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North CA:
Club Risqué .
The Overlook

Dream Catchers
Leather Fantasies
Lion & Bear Glass

Eureka Munch - Meets monthly for those individuals interested in BDSM who want to meet other people locally. Email eurekamunch@suddenlink.net [Email List] [checked 11/11/10]

MY Munch - mailing list for people in the BDSM lifestyle, or who wish to learn more. Marysville, Yuba City: Sutter, Yuba, Nevada Counties California, although the list is not closed to anyone living elsewhere. sierraflowr@gmail.com. [checked 11/11/10]

HBDSMC - The Humboldt BDSM Connection - A new and growing organization focusing on the unique needs of Kinksters living in redwood country. The group meets for munches, discussions and other social events. Email mailto:humboldtbdsm@gmail.com?subject=HBDSMC MUNCH [Email List] [checked 12/19/04]

Lake County Munch Group - Lakeport - A new group meeting together at our munch on the last Sunday of each month for mutual interests in the lifestyle of our choice. Email Missconduct53@aol.com [checked 7/13/04]

Leather/Levi Weekend - Saratoga Springs - August 12-15, 2004 - A leather community gathering and celebration with a special welcome to younger leather folk and those new to the leather scene. Email info@leatherlevi.org

Lost_Coast_BDSM - This mailing list is intended to be a gathering place for people interested in BDSM. The "Lost Coast" area is the specific target (Humboldt county, Eureka, Arcata, etc.) Get together to find out what is here, and what can be built. Welcome.

powerplayhumboldt - Eureka - a place for people to openly discuss issues that affect us. Hopefully also a place where we can connect for gatherings and other events that will help the community get to know each other and what's available out there for us

Redding BDSM

RedwoodCurtainBDSM - This group encourages participation locally in Humboldt County and all places between San Francisco and Crescent City, California. Redwood Curtain is Northern California’s newest Pansexual, BDSM, Leather, D/s and Fetish open-membership information and discussion group where everyone is welcome! We promote open, inclusive, loving, non-fear based participation. [checked 10/6/04]

WeAreRenegades - Anderson Munch - Redding, Anderson, Red Bluff, and regions north, south, east and west - for people interested in attending a northern Ca munch. A munch is an informal gathering for a meal with people so that they can eat and socialize. andei_ca@yahoo.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]

North California Local Email Discussion Lists: North California Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:
    #ChicoChat on BondageNet (irc.bondage.com) or #Chico-BDSM on DalNet (irc.dal.net)
    On IRC Dalnet channels for the area: #BDSM-Norcal


Atwater B.A.D. Group - Munches on the 3rd Sunday of the month. Contact holly at amorous_corsets@yahoo.com or adashi_pagoda@yahoo.com


Good Vibrations
The Berkeley Munch - Berkeley - Munches on the 2nd Monday of each month. 18+ Email: berkeley-munch-host@sfbdsm.net [Announcement Only Email List] [Fetlife] [article] [checked 04/13/14]

FantasyMakers Academy - Berkeley - New classes in the bay area DominaDeia@aol.com


Concord Munch (formerly Walnut Creek Munch) - Concord - A social gathering of like-minded kinksters on the last Tuesday of every month! For more information, email WCMunch@yahoo.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]


BRiDgE - the Bay aRea Diaper Enthusiasts - Campbell - This site serves the adult babies, diaper lovers, infantilists, etc., of the San Fransisco Bay Area, as well as those traveling to the area. It's goal is to promote the local community by distributing information on meetings and providing a forum for discussion. Munches on the 3rd Tuesday of the month. [checked 11/27/06]

The Fold - Lifestyle Social - Campbell - Socializing and D/s related discussions, tentatively scheduled for the 2nd Saturday of each month. For more information, please contact viper_001@mindspring.com or loxly1066@yahoo.com [checked 1/28/06]



Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/ Fairfield Munch - Fairfield - You're welcome to stop by and join us... Munches are a great way to meet other people involved in alternative BDSM lifestyles, ask questions, and share experiences. We offer a friendly, non-threatening social environment. Last Wednesday of each month Dungeon_Dreams@msn.com or rory_helm@yahoo.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]


