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~Northern and Central California~


North CA:
Clubs
Club Risqué .
The Overlook


Shopping
Dream Catchers
Leather Fantasies
Lion & Bear Glass
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A Woman of Leather- Nor Cal (AWOLNC) - This groups focus is to meet and socialize with other women of leather in Northern CA. It is an exclusive group for women only. - EMail mssccl99@yahoo.com

ChicoBD_SMunch (formerly The CAGe and The_RoC) - Chico - We are a group of ds bd sm, friends in Butte county. We post local info, stories, discussions and how to tips, now and then. We hold a monthly munch on the second saturday at 5Pm. This is primarily a social contact list for people who have DS SM BD in common. EMail andei_ca@yahoo.com for more information

Eureka Munch - Meets first Monday of each month for those individuals interested in BDSM who want to meet other people locally. Email bluegumbo@suddenlink.net [checked 8/27/08]

FSMG - Ukiah - Ukiah First Sunday Meeting Group meeting monthly. For information, E-Mail mark695@gmail.com [checked 8/25/08]

The Impropriety Society - Humboldt County based group aimed at promoting sexual self-awareness, providing opportunities for the exploration and celebration of erotic ideas and desires while respecting the boundaries of others, and showing community acceptance and support for a variety of sexual preferences and lifestyles. Pansexual, holding workshops and parties. [checked 8/27/08]

MY Munch - mailing list for people in the BDSM lifestyle, or who wish to learn more. Marysville, Yuba City: Sutter, Yuba, Nevada Counties California, although the list is not closed to anyone living elsewhere. sierraflowr@gmail.com. Hosting the Lake County Munch the last Sunday of every month in Lakeport. Contact missconduct53@yahoo.com [checked 7/26/07]

HBDSMC - The Humboldt BDSM Connection - A new and growing organization focusing on the unique needs of Kinksters living in redwood country. The group meets for munches, discussions and other social events. Email humboldtbdsm@hotmail.com [Email List] [checked 12/19/04]

Lake County Munch Group - Lakeport - A new group meeting together at our munch on the last Sunday of each month for mutual interests in the lifestyle of our choice. Email Missconduct53@aol.com [checked 7/13/04]

Leather/Levi Weekend - Saratoga Springs - August 12-15, 2004 - A leather community gathering and celebration with a special welcome to younger leather folk and those new to the leather scene. Email info@leatherlevi.org

Lost_Coast_BDSM - This mailing list is intended to be a gathering place for people interested in BDSM. The "Lost Coast" area is the specific target (Humboldt county, Eureka, Arcata, etc.) Get together to find out what is here, and what can be built. Welcome.

Mendocino Coast - we are trying to locate scene players in Mendocino, Ft. Bragg, and other Mendocino coastal towns. We'd like to form a social/support group for like-minded folks. If you know of such, or are such, please e-mail to Cloud at mendocloudman@yahoo.com

North Coast Leather - Guerneville - Group holding many events including Leather Boot Camp Weekend on the River each year in May

Redding Area Munch group - Redding - Our munch is held on the last Friday of every month, from 7:00 pm - Midnight, in a private home ( this is a discussion group NOT a play party). For information contact MDW@charter.net

powerplayhumboldt - Eureka - a place for people to openly discuss issues that affect us. Hopefully also a place where we can connect for gatherings and other events that will help the community get to know each other and what's available out there for us

RedwoodCurtainBDSM - This group encourages participation locally in Humboldt County and all places between San Francisco and Crescent City, California. Redwood Curtain is Northern California’s newest Pansexual, BDSM, Leather, D/s and Fetish open-membership information and discussion group where everyone is welcome! We promote open, inclusive, loving, non-fear based participation. [checked 10/6/04]

Russian River Leather - Guerneville

Society of the Silver Collar - Eureka - a Domination / submission discussion group. SSC is a social orginization that found its start on America Online. We will start an offline discussion group if there are enough interested people. This discussion group would be located in Eureka, CA. Email us here to let us know if you are interested in a local D/s group!! SocSlvrClr@aol.com

AnythingButVanilla, Your Alternative Lifestyle Travel Source. Our staff are friendly, discreet, and are actively involved in BDSM communities. We are a full service Travel Agency with Offices In the USA and Australia

North California Local Email Discussion Lists: North California Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:
    #ChicoChat on BondageNet (irc.bondage.com) or #Chico-BDSM on DalNet (irc.dal.net)
    On IRC Dalnet channels for the area: #BDSM-Norcal


