSC wiitwd and other "kinks". For information, please Email wink-wilmington@yahoo.com * Also meeting in Jacksonville and as Wink West, meeting in Fayetteville (acbeach28449@yahoo.com)

WNC PEX - Western North Carolina Power Exchange - Asheville - WNC PEX is an adult pansexual group for those within power exchange relationships, those seeking power exchange relationships and those curious to learn more about power exchange relationships. (affiliated with Asheville Dungeon Society) [checked 2/3/08]

WNC Leathermen - Asheville - A social, nonprofit group of gay men that promote a positive leather image and lifestyle while contributing to charitable causes in the gay & lesbian community. Meeting the 1st Saturday of Every Month. admin@wncleathermen.com [checked 1/4/09]

North Carolina Email Discussion Lists & Message Boards: North Carolina Local IRC Channels:
    #BDSM-Carolina IRC Dalnet channel
North Dakota

Red River Valley Power Exchange - Fargo/Morehead - We're a group of regular everyday people living in the Red River Valley of the North, that happen to like a bit of kink in our lives. We also want to learn about how to incorporate that in a safe yet fun way. We're here to learn and teach, to support and mentor. * Jan 06: defunct?

The Northern Munch Fargo - a non-threatening way to meet and talk with people in the lifestyle in a public forum. Casual nonfetish dress is appropriate and appreciated. Info: softgntl4u@aol.com

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