NCBDSM - Chains of Passion - Folsom - a pansexual social organization for individuals seeking a supportive environment for exploring alternative sexuality, specifically the exploration of the BDSM lifestyle with both a members-only discussion email list and an announcements-only mailing list for events. Visit them also on IRC Dalnet #NCBDSM - Email ncbdsm@hotmail.com


East Bay Trinity - We hold an open forum munch the second Friday of each month, in Fremont Ca. Everyone is welcome to attend, from novice to the highly experienced. Come, join us, and meet other like minded people right here in the east bay. [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]


TGIF - The Group in Fresno Munch - munch group meeting the last Thursday of the month unless that falls on a holiday - get-together for folks who share a common interest in BDSM. If you're shy or unsure of yourself, this is the perfect place to be... everyone is friendly and non-judgmental. Mistress_Tawnie@TGIFresno.org [Email List]



ACLCAlameda County Leather Corps - ACLC - Hayward - not for profit organization composed of residents of San Francisco's East Bay promoting educational and charitable activities through social interaction among people with an interest in leather, levi's, uniforms and latex.

Sub Scouts - Hayward - To all you subs/slaves/bottoms/and switches in bottom mode. We have the discussion group for you. It is located in the East bay - A place that subs could meet and talk with each other about a whole array of topics. Giving support where needed and helping create a safe environment to talk of oh so many topics. For information please email Lovelyo222@aol.com

Marin County:


SMACK Dinners - Millbrae - held the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays of each month. Pan-sexual and open to sexual diversity and welcoming all poly, kink, fetish, BDSM and alternative lifestylers since 1997. RSVP to SMACK_Dinner@HotMail.com [Email List] [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]



The Frugal Domme

The Modesto Discussion Group - Social and educational group with discussions for those both new to the scene or the area and those established in the area, and the Modesto Munch which is now discontinued. abrac@hotmail.com [Email List]

Modesto Manor - A pansexual, local event and discussion group for those active in the D/S and S/M community

NorCal Tea Society - Modesto - Monthly teas for Ladies with twice yearly tea server training. The majority of the teas are held in Hayward or San Jose but some are held in the San Francisco, Sacramento, or other places.

Women's Leather/BDSM Forum - Modesto - Join us for an evening (the 3rd Thursday of every month) of provocative discussion with other like-minded kinky women! Socialize, hang out and have fun! This group is open to all self-identified women! Please RSVP to shewhocreates@yahoo.com for address and directions. [checked 1/19/05]



Purple Lotus
Kinky Wimmin! - Oakland - This group is a discussion and social group. We are looking forward to doing field trips and outings as well as talking about relevant issues. Meeting 1st and 3rd Mondays of each month. For all people who id as women and their ftm friends. All ages (18+), sizes, races, religions, ethnicities, colors, sexualities and shoe sizes welcome. =) ASL interpreter available. Questions? Concerns? Email Briana at dryadgrl@netscape.net [Homepage]

Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness - Oakland - provide a forum for African American Dominants and submissives to meet and exchange ideas. Please email HelloMahogany@gmail.com for more information.

Palo Alto:


North Bay Munch Group
- Petaluma - Munch group meeting on 3rd Sundays of each month - For more information, email NorthBayMunch@BigFoot.com


Dungeons / Clubs



Forbidden Expressions
Show Off Your Stuff
Cat's House - Sacramento - pansexual social and play space hosting a wide range of activities. Email sinfulcat@aol.com [checked 5/24/09]

KEG - Kink Education Group - Carmichael - The purpose of our group is to encourage others to make educated decisions in kink, and life. Bi-monthly meetings with discussions that are pertinent to current issues within the scene, and encourage an open floor discussion for everyone to contribute. [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]

Leather in Common - Sacramento - an attempt to bring the leather women of Sacramento together as a group. We currently host munches, discussion groups and parties for women and those living their lives as women. We hope to add classes with demos to our calendar soon. Straight, bisexual and lesbian women -- tops, bottoms and switches -- are all welcome. [checked 5/24/09]

LittleSpace Sacramento - Sacramento - a new group created for those interested in age-play in the Sacramento and Northern California areas. Anyone interested in age-play is encouraged to join: littles & Bigs, baby-girls & baby-boys, Mommies & Daddies, Aunties, Uncles & Guardians, dollies, furries, and other fun-loving kinksters. [checked 5/24/09]