Atwater:

Atwater B.A.D. Group - Munches on the 3rd Sunday of the month. Contact holly at amorous_corsets@yahoo.com



Berkeley:

Shopping
Berkeley:
Good Vibrations
Berkeley Munch Every Second Monday of the month at Celia's Mexican restaurant 7-9pm - No RSVP necessary rberend@igc.org [article] *Feb 12, 2007 will be final munch

Brush Strokes OTK - Spanking group with occasional meetings in Berkeley

FantasyMakers Academy - Berkeley - New classes in the bay area DominaDeia@aol.com



Concord:

Concord Munch (formerly Walnut Creek Munch) - Concord - A social gathering of like-minded kinksters on the last Tuesday of every month! For more information, email WCMunch@yahoo.com



Campbell:

BRiDgE - the Bay aRea Diaper Enthusiasts - Campbell - This site serves the adult babies, diaper lovers, infantilists, etc., of the San Fransisco Bay Area, as well as those traveling to the area. It's goal is to promote the local community by distributing information on meetings and providing a forum for discussion. Munches on the 3rd Tuesday of the month. [checked 11/27/06]

The Fold - Lifestyle Social - Campbell - Socializing and D/s related discussions, tentatively scheduled for the 2nd Saturday of each month. For more information, please contact viper_001@mindspring.com or loxly1066@yahoo.com [checked 1/28/06]



Davis:

Davis Munch - Davis, CA - We are considering starting a discussion group/pot luck (for doms/dommes and subs) once a month in the Davis CA area for anyone within a reasonable distance. Please reply with your interest to: DavisKink@hotmail.com



Fairfield:

Fairfield Munch - Fairfield - Munches on the 1st Sunday of each month. To get on the email list and receive more information on the munches, E-Mail Dominic at L_Goodbest@yahoo.com



Folsom:

NCBDSM - Chains of Passion - Folsom - a pansexual social organization for individuals seeking a supportive environment for exploring alternative sexuality, specifically the exploration of the BDSM lifestyle with both a members-only discussion email list and an announcements-only mailing list for events. Visit them also on IRC Dalnet #NCBDSM - Email ncbdsm@hotmail.com



Fremont:

East Bay Trinity - We hold a open forum munch every two weeks in Fremont Ca and everyone is welcomed to attend, from novice to the highly experianced. Come and join us and meet other like minded people right here in the east bay. eastbaytrinitygroup@yahoo.com for more information. [checked 8/27/08]



Fresno:

TGIF - The Group in Fresno Munch - munch group meeting the 4th Thursday of the month most months - get-together for folks who share a common interest in BDSM. If you're shy or unsure of yourself, this is the perfect place to be... everyone is friendly and non-judgmental. Mistress_Tawnie@TGIFresno.org [Email List]



Hayward:

Clubs/Dungeons


ACLCAlameda County Leather Corps - ACLC - Hayward - not for profit organization composed of residents of San Francisco's East Bay promoting educational and charitable activities through social interaction among people with an interest in leather, levi's, uniforms and latex.

Sub Scouts - Hayward - To all you subs/slaves/bottoms/and switches in bottom mode. We have the discussion group for you. It is located in the East bay - A place that subs could meet and talk with each other about a whole array of topics. Giving support where needed and helping create a safe environment to talk of oh so many topics. For information please email Lovelyo222@aol.com



Marin County:

Marin Munch - San Rafael - Munches on the Second Tuesday of each month. See events calendar for more information. Please no fetish wear or other overt behavior; this is a family restaurant and we are a discreet group. jj1231231@yahoo.com for more information. [On Tribe] [checked 2/7/08]



Millbrae:

SMACK Social - SMACK Socials (formerly the SMACK Dinner) are now held the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays of each month at the 16-Mile House in Millbrae. RSVP to SMACK.SOCIAL@GMail.com [Email List] [checked 9/3/08]



Modesto:

Shopping


The Frugal Domme


The Modesto Discussion Group - Social and educational group with discussions for those both new to the scene or the area and those established in the area, and the Modesto Munch which is now discontinued. abrac@hotmail.com [Email List]

Modesto Manor - A pansexual, local event and discussion group for those active in the D/S and S/M community

Northern California Ladies Tea and Discussion - Modesto - Monthly teas for Ladies

Women's Leather/BDSM Forum - Modesto - Join us for an evening (the 3rd Thursday of every month) of provocative discussion with other like-minded kinky women! Socialize, hang out and have fun! This group is open to all self-identified women! Please RSVP to shewhocreates@yahoo.com for address and directions. [checked 1/19/05]



Oakland:

Dungeons


Purple Lotus
Kinky Wimmin! - Oakland - This group is a discussion and social group. We are looking forward to doing field trips and outings as well as talking about relevant issues. Meeting 1st and 3rd Mondays of each month. For all people who id as women and their ftm friends. All ages (18+), sizes, races, religions, ethnicities, colors, sexualities and shoe sizes welcome. =) ASL interpreter available. Questions? Concerns? Email Briana at dryadgrl@netscape.net [Homepage]

Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness - Oakland - provide a forum for African American Dominants and submissives to meet and exchange ideas. Please email HelloMahogany@gmail.com for more information.



Palo Alto:

stampedeStampede! Munch - Los Altos - The San Francisco Bay Area Animal Roleplay Society - Pansexual organization that sponsors animal roleplay events, demos and competitions. - Email info@the-stampede.com for info. [Email List]



Petaluma:

North Bay Munch Group
- Petaluma - Munch group meeting on 3rd Sundays of each month - For more information, email NorthBayMunch@BigFoot.com



Sacramento:

Dungeons / Clubs


The BOLT

Shopping


Forbidden Expressions
Show Off Your Stuff
FemDoms of Sacramento - Sacramento - For those that are considered to be FemDoms of the Sacramento area, no matter what gender... and for those that are submissive or adore and love to serve them! Pro-Dommes may join only if approved by list owner. It is a place for novices, lifestyle, and those truely interested belong here. It is not a place for male Doms, hence the name. We invite ALL submissives to join and those that are straight/TS/TG/CD/Bi/Gay/Lesbian. Our monthly Munches are the first Tuesday of each month. We have Play Parties every-other month, demos and classes with special presenters. [checked 8/25/08]

MAsT - Sacramento - Sacramento - an open, welcoming pansexual resource for anyone involved in, interested in, or curious about the Master/slave relationship or any other "power exchange" dynamic. The gathering is open to any interested people and you do not have to be part of a M/s relationship to attend. [checked 3/3/08]

Pleasure Bound - Sacramento - Pansexual BDSM group with munches and parties. [checked 7/25/07]

Sacramento Valley Leathercorps - Sacramento Valley Leathercorps is a group of gay men and women dedicated to the accurate portrayal of the Leather BDSM communities. [checked 9/29/07]

Sacramento Women in Leather Munch - A woman-to-woman S/M support group. Email WILS@wil-s.org for more information [checked 8/29/04]

"T" (Transitions) - Sacramento - Focussing on local area newcomers to the D/s & BDSM Lifestyle but open to all flavors. No RSVP is required to attend the munches held the 1st & 3rd Wednesdays of each month. We also do Demos and get togethers focused on new comers. Email dragun_hart@yahoo.com [Email List] [checked 8/28/06]

unDom - We are a female submissive group from Sacramento and Modesto, California. We meet on the first Sunday of each month. The group is designed for both newcomers and those familiar with WIITWD (what it is that we do). This is a safe place to discuss, share experiences, and to ask questions too.

Vices - Vices is not a formal bdsm membership organization. It is a group of like minded folks who want to enjoy community events and each other's company. We are based in Sacramento and will have meetings in different places to enjoy a wide variety of events already scheduled in the community. Vices supports the gay, trans gender and pansexual community and is composed of kinky and kink friendly folks. Vices holds "non munches" at changing locations.

Sacramento Local Email Lists and Online Forums:
    Erotic Edge - a Sacramento based BDSM Discussion Group offering a forum for free thought and information for the newcomer. [checked 3/25/08]
    SacramentoareaD_s - Sacramento - This is a group for those involved in, or seriously interested in the D/s lifestlye living in and around Sacramento California. [Email List]
    Sacramento Southern Cross - A general discussion list for all alternative lifestyle members focusing on those living in and around the Sacramento basin. [Email List] [blogspot] [checked 5/27/07]


Sacramento Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:
    IRC Dalnet channels for the area: #BDSM-Sacramento


San Francisco:

Shopping


San Francisco:
The Blowfish Catalog
The San Francisco Whip Co.
Romantasy
Good Vibrations
So Hip It Hurts
Stormy Leather
QSM
Mr. S Leathers
Stompers Boots
Clubs
Power Exchange
Bondage A Go Go
Bound
PleasureZone
SF Citadel The Sling


Photography
Andrew Morgan


The 15 Association - San Francisco - a social & sexual fraternity for gay men over 21 years of age into S/M. P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA, 94142-1302 - E-Mail: howard@sfo.com

Bay Area submissives (BAs) group in the San Francisco Bay Area for submissives to get together socially, to network, to help one another out, and to have fun. BAs is gender neutral and all submissives are welcome. BAs meet monthly on the second Saturday. Info: 415-430-2160 x8984 or email SFLthrboy17@aol.com or info@bayareasubmissives.org

Cuir Underground a San Francisco-based online magazine for the pansexual kink communities , people of all genders and sexual orientations who enjoy SM, leather, fetish, genderfuck, and other forms of radical sexuality. Great list of resources

Defenders - San Francisco - a Leather/Levi club, and part of Dignity, the national gay Catholic organization. Defenders take a stand for the sacredness of our leather sexuality and explore practical ways of integrating sexuality and spirituality.

The Disciplinary Wives Club (DWC) is an organization whose purpose is to encourage the application of "Good Old Fashioned" spanking and other very traditional methods of discipline by wives and committed partners. Not BDSM

The Exiles a social and educational organization in San Francisco for women with a positive personal interest in S/M between women with 3rd Friday of the month programs

ForumThe Forum of San Francisco a Calendar of Events for motorcycle and leather clubs in the SF Bay area - PO Box 421862, San Francisco CA 94142

Golden Gate Guards - A South of Market Leather/Levi 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in San Francisco open to both men and women. We host many events each year and raise thousands of dollars for charity. We like to have fun, too! Email: info@ggguards.com Post Office Box 14478 San Francisco CA 94114

Knotty Boys - San Francisco-based, hands-on workshops by Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) who will shape your skills in quickly tying restraints that are as beautiful as they are functional. "Our goal is to demystify bondage and put the fun into it, all the while making it safer and much more aesthetically pleasing." For information, E-Mail knots2U@hotmail.com or call Voicemail: 1-510-433-7493

GGPET is a social group of bay area goths (and non-goths that like to go to goth events) that are into the local fetish/BDSM scene. The main requirement for joining GGPET is getting to know a good number of the existing GGPET members. Holding a munch to meet others on the last Thursday of every month. Email squee@sfgoth.com [checked 7/21/02]

lthrbuddiesLeather Buddies San Francisco - a private membership club for hot guys in leather, rubber and uniforms. We meat-up on the 4th Wednesday of each month

leatherman'sLeathermen's Discussion Group meets the first and third Wednesdays of each month in San Francisco

LYRICLYRIC - Lavender Youth Recreation & Information Center community center for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning Youth 23 & Under

MAsT: San Francisco - San Francisco Chapter of Masters and Slaves Together (MAsT) - MAsT is a social group for Masters or slaves or those interested in exploring a Dominance/submissive lifestyle, providing a meeting place for companionship and conversation about matters of mutual interest. Open to women as well as men but serving predominantly the Gay & Lesbian community of San Francisco. For more information, EMail Daddy Ken at MrKofSF@aol.com [checked 3/18/04]

Men In Gear - SF - The idea behind the group/site is to get people out of the house and into the public in gear. We need to continue to show that the Leather community is alive and well in our cities.

MOD - Men of Discipline - SF - an alternative leather fraternity for gay men who are serious about SM and the leather lifestyle and practice discipline in their daily lives

Phoenix Uniform club of San Francisco - The Phoenix Uniform Club was established as a fraternal, nonprofit organization in order to foster an interest in the trading and collecting of uniforms and uniform accessories and to promote creative social activity among its members while supporting charitable organizations. We hold regularly scheduled monthly meetings, which are open to anyone who is interested in learning more about the Club. We also host a number of other events throughout the year, the largest of which is the Annual Uniform and Leather Ball held during San Francisco's Gay Pride weekend (June).