MAsT - Sacramento - Sacramento - an open, welcoming pansexual resource for anyone involved in, interested in, or curious about the Master/slave relationship or any other "power exchange" dynamic. The gathering is open to any interested people and you do not have to be part of a M/s relationship to attend. ims08@hughes.net [checked 5/24/09]

Pleasure Bound - Sacramento - Pansexual BDSM group with munches and parties. [checked 7/25/07]

Sacramento BDSM - On Fetlife [checked 5/24/09]

Sacramento BDSM - On tribe.net - Hosting Koffee 'n Kink' [checked 5/24/09]

Sac Dommes - a group whose purpose is to have parties and demonstrations with the Female top dynamic. SacDommes is a pansexual organization and all women, and those who identify as women are accepted as Tops or Dominants. Accepted also are Switches in female top mode. We welcome submissives, slaves and bottoms of both male and female. Male Switches are considered to be in bottom mode when they join. [Email List] [checked 5/24/09]

s Sac Next Gen (SacramentoTNG) - Sacramento - group for those between 18 and 35. SacramentoTNG@gmail.com [On Fetlife] [checked 5/24/09]

Sacramento Spanking - Sacramento - A place for spanking fetishists in Northern California to meet, talk, and share ideas and stories about their fantasies involving the spanking fetish! Greater Sac area residents only. [checked 5/24/09]

Sacramento Valley Leathercorps - Sacramento Valley Leathercorps is a group of gay men and women dedicated to the accurate portrayal of the Leather BDSM communities. [checked 11/11/10]

Sacramento Women in Leather Munch - A woman-to-woman S/M support group. Email WILS@wil-s.org for more information [checked 8/29/04]

Sub Haven - Sacramento - A group for female only submissives. The group does accept female switches as long as in the submissive role when attending meetings of events. We meet once a month for support, information-sharing, education and fun. Email sub_haven@yahoo.com [checked 5/24/09]

"T" (Transitions) - Sacramento - Focussing on local area newcomers to the D/s & BDSM Lifestyle but open to all flavors. No RSVP is required to attend the munches held the 1st & 3rd Wednesdays of each month. We also do Demos and get togethers focused on new comers. Email dragun_hart@yahoo.com [Email List] [checked 8/28/06]

unDom - We are a female submissive group from Sacramento and Modesto, California. We meet on the first Sunday of each month. The group is designed for both newcomers and those familiar with WIITWD (what it is that we do). This is a safe place to discuss, share experiences, and to ask questions too.

Vices - Vices is not a formal bdsm membership organization. It is a group of like minded folks who want to enjoy community events and each other's company. We are based in Sacramento and will have meetings in different places to enjoy a wide variety of events already scheduled in the community. Vices supports the gay, trans gender and pansexual community and is composed of kinky and kink friendly folks. Vices holds "non munches" at changing locations.

Sacramento Local Email Lists and Online Forums:
    Erotic Edge - a Sacramento based BDSM Discussion Group offering a forum for free thought and information for the newcomer. [checked 3/25/08]
    Sacramento Southern Cross - A general discussion list for all alternative lifestyle members focusing on those living in and around the Sacramento basin. [Email List] [blogspot] [checked 5/27/07]

Sacramento Local Email Discussion Lists:

Sacramento Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:
    IRC Dalnet channels for the area: #BDSM-Sacramento

San Francisco:


San Francisco:
The Blowfish Catalog
The San Francisco Whip Co.
Good Vibrations
So Hip It Hurts
Stormy Leather
Mr. S Leathers
Stompers Boots
Power Exchange
Bondage A Go Go
SF Citadel The Sling

Andrew Morgan

The 15 Association - San Francisco - a social & sexual fraternity for gay men over 21 years of age into S/M. P.O. Box 421302, San Francisco, CA, 94142-1302 - E-Mail: howard@sfo.com

Bay Area Community BDSM Events Calendar

Bay Area submissives (BAs) group in the San Francisco Bay Area for submissives to get together socially, to network, to help one another out, and to have fun. BAs is gender neutral and all submissives are welcome. BAs meet monthly on the second Saturday. Info: 415-430-2160 x8984 or email SFLthrboy17@aol.com or info@bayareasubmissives.org

Cuir Underground a San Francisco-based online magazine for the pansexual kink communities , people of all genders and sexual orientations who enjoy SM, leather, fetish, genderfuck, and other forms of radical sexuality. Great list of resources

Defenders - San Francisco - a Leather/Levi club, and part of Dignity, the national gay Catholic organization. Defenders take a stand for the sacredness of our leather sexuality and explore practical ways of integrating sexuality and spirituality.