The Ring Group for bisexual and gay men with Bondage Night the second Wednesday of each month - informal workshops men can see expert demos and get hands-on group practice in a safe setting. and a monthly Discussion Group meeting. For more information call 415-437-0883 or email the_ring@ix.netcom.com.

sfba-leatherdyke - event announcements for SF Bay Area women who enjoy bdsm activities with other women. Lesbian, bi, trans, dyke, queer - ALL of us, and yes ftm people are welcome

The San Francisco boys of Leather - providing a safe arena to empower self-identified boys of leather in serving the greater leather community, increasing the visibility of leather boys, and educating others in what it means to be a boy of leather. Through service and fun, we will support each other and our community. we define the term leather boy as broadly as possible, without regard to gender, appearance or sexual orientation. we come together in our common devotion to service and dedication to the leather community. 2nd Saturday monthly meetings. [Email List]

SF Citadel Men - San Francisco

San Francisco girls of Leather - SFgOL - San Francisco - Group to provide a source of communication, information, growth and support for Leather girls (Not limited by biological sex, gender, or sexual orientation) To manifest the power of girls and increase the visibility of, and educate the community about, Leather girls To be of service to and support activities within the Leather community. We meet the 2nd Monday of the month from 6-7:30pm at The Citadel in San Francisco. For info: lori@sfgol.org or hayden@sfgol.org

SFmunchSan Francisco munch/brunch 2nd Saturday munches in SF - For info and RSVP, email Jefe at JefeB@sfsu.edu

SFDSDG - San Francisco Dominance & Submission Discussion Group - Monthly discussions in SF

SFLeatherSan Francisco Leather Calendar

SF Men's Spanking Party - San Francisco - are on the 2nd Sunday of every month (Except July - Due to CAMP RED TAILS) This is a Male only event, the lighter side of S&M. 18+ Gay, Bi or Straight, Beginners are always welcome. This is NOT a Leather S&M party. The entrance fee is $20.00 "1/2 price with Student or Military ID" * There are 3 EXTRA Saturday Spanking Party. In June - The day before the S.F. Gay Pride Parade. In July - The day before the Up Your Alley Fair. In Sept. - The day before the Folsom Street Fair. For more Info. Call #(415) 864-2766 or Email SanFranParty@Yahoo.com. Info on CAMP RED TAILS - go to www.manshandsfilms.com [Email List] [checked 3/3/08]

San Francisco Queer Leather Munch - San Francisco - This is a munch for anyone in the leather community of any gender or sexuality who identifies as "Queer." For more information, Email MusicGeekChic@aol.com

SFQueerSpank - This is a spanking group for queer folks into the spanking fetish. Daddy boy mommy/girl and anything in between.....role play and realistic discipline spankings! Sensual, yadda yadda.. on Tribe.net

scarletltrScarlet Letter Services Scarlet Letter Services experience-based approach towards risk reduction, fetishism and sexuality exploration strives to answer questions that often go unasked

screwupscrewup - San Francisco - a pangender/ queercentric/ trans- inclusive BDSM discussion and activity group for freaks of all natures. An unorganized anarchist organization that meets once a month, 2nd Friday of the month and do workshops and hands on stuff. Email screwup_sf@yahoo.com for more information

screwupSlap & Tickle Brunch - San Francisco - a group particularly for youth and those newer to bdsm. Brunches on the 2nd Sunday of every month as well as other fun events. For information, info@slapntickle.org and to RSVP, to the listing [On Tribe]

SHSSociety for Human Sexuality San Francisco Chapter

SoJanusSociety of Janus a non-profit, San Francisco-based education/support organization which explores and teaches the art of safe, sane, consensual power exchange

SoJanusSociety of Janus Calendar - Calendar of events for all of Northern California - Most frequently updated calendar to check

SFKinkyQueers - Events only email list. All Queer, All Kink

sfbayqueeragenda - Email list for Kinky, slightly kinky, and other events

spectatorSpectator Magazine - great essays (check the archives), local happenings and nightlife information



San Jose / Milpitas:

Clubs/Dungeons
Edges

Shopping


bunnyflogger.com
Dogrose Leathers
Draknon's Dungeon
Leather Masters
Pierre Silber
The Brotherhood - San Jose - A group of gay men who live in the Leather lifestyle. The group was started for social, play and other activities. [checked 11/7/05]

Constantines of the Bay Area - San Jose - a non-profit, social fraternal order for gay S/M men working to create a lasting interest in all aspects of motorcycling and motorcycling safety; we are also very active in the leather/levi community and lifestyle.

MAsT Santa Clara County - We are a pansexual organization dedicated to supporting, assisting, educating, and providing fellowship with those who seek to learn more about or celebrate the Master/slave dynamic in their lives. [checked 9/30/07]

SJLeatherSan Jose Leather has the Santa Clara County Leather Calendar

PurpleRoseThe Purple Rose Garden - Sunnyvale - Female Supremacy Group only for Female Dominants and their male slaves. mistress_purple@hotmail.com

SJ Brunch Munch - AKA PROvertsbrunch - Sunday munch meetings in San Jose. Come join us for some good food and fun company. For more info, E-Mail ms_tender@comcast.net [Email List]

Santa Clara Leather Association and SCCLA, Their mailing list that provides information about local leather events and works to keep the BDSM/Leather community of Silicon Valley linked

San Jose BDSM - Email list for D/s in San Jose

SM Odyssey - San Jose - bringing the best in classes, information and social events to the BDSM community. Odyssey is committed to service to the community and the sharing of ideas. Hosting the San Jose Munch - 3rd Monday munches odyssey@smodyssey.com

Southbay Interactive Calendar

Southern Cross Munch - San Jose - Hosting the "Usual Suspects" munch every Friday - Gear down after a long week, meet up with friends for Friday night entertainment. [Email List] [On Tribe.net] [checked 6/11/08]

West Coast ponyplayers - A home for the fans, owners and trainers of Ponygirls (and boys). [checked 4/5/04]

The X Group - San Jose - A Pansexual Young Adult's BDSM Discussion Group for ages 19-35 To offer an open topic moderated discussion forum and allow people to explore issues relating to young people and SM/Leather/Fetish, and the SM/Leather/Fetish community. [Email List]

San Jose Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:
    IRC Dalnet channels for the area: #bdsm-bbw-sj-ca


San Mateo:

SanMateoSpanking - A Group for Spankers and Spankees on the Penninsula and surrounding environs

San Pablo:

San Pablo Munch the 3rd Monday of each month in El Cerrito - Munch information and RSVPs, Email OnlyMasters@aol.com



Santa Rosa:

The Fourth Tuesday Munch Group - Santa Rosa Munch group meets on the 2nd Sunday of each month (Email mark695@gmail.com) and on 4th Tuesdays (Email 4thtuesdaymunch@comcast.net) [checked 9/16/07]



Santa Clara:

South Bay Girl Talk - Providing a safe, confidential, place to talk about scene and relationship related topics that we really have no place else to talk about such things with people who understand and can offer different perspectives. Meeting the 2nd Monday of each month. For meeting or group information, email me: bradaigh_slave@hotmail.com



Stockton:

DeltaBDSM - Stockton - munches on the 1st Friday of each month in Stockton - For information, email stocktonmunch@yahoo.com (formerly SanJoaKinKsters) [checked 8/28/06]



Sunnyvale:

LosAltosSunnyvale Munches - Formerly Mountain View munch / Palo Alto Munches - Every Wednesday and 2nd & 4th Thursday evenings at Josline's in Sunnyvale - For Information, Email searcher@best.com for Wednesday munches and vicki@rjhg.com for Thursday munches.



Vacaville:

Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/ Fairfield Munch- Vacaville - Weekly casual get together at The Green Bean Coffee House in Vacaville. Email Dungeon_Dreams@msn.com [checked 8/25/08]



Visalia:

Visalia Kink Munch - Visalia - Meeting the first Sunday of the month. E-Mail april visalia_kink@yahoo.com for more information. [checked 10/22/06]


Woodland:

Masquerade - Woodland - (formerly Valley Talk) a BDSM support and social group located in the Sacramento Valley with twice monthly discussions and parties. Masquerade is for Anyone who would like to learn, make new contact with other kinky folks, or just enjoy kinky company. You can be in the scene, scene friendly or just plain curious. If interested / more detailed info email green-eyes@unforgettable.com or masque@themasque.org ** Discontinued as of July 8, 2003



Bay Area (General):
Shopping
Concord:
Backstrokes

Mountain View:
KinkyShop.com

San Leandro:
DungeonBuilder.com

Clubs
Iniquity


Play Spaces to Rent


Mountain View:
The BackDrop Club

Vallejo:
The Overlook
AWOL - All Women Of Leather - Concord - F2F Dungeon with monthly meetings - Email XANTASIA@aol.com

Bay Area Munch List

Bay Area Leather Pagans - All of us are pagans, but some of us are also into other alternative lifestyles. Those of us in the bay area who are into the leather lifestyle and also identify as pagans are welcome in this group.

Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts Menlo Park - seminars, classes and demonstrations for singles, couples or groups

Service of Mankind Church - El Cerrito - Female supremacy group

sfBayTGbdsm - This is a goup for those who identify as crossdresser, transvestite, transexual, transgender, genderf*ck, pre-op, post-op, non-op, MTF, FTM, and all other gender variants, and those who love them, who are into b.d.s.m. and also live in the San Francisco Bay Area. [checked 10/7/07]

Singletales Adventures Group - the newest and coolest way to meet single people in the BDSM/GAY/LESBIAN/PANSEXUAL community. Join us for Adventures in Dining, Dancing, Pleasure, Theatre, Movies, Pub Crawls, Beach Walks and other great adventures! You must be 18 years of age or older and single.

SF_Bay_Med_Fets - We are a Local, social and play oriented group that is small, close knit and confidential. Membership is open Only to California and Western Arizona and Nevada residents with an Active interest in Med Play

SFBay_AdultRope - We are a local (San Francisco Bay Area), social and practice oriented group that is close knit and confidential.

Bay Area Local Email Discussion Groups and Message Boards: Bay Area Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:

Central Coast (Ventura, Santa Barbara, San Luis Obispo, Monterey Bay):



Shopping
Gold Coast Leather
PureTNT
Sake's Collection
X-Elles - Santa Cruz - We are a group of Women who play with Women (or would possibly like to). Our purpose is to create a safe community for women to express themselves with other women. or [checked 11/7/05]

BDSM SLO - CCPEX - California Central Coast Power Exchange - San Luis Obispo - For folks from San Luis Obispo county who are interested in bdsm in all its aspects - Munches are on the 2nd Friday and Socials on the 4th Thursday of each month. ccpex2002@yahoo.com [checked 8/28/06]

Central Coast Gen X Power Exchange - for people into BDSM and in the age range 18-30. Its a group dedicated to the younger generation of kinksters and forming a community just for them. x_bondagecowboy_x@yahoo.com [checked 7/1/06]

Santa Cruz Munch - Munch group Meeting every Monday at Denny's on Ocean St Open to anyone (over 18 years old) who cares to come hang out with us. We always love meeting new people. Ask the hostess for the "adult" group... or Look for either a Bat or Godzilla on our table. Email: BatMunch@castlewalker.com or rstats@pacbell.net for info

D/scovery - Watsonville - an educational list for scene folks to share experiences, be taught and/or teach others. We are open to all adult members of the global D/s community. "Back to Basics" Munch the 2nd Tuesday of each month

LA Ventura Munch - This group is for people in the San Fernando Valley / Ventura area who are interested in meeting like-minded people for coffee and conversation, meet and greet, munch… and maybe more * 3/04 - group is new



Monterey Munch - Monthly munches at different Monterey area locations. For information and RSVP, Email msmontaine@aol.com [checked 3/15/04]

The Scenery - (updated info pending 8/06) [Email List] [checked 8/8/05]

Domus Morsi Munch - (formerly known as: Top of the Hill) - Atascadero/Paso Robles - We are a group for people 21 years and older who live in the San Luis Obispo and North County areas and are interested in BD & SM. We act as both a support group as well as providing educational events. All are welcome at our munchs. Email domusmorsi@yahoo.com [checked 8/28/06]

XBDSM: eXploreBDSM - The Central Coast's Pre-eminent Kink Group & Mailing List! In California - from Monterey and Santa Cruz to Boulder Creek and San Jose - we draw a wide variety of perves interested in the many aspects of BDSM. We have on-line discussions covering the full spectrum of the BDSM lifestyle with our mailing list - in an environment that recognizes and appreciates the wonderful diversity of the kink world. We conduct educational workshops and demos, for beginners through experienced players. We hold regular play parties and social gatherings for all levels of interest. Come Xplore BDSM with us!

WCPX - West Coast Power Exchange We are a real time group of like-minded individuals (21 and over), living in and around the Santa Barbara and Ventura Counties. We meet on a regular basis, for the purpose of socializing, support and education with others interested in, and living the BDSM lifestyle. 3 monthly public socials (Camarillo, Santa Barbara and now in Santa Maria). Email: wcpx_events@yahoo.com [Email List] [checked 8/29/05]

Women's BDSM Organization , New, for women in the Santa Cruz/Monterey Bay area. email daddy@dykenet.org for info!



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