The Disciplinary Wives Club (DWC) is an organization whose purpose is to encourage the application of "Good Old Fashioned" spanking and other very traditional methods of discipline by wives and committed partners. Not BDSM

EduKink - EduKink provides BDSM / leather/ fetish / kinky, sexuality and relationship classes, parties, munches, and special events. [low-volume announcement list] [checked 12/6/10]

The Exiles a social and educational organization in San Francisco for women with a positive personal interest in S/M between women with monthly programs [Fetlife] [checked 12/6/10]

ForumThe Forum of San Francisco a Calendar of Events for motorcycle and leather clubs in the SF Bay area - PO Box 421862, San Francisco CA 94142

Golden Gate Guards - A South of Market Leather/Levi 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in San Francisco open to both men and women. We host many events each year and raise thousands of dollars for charity. We like to have fun, too! Email: info@ggguards.com Post Office Box 14478 San Francisco CA 94114

Knotty Boys - San Francisco-based, hands-on workshops by Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) who will shape your skills in quickly tying restraints that are as beautiful as they are functional. "Our goal is to demystify bondage and put the fun into it, all the while making it safer and much more aesthetically pleasing." For information, E-Mail knots2U@hotmail.com or call Voicemail: 1-510-433-7493

GGPET is a social group of bay area goths (and non-goths that like to go to goth events) that are into the local fetish/BDSM scene. The main requirement for joining GGPET is getting to know a good number of the existing GGPET members. Holding a munch to meet others on the last Thursday of every month. Email squee@sfgoth.com [checked 7/21/02]

lthrbuddiesLeather Buddies San Francisco - a private membership club for hot guys in leather, rubber and uniforms. We meat-up on the 4th Wednesday of each month

leatherman'sLeathermen's Discussion Group meets the first and third Wednesdays of each month in San Francisco

LYRICLYRIC - Lavender Youth Recreation & Information Center community center for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning Youth 23 & Under

MAsT: San Francisco - San Francisco Chapter of Masters and Slaves Together (MAsT) - MAsT is a social group for Masters or slaves or those interested in exploring a Dominance/submissive lifestyle, providing a meeting place for companionship and conversation about matters of mutual interest. Open to women as well as men but serving predominantly the Gay & Lesbian community of San Francisco. For more information, EMail Daddy Ken at MrKofSF@aol.com [checked 3/18/04]

Men In Gear - SF - The idea behind the group/site is to get people out of the house and into the public in gear. We need to continue to show that the Leather community is alive and well in our cities.

MOD - Men of Discipline - SF - an alternative leather fraternity for gay men who are serious about SM and the leather lifestyle and practice discipline in their daily lives

Phoenix Uniform club of San Francisco - The Phoenix Uniform Club was established as a fraternal, nonprofit organization in order to foster an interest in the trading and collecting of uniforms and uniform accessories and to promote creative social activity among its members while supporting charitable organizations. We hold regularly scheduled monthly meetings, which are open to anyone who is interested in learning more about the Club. We also host a number of other events throughout the year, the largest of which is the Annual Uniform and Leather Ball held during San Francisco's Gay Pride weekend (June).

The Ring Group for bisexual and gay men with Bondage Night the second Wednesday of each month - informal workshops men can see expert demos and get hands-on group practice in a safe setting. and a monthly Discussion Group meeting. For more information call 415-437-0883 or email the_ring@ix.netcom.com.

sfba-leatherdyke - event announcements for SF Bay Area women who enjoy bdsm activities with other women. Lesbian, bi, trans, dyke, queer - ALL of us, and yes ftm people are welcome

The San Francisco boys of Leather - providing a safe arena to empower self-identified boys of leather in serving the greater leather community, increasing the visibility of leather boys, and educating others in what it means to be a boy of leather. Through service and fun, we will support each other and our community. we define the term leather boy as broadly as possible, without regard to gender, appearance or sexual orientation. we come together in our common devotion to service and dedication to the leather community. 2nd Saturday monthly meetings. [Email List]

SF Citadel Men - San Francisco

San Francisco girls of Leather - SFgOL - San Francisco - Group to provide a source of communication, information, growth and support for Leather girls (Not limited by biological sex, gender, or sexual orientation) To manifest the power of girls and increase the visibility of, and educate the community about, Leather girls To be of service to and support activities within the Leather community. We meet the 2nd Monday of the month from 6-7:30pm at The Citadel in San Francisco. For info: lori@sfgol.org or hayden@sfgol.org

SFmunchSan Francisco munch/brunch 2nd Saturday munches in SF - For info and RSVP, email Jefe at JefeB@sfsu.edu

SFDSDG - San Francisco Dominance & Submission Discussion Group - Monthly discussions in SF

SFLeatherSan Francisco Leather Calendar

SF Men's Spanking Party - San Francisco - Parties are on the 2nd Sunday of every month (With Extra Saturday Parties during Big Event weekends like Gay Pride, Up Your Alley and Folsom St. Fair) This is a Male only event, the lighter side of S&M. 18+ Gay, Bi or Straight, Beginners are always welcome,this is a safe environment to explore or just talk with other men into Spanking. This is NOT a Leather S&M party. The entrance fee is $20.00 "1/2 price with Student or Military ID" *  For more Info. Call #(415) 864-2766 or or Email SanFranParty@Yahoo.com. Info on CAMP RED TAILS - go to www.manshandsfilms.com [Email List] [checked 11/11/10]

San Francisco Queer Leather Munch - San Francisco - This is a munch for anyone in the leather community of any gender or sexuality who identifies as "Queer." For more information, Email MusicGeekChic@aol.com

SFQueerSpank - This is a spanking group for queer folks into the spanking fetish. Daddy boy mommy/girl and anything in between.....role play and realistic discipline spankings! Sensual, yadda yadda.. on Tribe.net

scarletltrScarlet Letter Services Scarlet Letter Services experience-based approach towards risk reduction, fetishism and sexuality exploration strives to answer questions that often go unasked

screwupscrewup - San Francisco - a pangender/ queercentric/ trans- inclusive BDSM discussion and activity group for freaks of all natures. An unorganized anarchist organization that meets once a month, 2nd Friday of the month and do workshops and hands on stuff. Email screwup_sf@yahoo.com for more information

screwupSlap & Tickle Brunch - San Francisco - a group particularly for youth and those newer to bdsm. Brunches on the 2nd Sunday of every month as well as other fun events. For information, info@slapntickle.org and to RSVP, to the listing [On Tribe]

SHSSociety for Human Sexuality San Francisco Chapter

SoJanusSociety of Janus a non-profit, San Francisco-based education/support organization which explores and teaches the art of safe, sane, consensual power exchange

SoJanusSociety of Janus Calendar - Calendar of events for all of Northern California - Most frequently updated calendar to check

SFKinkyQueers - Events only email list. All Queer, All Kink

sfbayqueeragenda - Email list for Kinky, slightly kinky, and other events

spectatorSpectator Magazine - great essays (check the archives), local happenings and nightlife information

stampedeStampede! Munch - The San Francisco Bay Area Animal Roleplay Society - Pansexual organization that sponsors animal roleplay events, demos and competitions. 2nd Tuesday munches. - Email questions@the-stampede.com for info. [checked 11/11/10]

San Jose / Milpitas:



Dogrose Leathers
Draknon's Dungeon
Leather Masters
Pierre Silber
The Brotherhood - San Jose - A group of gay men who live in the Leather lifestyle. The group was started for social, play and other activities. [checked 11/7/05]

Constantines of the Bay Area - San Jose - a non-profit, social fraternal order for gay S/M men working to create a lasting interest in all aspects of motorcycling and motorcycling safety; we are also very active in the leather/levi community and lifestyle.

MAsT Santa Clara County - We are a pansexual organization dedicated to supporting, assisting, educating, and providing fellowship with those who seek to learn more about or celebrate the Master/slave dynamic in their lives. Email: MAsTSCC@gmail.com [Email List] [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]

SJLeatherSan Jose Leather has the Santa Clara County Leather Calendar

PurpleRoseThe Purple Rose Garden - Sunnyvale - Female Supremacy Group only for Female Dominants and their male slaves. mistress_purple@hotmail.com

SJ Brunch Munch - AKA PROvertsbrunch - Sunday munch meetings in San Jose. Come join us for some good food and fun company. For more info, E-Mail ms_tender@comcast.net [Email List] [Fetlife] [checked 11/16/10]

Santa Clara Leather Association and SCCLA, Their mailing list that provides information about local leather events and works to keep the BDSM/Leather community of Silicon Valley linked

San Jose BDSM - Email list for D/s in San Jose

SM Odyssey - San Jose - bringing the best in classes, information and social events to the BDSM community. Odyssey is committed to service to the community and the sharing of ideas. Hosting the San Jose Munch and discussion group meetings [Fetlife] [checked 12/6/10]

South Bay Girl Talk - San Jose - Whether you are Top/bottom, Domme/sub, Mistress/slave, Switch or not yet sure this is a place where those who are lifestyle experienced or beginners can talk about scene related issues that concern or delight you, with a group of like minded women who understand or can offer insight and advice in a confidential environment! We meet once a month for intimate discussion, in a private home in San Jose. Bring a SMALL Snack to share pot-luck format. Must identify as a woman 24/7. Contact: Spirit.Mistress@comcast.net [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]

Southbay Interactive Calendar

Southern Cross Munch - San Jose - Hosting the "Usual Suspects" munch every Friday - Gear down after a long week, meet up with friends for Friday night entertainment. [Email List] [On Tribe.net] [checked 6/11/08]

West Coast ponyplayers - A home for the fans, owners and trainers of Ponygirls (and boys). [checked 4/5/04]

The X Group - San Jose - A Pansexual Young Adult's BDSM Discussion Group for ages 19-35 To offer an open topic moderated discussion forum and allow people to explore issues relating to young people and SM/Leather/Fetish, and the SM/Leather/Fetish community. [Email List]

San Jose Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:
    IRC Dalnet channels for the area: #bdsm-bbw-sj-ca

San Mateo:

SanMateoSpanking - A Group for Spankers and Spankees on the Penninsula and surrounding environs

San Pablo:

San Pablo Munch the 3rd Monday of each month in El Cerrito - Munch information and RSVPs, Email OnlyMasters@aol.com

Santa Rosa:

The Fourth Tuesday Munch Group - Santa Rosa Munch group meets on the 2nd Sunday of each month (Email mark695@gmail.com) and on 4th Tuesdays (Email 4thtuesdaymunch@comcast.net) [checked 9/16/07]

Santa Clara:


DeltaBDSM - Stockton - munches on the 1st Friday of each month in Stockton - For information, email stocktonmunch@yahoo.com (formerly SanJoaKinKsters) [checked 8/28/06]


LosAltosSunnyvale Munches - Formerly Mountain View munch / Palo Alto Munches - Every Wednesday and 2nd & 4th Thursday evenings at Josline's in Sunnyvale - For Information, Email searcher@best.com for Wednesday munches and vicki@rjhg.com for Thursday munches.


Dungeon and Dreams Vacaville/ Fairfield Munch- See Fairfield

The Vacaville Munch - Vacaville - The Vacaville CA Munch is a great place to meet others in bdsm from the Vacaville, Fairfield, Dixon area and beyond. Third Thursday of each month. Email vacavillemunch@yahoo.com [Fetlife] [checked 11/11/10]


Visalia Kink Munch - Visalia - Meeting the Third Tuesday of the month. [Fetlife] [checked 10/22/06] [checked 11/11/10]


Masquerade - Woodland - (formerly Valley Talk) a BDSM support and social group located in the Sacramento Valley with twice monthly discussions and parties. Masquerade is for Anyone who would like to learn, make new contact with other kinky folks, or just enjoy kinky company. You can be in the scene, scene friendly or just plain curious. If interested / more detailed info email green-eyes@unforgettable.com or masque@themasque.org ** Discontinued as of July 8, 2003

Bay Area (General):

Mountain View:

San Leandro:


Play Spaces to Rent

Mountain View:
The BackDrop Club

The Overlook
AWOL - All Women Of Leather - Concord - F2F Dungeon with monthly meetings - Email XANTASIA@aol.com

Bay Area Munch List

Bay Area Leather Pagans - All of us are pagans, but some of us are also into other alternative lifestyles. Those of us in the bay area who are into the leather lifestyle and also identify as pagans are welcome in this group.

Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts Menlo Park - seminars, classes and demonstrations for singles, couples or groups

Service of Mankind Church - El Cerrito - Female supremacy group

sfBayTGbdsm - This is a goup for those who identify as crossdresser, transvestite, transexual, transgender, genderf*ck, pre-op, post-op, non-op, MTF, FTM, and all other gender variants, and those who love them, who are into b.d.s.m. and also live in the San Francisco Bay Area. [checked 10/7/07]

Singletales Adventures Group - the newest and coolest way to meet single people in the BDSM/GAY/LESBIAN/PANSEXUAL community. Join us for Adventures in Dining, Dancing, Pleasure, Theatre, Movies, Pub Crawls, Beach Walks and other great adventures! You must be 18 years of age or older and single.

SF_Bay_Med_Fets - We are a Local, social and play oriented group that is small, close knit and confidential. Membership is open Only to California and Western Arizona and Nevada residents with an Active interest in Med Play

SFBay_AdultRope - We are a local (San Francisco Bay Area), social and practice oriented group that is close knit and confidential.

Bay Area Local Email Discussion Groups and Message Boards: Bay Area Local IRC Channels and AOL Chat:

Central Coast (Ventura, Santa Barbara, San Luis Obispo, Monterey Bay):

Gold Coast Leather
Sake's Collection
X-Elles - Santa Cruz - We are a group of Women who play with Women (or would possibly like to). Our purpose is to create a safe community for women to express themselves with other women. or [checked 11/7/05]

BDSM SLO - CCPEX - California Central Coast Power Exchange - San Luis Obispo - For folks from San Luis Obispo county who are interested in bdsm in all its aspects - Munches are on the 2nd Friday and Socials on the 4th Thursday of each month. ccpex2002@yahoo.com [checked 8/28/06]

Central Coast Gen X Power Exchange - for people into BDSM and in the age range 18-30. Its a group dedicated to the younger generation of kinksters and forming a community just for them. x_bondagecowboy_x@yahoo.com [checked 7/1/06]

Santa Cruz Munch - Munch group Meeting every Monday at Denny's on Ocean St Open to anyone (over 18 years old) who cares to come hang out with us. We always love meeting new people. Ask the hostess for the "adult" group... or Look for either a Bat or Godzilla on our table. Email: BatMunch@castlewalker.com or rstats@pacbell.net for info

D/scovery - Watsonville - an educational list for scene folks to share experiences, be taught and/or teach others. We are open to all adult members of the global D/s community. "Back to Basics" Munch the 2nd Tuesday of each month

LA Ventura Munch - This group is for people in the San Fernando Valley / Ventura area who are interested in meeting like-minded people for coffee and conversation, meet and greet, munch… and maybe more * 3/04 - group is new

Monterey Munch - Monthly munches at different Monterey area locations. For information and RSVP, Email msmontaine@aol.com [checked 3/15/04]

The Scenery - (updated info pending 8/06) [Email List] [checked 8/8/05]

Domus Morsi Munch - (formerly known as: Top of the Hill) - Atascadero/Paso Robles - We are a group for people 21 years and older who live in the San Luis Obispo and North County areas and are interested in BD & SM. We act as both a support group as well as providing educational events. All are welcome at our munchs. Email domusmorsi@yahoo.com [checked 8/28/06]

XBDSM: eXploreBDSM - The Central Coast's Pre-eminent Kink Group & Mailing List! In California - from Monterey and Santa Cruz to Boulder Creek and San Jose - we draw a wide variety of perves interested in the many aspects of BDSM. We have on-line discussions covering the full spectrum of the BDSM lifestyle with our mailing list - in an environment that recognizes and appreciates the wonderful diversity of the kink world. We conduct educational workshops and demos, for beginners through experienced players. We hold regular play parties and social gatherings for all levels of interest. Come Xplore BDSM with us!

WCPX - West Coast Power Exchange We are a real time group of like-minded individuals (21 and over), living in and around the Santa Barbara and Ventura Counties. We meet on a regular basis, for the purpose of socializing, support and education with others interested in, and living the BDSM lifestyle. 3 monthly public socials (Camarillo, Santa Barbara and now in Santa Maria). Email: wcpx_events@yahoo.com [Email List] and [On Fetlife] [checked 4/6/09]

Women's BDSM Organization , New, for women in the Santa Cruz/Monterey Bay area. email daddy@dykenet.org for info!

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